A Brand New Low . . . . "Ever wanted to try scat?"

February 17 2024

When a 36 yo 'boy' who's "been into the bdsm lifestyle since I could remember" . . . . ignores EVERYTHING in the profile of a 53 yo woman who is CLEARLY articulate and knowledgeable about a vast array of Kinks . . . . by sending her an OPENING message with the words "Ever wanted to try scat?" Scat & Blood are extreme Kinks that the majority of the BDSM community is not into. They take an inordinate amount of research and training to participate in, because both have the potential for severe negative health issues. And it is beyond offensive to message someone who doesn't indicate ANYWHERE that they are into either one of theses Kinks. Which this boy would know if he ACTUALLY had any BDSM experience. * BDSM is not 'hot'. * A Dominant is NOT a guy who likes to be 'in charge' in bed. * Hair pulling isn't yanking on a ponytail. * Spanking ISN'T hitting. There are hundreds and hundreds of articles and videos online, which give people the knowledge and tools to explore every form of BDSM SAFELY. There are also e-books and ACTUAL books (of which I have several titles) that nurture and inform, so that we can all play safely and truly immerse ourselves into the spectacular beauty of Kink. So there is NO EXCUSE for being ignorant . . . and offensive.

Comments

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    2 years ago

    This seriously can't be your first message like this? You've been on RHP for years, under several names. Id get at least one message like that..... Or bestiality..... Or an Incest query...... Weekly. I dont even respond anymore, there's ALOT of strange folks on here these days.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    2 years ago

    It's pathedic isnt it? I guarantee they wouldnt have the blue balls to say it directly to your face. Let your fingers do the walking and go stomp on that block button! Ms Foxy

  • Ourmalibu

    Ourmalibu

    2 years ago

    I feel like I’m in trouble for something I didn’t even do 😂

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    2 years ago

    It’s called baiting. And it worked.

  • Andrea_Sydney

    Andrea_Sydney

    2 years ago

    I would personally believe that many of the “dom” profiles are men who think either a) it’s an easier way to get women to sleep with them because of course every single woman is into being sub (stupid but benign) or b) they are abusive men who openly indicate in their profile they are happy to beat the crap out of a woman for their own pleasure. I think it’s hard to find a true and genuine dom. They do exist, of course! But harder to find because some men think it’s a great way to have their way with a woman. I honestly feel for sub women, it’s harder to find a good connection than for your standard sex. I know the struggles my friend goes through. Luckily in messaging she’s easily able to spot the ones that just use the label to get in, for a benign or not so benign reason. But she has a scarce outcome. As for opening lines, agreed! Yesterday I had “want to come over to my place and get the best oral of your life?” 😂😂😂😂😂 I honestly don’t understand the logic. Do they get ANY replies EVER?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    Your profile doesn’t explicitly say anything about not being interested in scat. You also ask if someone is willing to push boundaries and experiment? That could be interpreted in different ways depending on your level of experience. So why not just say “No” and be done with it? Of course there are things we’d all not do. But being asked the question is how people work things out. It’s how we find opportunity and educate ourselves.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    Hey OP, I'm sorry that you were offended. Are you ok? Some background from a dude's perspective about the "dom" profiles. They get more replies. Submissive women are quite common online and a dom profile generates more interest than your standard vanilla single guy profile. Many of these women are inexperienced/curious but they aren't naive. Everyone has to start somewhere I guess.

  • Ourmalibu

    Ourmalibu

    2 years ago

    Maybe you should have said…You’d rather shit in your hands and clap! 🫢

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    I have recently learned there are a huge cohort of men who simply get off on just “offending” and they’re number one tool is “dick pics” If this guy was serious he has sooo much to learn but I’m also very concerned about his mental health. I’m sorry you had such an unpleasant experience Ms PerthVixen🖤

  • NeoAndTrin

    NeoAndTrin

    2 years ago

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