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Break Ups By Text... what the hell???
November 04 2009
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RHP User
16 years ago
Cannot explain....very poor form if you ask me... Im really sorry that he has broken up with you, however if hes not man enough to face you and talk to you...is it worth the energy? Onwards and upwards i say sweet Tabitha!! bb
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RHP User
16 years ago
Tabitha, What a low act. And so disrespectful. Be thankful you only wasted a year on this looser and can get on with finding someone who is deserving of a gal like you. I think most men want to avoid conflict at all costs, and so use a text to avoid acting like a man. Personally, I like my men with testicles. lovebittenxoxoxox
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RHP User
16 years ago
A very selfish and cowardly act, he should at least have the decency to sit you down and explain face to face.Oh well, now you know you can do better than him.
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RHP User
16 years ago
He was gutless I guess. At times like that you just have to learn to say "NEXT". Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
arsehole - thats all i can say - ARSEHOLE
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Bubbaj
16 years ago
hey tabitha,happened to me too after a 2yr relationship. He was too coward to admit to me face to face in case he got bashed :P Turned out that he liked someone younger and was already hitting on her before we broke up via text!There are always bigger and better things to come!
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RHP User
16 years ago
To play devils' advocate.....how would you have reacted??Are you a yeller?? A screamer? An abuser??He may have felt it easier to avoid all that and just text you???But...in saying that...I'd say he's just gutless and has done you a favour by letting you find someone better!Just my opinion...BJxxxoh...and sorry...im not a guy...but wanted to comment
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RHP User
16 years ago
WHAT A SPINELESS WIMP!!!.......so tell me, when are you feeding him to the sharks?...jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
agreeing with miss bj here, how would you have reacted? but none the less it is cowardly i mean how can you justify a break up when using only 499 charactors? that barely begins to explain on why the person and you dont click. What a pussy. I hope for his sake the reason he texted was a severe case of laringytis (not sure how it is spelt). and was in a serious car accident which only left his the only working feature on his body.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lol trishl ... those caramello bears are "not good for you"... in the quantity you talk about them let alone consuming that many.... hehe. You need to find a new addiction.... lolz... errr... do you need a hand? Hugs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Tabitha,..If he was unsure of your reaction...he's a gutless wonder with no balls....He's not worth your time time n energy giving him any thought.Better you found out what he's like now than much later on.Awww Trish my heart goes out to you too sweety.....Karma's going to bite them guys on the tush....IN a BIG WAY...and you girls will have the last laugh and a better life.....Better with out them xoxoxoxo heymumma
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RHP User
16 years ago
How does that saying go Boys are dumb..throw rocks at them! Chocolate & hugs x
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RHP User
16 years ago
I don't think Tabitha's potential reaction has anything to do with what that guy did. He simply has no balls, no spine, no guts and no respect to end it to her face. Pathetic! Tabitha deary, it might take you a while, but you will look back on this and THANK your lucky stars it has ended. What a knob. T.
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RHP User
16 years ago
lolz.. organic for sure.. emphasis on organ, trishl.. I def recommend an older man to start with... lolz.. someone around 48 is where Im thinking... then for those extra stretches to relieve the tension we could introduce a younger man... someone like beachbloke3 for instance.. lolz.. I think he lives somewhere nearby... you know.. for emergency exercise.... cold carrots... I know you have a bit of a thing going in the vegetable aisle .. lolz... who am I to argue the point over that??.... Mangos.. highly recommended this time of year.. blueberries.. excellent antioxidants..... lolz.. and lots and lots of pilates instructors... oh wait.. errr... I mean pilates. :p HUgs Gazza
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RHP User
16 years ago
There is no insight, you should be glad you never have to talk to him again!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sad to here that Tabitha......Well...at least you got a text...I was seeing a guy for 3 months and ..POOF...he vanished..it is quiet the mystery...*shrughs*. I was sad for a cpl weekes but then silly me realised that he is not worth my thoughts..If he is not man enough to face me then why should I put my thoughts towards him.... Hope you feel better soon babe sweetpetite41 xxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
i forgot to add this, abotu two years ago, i had friends fiance email me with a break up for her, second hand break up via email the end of it said, dont try and call me i wont answer, and dont come to my house or ill call the police. directed at her now me. the part of the email he wrote to me was rather nice and casual.
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RHP User
16 years ago
A perspective he was my best friend for 15 years and last year when i split from my hubby told me his intentions... so yes I think I had a right to more than a text... secondly Nope not a screamer... this guy was my best friend... I would have listened Thirdl have since found out his reasoningy... his excuse was that I have to many other commitments ie kids uni etc and I was apparently just using him for sex...hmmmmm weird
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RHP User
16 years ago
Got that right Trish.... I am noticing since returning home that men just don't want to commit..The chase is done...so then are they??? ...hmmmm...All a mystery...But you just got keep telling the dog to get outtta the kitchen while making breakfast, and lucnbox..telling your kid he can't watch TV on a school morning cause he has to eat breakfast..and finish getting ready for school..make his bed ..pick up any clothes on the floor and put them in the washing basket..still tell the dog to get outta the kitchen again..Cause he is like a damn hyena waiting to see if I drop food on the floor...bloody dog..LOL..try to make my cuppa coffee...then dog wants outside..wash breakfast dishes..get washing machine going..check kids room..awww..crap the dog back in the kitchen..hahahahahhahaa...Gotta love a school..mornings!! ROFL...I could go on with this..!!! hahahahahhaha.. I still smelling the roses of life.. Tabitha..Now I am even more shocked! awww..hugs for you babe xoxooxoxo...Now that really suxs what has happened to you.....You do what you got to do to get through Uni and raise you lovely kids..We single mum's thrive on these challenges.. Love will come your way..xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx Loving kisses sweetpetite41 xxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
My ex did the same to me We were together for a few months, well we went away for a weekend to melbourne I woke up and got her breakfast everymorning so when she woke up she could have breakfast in bed, I saw a horse and carriage so I took her on that through the park and stuff like that I took her on a river cruise for dinner, we went shopping and I basically just went out of my way to make sure she was spoilt when we got home she kissed me goodbye for the day then 2 days later she said we had a personality clash and said she didnt wanna see me again blocked me off facebook and changed her mobile number I still dont know the real reason she dumped me but by text was shit
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RHP User
16 years ago
heartless people out there...I wish there were words I could say...i wish there were things I could do...where's miss honey and her bloody kanga when ya need her...they say life's journey has its ups and downs...the ups are awesome...and the downs are shit...but aswe ride on our next upward journey, we are a better, stronger, more resourceful person than we werebefore...and know that there are people, yes we may be butt-less or faceless, but we are behind you, willing youon, wishing you well, our fingers are crossed...that the next upward ride will be so exhilarating, so totally mind blowing, that everything in the past palesinto significance...cheers and looking forward to your next upward journey...jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
Get outta bed earlier and stop moaning! lmao, jokes!I get outta bed as late as I can, drag myself into the shower, spray water in my eyes then get a lift to work since I work with my dad. ;DSorry for the off-topicness!
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RHP User
16 years ago
i keep looking at this post, and reading. My god people are such arseholes.
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RHP User
16 years ago
How we think people will react to what we do or say has EVERYTHING to do with how we go about things.And our judgements are (usually) based on observed behaviours.Now this is not aimed at Tabitha or her ex.....but in general....From my perspective....the only people that don't consider other peoples reactions to them....are the ones that don't consider other peoples reactions to them. Ever.Just my opinion....BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Agreed to a point.. how we think people will react to what we do or say should only have some impact on how we go about things... doesn't mean you can't act with with nobility, respect and gumption in your dealings with other human beings. Any guy who dumps you by text is just a gutless knob. Trixie.
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