Do true old school gentlemen attract

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  NeoAndTrin

  one year ago

  That's a pretty good question. I consider myself to be a gentleman but it a thing that doesn't really come across online. It's more a trait that is really only demonstrated in face to face situations. I think having confidence and good banter will always serve you better because you need that to draw people in. Being truly a nice person/gentleman is something that takes time to show and you don't get that luxury here. I don't see RHP as a slow burn getting to know you gradually kind of place. Having said that, if you have patience and always show that nice guy/gentleman persona online here or in chat then maybe it will pay off. If you are wanting to show the nice side of yourself then go on cam in the chat room and leave the dock in your pants. See if you can engage with people that way.

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  FeistyFatty

  one year ago

  Absolutely. My husband is a gentleman until he's asked not to be lol.

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  RHP User

  one year ago

  Like NeoAndTrin it doesn't tend to come across that well online. And you tend to only get to show that if you are lucky enough to meet someone here. The problem seems to be that words and behaviour online account for nothing as there are waaaaay too many males out there pretending to be something just to gain something. Even then there are those that love the old school gentleman thing and those that find it a bit shall I say weak and not macho enough. I have been friend zoned many a time for being the gentleman especially in my younger years

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  BiPeggyGal

  one year ago

  I absolutely prefer gentlemanly nice guys who can banter and chat. I get many younger men messaging me but their horny dopamine-chasing, impatient behaviour doesn't work with me wanting to meet them. I prefer people who are slow burn, I'm not able to rush stuff.

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  boobsandbusted

  one year ago

  Yes ,some days the peacocks will outshine you ,out talk you out snooze you ,but eventually everyone’s true colours shine through and the nice guy wins , Mr b

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  SafeHands2024

  one year ago

  I have come to the disappointing conclusion that online, looks trump character (or gentlemanly behaviour) 99% of the time.

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  seekandplay

  one year ago

  Absolutely old school gentlemen attract. So many variables to it though, but yes - give me a respectful, good hearted man any day. That’s all I’ve ever looked for on this site, I found one, so there are ladies out there looking for those little golden nuggets. What did it come down to? A polite and friendly intro message. A profile that read really well, made me smile and not an ounce of dirtiness. A good conversation to start with, that flowed well and wasn’t all disgusting questions. Not everyone is looking for this, but I was and that’s what I was drawn to. Keep looking… she (or he) will be there somewhere in this RHP world I’m sure! Took about 1800 messages for me to find my friend.

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  EarthQueen

  one year ago

  The words old school is off putting to me as see it more connected to stereotypical gender roles. Gentleman ? How ? Make it more descriptive and individual . I'd rather know how someone sees themselves as a person than use a generalised term.

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  Eddie691

  one year ago

  It depends on if you're coming from a self satisfied, self possessed place or not, internally. The only thing that matters to women is whether a man loves and respects himself deeply, loves women and the feminine without any hint of bitterness and is able and willing to lead. You can be polite and kind but if you don't have these qualities it won't be enough. That's what 'nice guys' are, nice but not compelling.

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