Crossdressing

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Just give her the opportunity to make an informed decision.Take it from there. Hiding stuff won't make you feel any better or enjoy your desires

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  73bandit

  6 years ago

  LOL

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  AnnieWhichway

  6 years ago

  See there are still Neanderthals around in 2020....

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  AnnieWhichway

  6 years ago

  OP. Assume you will get caught because you will.When you do, your world will collapse for you and your partner.Think long and hard before you slide down the slippery slope.There is no easy route to take but there are very hard ones if you take the wrong turn.Lives have been lost in the minefield of which you talk.

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  KSB79

  6 years ago

  If you are doing it behind her back then yes, you will likely feel guilty and when (WHEN) she catches you it will cause issues because of the deceit and dishonesty. If you are doing it behind her back then coming out to her will be a big deal, not to be taken lightly and a challenging time for you both. Are others having a similar worry? Millions. Being more open about it, doing it more and more and playing whilst dressed more - these can certainly have impacts on the marriage. No one can say what the outcome will be, because it depends entirely upon you two.. but if you think she wont see you differently if you cross dress more and more and play in the feminine role more and more then you are probably mistaken. Think about it in reverse. Would you see her differently if she stopped shaving her legs, wore guys jocks, and was online doing cam with other people in a role very different from what you are used to? Would you see her differently? Good different, or not-so-good different? I don't think you'll find anyone recommending what you should do - this is up to you. Your choices have consequences though. I would hope your relationship is strong enough and open enough and honest enough to be able to absorb this into it - because it could be a wonderful addition to a great relationship. What you could do is refine your question into separate posts where people can provide constructive advice:- Discuss shame for instance (because it is a common fetish and you shouldn't be ashamed), but many do. How to overcome it. Counselling can help. Reading good books can help. Some credible websites can help.- Ask others about options/ways to open up to a partner on topics of kink/fetish (because there are many ways). These discussions could help give you the confidence and the means to talk to her about it in a way that avoids the issues. Some smart Google searches will return good results in these areas too. Just recognise the difference between fantasy and reality, understand the balance needed, and choose your own adventure based on your own real-life relationship and not the bullshit propaganda found in pornography. I wish all the best though, because hiding who you really are should not be the answer, not today where we are so much more accepting and welcoming of diversity in all its wonders. xo

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