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Ask Me..Ask Me

October 18 2010

l like to read the profiles of everyone that contacts me..but it is really hard to form any sort of opinion or decision as to whether to contact them or not..when the only thing that they have put for most of their information is ASK ME.l am one of the rare few who have paid for a subscription and don't want to waste all my message buy asking questions that could so easily be answered in a basic profile...grrrr.how do others get around this? or am l being picky??? let me know open to all input on this one!

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RHP User

15 years ago

Im with you.for me...."ask me" makes me think they are hiding something.I automatically bypass guys whose profiles are full of them.JMO...BJxxx

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RHP User

15 years ago

I understand your frustration also as I too am a paid memebr and too be honest ask mes (as Miss BJ has so beautifully said) says to me they are hiding something alos...if they cant take the time to fill out a simple profile then I wonder what else they cant take tim to do....that being said these are your messages and you can use them how you choose....if the pics grab you then go ahead...otherwise move on to someone who has taken the time and effort... Best of luck Kisses Focus

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RHP User

15 years ago

I agree with all above, however, to defend the odd perportrator the accurate answer is not always there for use. But questions like smoking (ask me?) either you do or you don't. Unless ask me means they smoke something maybe not legal. The good old hair colour is another. Best description is always going to be a photo but then again, how old is their photo? Guess it is what keeps us all intrigued.

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RHP User

15 years ago

If I see Ask Me all over their profile, forget it! If one or two aspects says Ask Me, I feel sometimes it can be an ice breaker...I am all good with that! xxxx

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RHP User

15 years ago

To those who fill their profiles with ASK ME... ? I ask you..... WHY ? Either you are too lazy' hideing something ' or just plain ignorant.. I support those above who close up and look elsewhere...

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RHP User

15 years ago

I hope all the guys out there are reading this and taking note!!!BJxxx

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RHP User

15 years ago

A profile is like an advertisement. Would you want to buy a product if you didn't have all the information? Would you buy a tin with no label? Or a milkshake without knowing what flavour it was?

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RHP User

15 years ago

... or perhaps even worse. As women tend to have far more options than men here, I often interpret a lot of "Ask Me" fields as a sign of arrogance - as though they feel they needn't bother filling them out, as men will contact them anyway. A good profile is important to me, so I rarely bother with the owners of incomplete ones.

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