M53 F49
Absolutely couples only
August 25 2017
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boobsandbusted
8 years ago
Slightly different for us ,because as we as a rule ,we dont meet for drinks or dinners with people we have never met anymore , we prefer to meet at party's or clubs by chance or an organised meet there ,then maybe a dinner or drinks and if we are lucky ,a play date another time ,saying that we never plan too much and let the cards fall how they will, once we are out and about and go from there ,be it single guy or girl ,couple or couples ,whatever floats our boat at the time or as quite s few times nothing and just enjoy ourselves with each other and have a chat only with others and have a great night anyway ,couples can be equally as complicated as singles if not more so ,getting the dynamics right 4 ways ,hard enough getting it right 2 ways ,lol All that said it's horses for courses ! Mr b - Posted from rhpmobile
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FeistyFatty
8 years ago
We will never meet with couples again after an string of bad experiences. We prefer solo bi males for our couple fun. And as we have an open marriage; hubby will see single women and I will see single men. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've had fun meeting singles on here and I'm about to play with my first couple but I do miss the fun I had when I was part of a couple on here meeting other couples! I'd even say enjoyed meeting couples more than ffm. It's just a more friendly dynamic. I envy you both lol.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Are you weird for liking what you like then no you're not.... Everyone's journey is different, so meeting people that are like minded is so much more rewarding than meeting people because you feel as though you have to.... As long as you're happy with your direction it shouldn't really matter much to anyone else - Posted from rhpmobile
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playfulminx
8 years ago
If we had a steady stream of compatible couples who were free to meet us when we were also free, then we would probably meet more couples! Unfortunately we're both time poor and it's easier (though only marginally sometimes...) to meet singles. I'm also not nearly as bi as I used to be when we first started off as swingers so unless we meet similar minded couples (ie - not girl/girl focused), I might spoil the party for not wanting to have a massive taco fest. I wouldn't worry about what other people do. As long as you have couples to meet, that's all you need to worry about!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Ya like what cha like And don't feel a need to justify that to anyone who doesnt match up.
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Variety is the spice. Hence why we swing? Set nothing in concrete where sex is involved. We have no problem going to a couples night or any other configuration. It's all about chance of the night so why limit your chances by excluding all singles. I agree with the limitations of excess single guys at play meets due to problems but never at a meet and greet where they are never in excess anyway. A random single female or male can make a unforgettable experience when you least expect it. And with the task of getting a 4way attraction between 2 couples why not make a couple for your needs. A single woman that fits your specs, hunt around the meet for an eager suitable single male and presto, a designer couple ready to play. Eliminates taking one for the team......
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RHP User
8 years ago
Just meet couples /thread!
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rupamohan
8 years ago
Is it just us that have absolutely no interest meeting singles? I can't think of a reason why no one else can be same as you. So I have to say NOWe've tried meeting single ladies and also a single gent but for various reasons we've decided that meeting couples is the only scenario that works for us.Perhaps you may like to share reasons and hear what others have to say? This may help you to rethink, reconfirm the same or come to a different conclusion.
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FredAndGinger2
8 years ago
Hey. We're not looking for analysis on why we are interested only with couples. That's where we are on our journey and not considering changing that. We'd like to hear from other couples if they feel the same way. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I have found it really interesting how my ''journey'' has evolved and changed over the past couple of years. After different experiences you tweak how you do things. What you like starts to change based on your experience so far. At the moment I'm interested in couples only and nothing else, but that may well change again in another 6 months. It may be that you only ever play with couples again OP, or it could change again. Go with the flow I say.
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RHP User
8 years ago
I'd also be interested to know those reasons, but your choices are yours. Having said that, there's a slight frustration in your op. Are you asking the question here to justify/validate your decision or validate that to your partner? It might pay you to remember that many singles have zero interest in playing with couples, myself included. I have and considered all options in the time I've been on here for future meets, but I decided full intimacy and lust can't be there with the partner present. So before you go waving the couples rule the world flag, don't assume every single wants to be with you. I would join you for a drink or short exchange of pleasantries, then I'd ask you to leave the room lol but you see that's the problem for me, even being within earshot would put me off or hold him back from certain things he can't say. I need the verbal validation and I like to give it, it ups the intensity. So zero interest in couples here 😇
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AnnieWhichway
8 years ago
Etiquette is signing your post. Nice to know who's talking like any normal conversation. Regardless if you both share the same view, it makes a difference in context to those reading. Thanks in advance
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RHP User
8 years ago
We don't feel the same way. Couples are too difficult and often have lots of restrictions. Can't be bothered.
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SugarSugar69
8 years ago
I was completely over couples until last weekend. The we are a secure couple madly in love with each other crap but come play time and I always reconfirm the rules it goes to shit and 90% of the time it's the females who gets jealous. No rules were broken so what's the problem? What a complete waste of my time and no these couple are not new to swinging so what's the deal? Thankfully I meet an amazing couple last weekend and that was the best 3some I've had in years. She was completely confident and that alone made me want to ravish her! I'm not couples bashing but the door swings both ways hunni. Ms N - Posted from rhpmobile
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mrfunandnaughty
8 years ago
For me, this is a fantasy world which I like to dip into and out of as it suits me! I've played as a single and as a couple, with singles, couples, moresomes and at clubs. As long as the 'spark' is there, the desire to play with the other (More so than just passing in Coles!) and you play by your own rules and desires and respect others rules similarly, then all's good. If the dynamic of lust isn't there in the first place nor the feeling of it being reciprocated, then just call time and move on. An old flying adage.... 'it's better to be on the ground wishing you were in the air, than in the air......' Keep it fun people and memorable for all the right reasons! Here endeth the sermon...... lol x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Couples very hard to work around when I play alone. I work shift work, so my weekends are pretty much spent at work. I find single fenales much easier to meet with.
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RHP User
8 years ago
That sounds right, we were strictly couples only after a few nice experiences in a club.. only recently we have decided to try mmf, lets see how that goes... its nice to see eachother excited about the prospect of a play date and i think thats more what its about.. the date wont last long but the lead up and the memory are much more... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Although it can be really difficult to find a couple where all four of us fit and are comfortable, when it clicks, it's really nice. We dabble in singles from time to time, but it inevitably is not as much fun or interesting as another couple (or two!)
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RHP User
8 years ago
We've enjoyed great times with singles and couples. It's all about who feels right. Whether that be one or two playmates doesn't really bother us.
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FredAndGinger2
8 years ago
Quoting 'Mister_Playful' We've enjoyed great times with singles and couples. It's all about who feels right. Whether that be one or two playmates doesn't really bother us. Since you're posting from a single male profile then you're clearly in a different position to us - e.g. open relationship / FWB's / whatever.. We are longstanding couple with more than 20 years of close relationship with each other. We've tried MMF and MFF and we have too many emotions come up that made us both feel uncomfortable. OTOH socialising and occasionally playing with an honest loving couple has been the most successful experiences for the both of us.
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RHP User
8 years ago
We've been married 17 years, together for quite a bit longer. High school sweethearts lol. Started swinging about 3 years ago. So although we're not that different to you guys, we are all different in what works for us. Keep doing what works for you, have fun and who cares what anyone else thinks!
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