Erotic decor

August 03 2025

I’m currently putting together a number of much needed finishing touches to the design and decor of my home. I have been fixing all rooms, except the bedroom. How do I make the decor inviting for a good sensual and passionate romp, *without* putting up fetish equipment, dildos and lingerie on the wall etc. I have some ideas but undecided (thanks, I have seen How to Build a Sex Room) So what art or decor sets the tone for you? Lighting? Music? Anything else..?

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  • NeoAndTrin

    NeoAndTrin

    10 months ago

    I don't think anything beats a big mirror. Especially the sliding wardrobe type ones. I still haven't gotten to have a room with a ceiling mirror. It's in the list though.

  • GlitterBunnies

    GlitterBunnies

    10 months ago

    A hint of natural light which can be dappled with curtains, shutters or blinds, creating an internal twilight.

  • Brian_Breynolds

    Brian_Breynolds

    10 months ago

    Depends what you’re into? For me, I would probably consider the five senses and try to have something for each one. - A few nice lamps that can be dimmed. - Oil diffuser or incense burner - A good quality speaker - Some nice massage oils and maybe a massage table Can’t really think of anything for taste, maybe just bring some nice chocolates in from the fridge.

  • Blueflamingo

    Blueflamingo

    10 months ago

    Good storage solutions for toys, lingerie and anything else you need at hand but dont want on display. The feels, I love soft blankets, furry pillows and rugs that invites you to touch and feel. Some other piece of furniture than a bed which can come in handy, a large chair, bench or couch. Heating and cooling sources for winter and summer to keep a comfortable temperature. I am also a HUGE fan of mirrors.

  • Flirty2020

    Flirty2020

    10 months ago

    In our opinion, the decor of a nice “Boudoir” should be sumptuous and comfortable. Think pure Egyptian cotton percale bed linen, natural fine weave fabrics, well appointed furniture, high quality woolen carpets, well designed mood lighting, temperature control, ambient soft music playing in the background, art and mirrors to accentuate the view….. We do, after all, feast with one’s eyes.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 months ago

    Nice Topic OP LED light strips. You can change the color, have multiple colors, change with your moods. It’s also fun to set them to sound sensitive. I've seen them installed at the top of the wall where it meets the ceiling or around the bottom of bed base. It makes for a fun light show. Turn to red when time to sin. 😉 BEDDING: Nothing bets a good, clean freshly made bed/bedding. For me its really inportant. I've recently purchased 1200 TC Egyptian Cotton Sheet Sets (on sale). My God they are divine! Worth every cent. CANDLES: I'm really liking the "Wanderlust" brand at the moment. I wait until till it's on sale (usually Myer) and order a few items then. I like their scents. Subtle but not strong. PLAY BOX: I have a couple of cane enclosed baskets as decor. No one would have a clue what's in there. I believe KMart/bunnings have just come out with under bed roller storage drawers. Ms Foxy

  • seekandplay

    seekandplay

    10 months ago

    A beautiful cuck chair. A gorgeous long mirror. Beautiful soft lighting. A little music speaker. A bed with a strong bed head and ways for some restraints to be clipped on. A nice tall boy set of drawers for storing and displaying some of your equipment. Or, a large enough space in the wardrobe for a secret suitcase 😉 A spray of Chanel Coco Mademoiselle.

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    10 months ago

    Ohhhh yes this topic ,we are always thinking what can we add to the playroom but us also a vanilla guest room ,

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    boobsandbusted

    10 months ago

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    boobsandbusted

    10 months ago

    We have these in our rooms for different sizes condoms or brands ,lubes ,wipes etc

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    10 months ago

    Easy to pick up and put away all in one shot and keeps it organised

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    10 months ago

    I love the pun, all in one shot. 🤭 What a great idea. I like that little stationary stand hack. KMart has so many items that can be hacked. Ms Foxy

  • Thesunlovingsub

    Thesunlovingsub

    10 months ago

    I have retractable usb chargeable fairy lights, a little ocean projector that changes colours, and the multi-coloured smart bulbs in a pretty lamp are cool too. All vanilla, portable, inexpensive and customisable to your mood. There are also some beautiful ways to use your own nudes to create discreetly sexy art if that’s your thing x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 months ago

    For some reason I'm imagining a James Bond style secret display cabinet but instead of weapons, it's various types of other ... "hardware" with Q explaining the tactical operation of each one.

  • Spicyheat

    Spicyheat

    10 months ago

    Great post. Natural wood furniture or bed side tables, wood is warm and natural. A chair is always a good addition, sitting kneeling, bending over. Indoor plants are in at the moment, always good. And a big phallic cactuses is always fun.!

  • Fuckyousweetness

    Fuckyousweetness

    10 months ago

    Damn it I read it as erotic dancer, first time around 💃💈

  • seekandplay

    seekandplay

    10 months ago

    Or… hear me out… a Murphy bed. Vanilla bookcase by day. Flip that baby over - erotic by night. There’s all your hidden gems. Could squeeze a St Andrew’s cross in there somewhere, ha!

  • Andrea_Sydney

    Andrea_Sydney

    10 months ago

    I like dark, moody colours for walls and floors, dimmable light and some smaller light sources. Textured blankets / sheets and pillows. Overall dark and moody, that I find sexy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 months ago

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  • NeoAndTrin

    NeoAndTrin

    10 months ago

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  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    10 months ago

    Amazing guys thanks so much!! I will definitely have to work on the soft lighting, music source and curtains, towel storage, and handy toy box. Still thinking about where to put the erotic cactus haha… love it ❤️

  • BlueSpark

    BlueSpark

    10 months ago

    Besides the usual suggestions... We have a gorgeous professional photo of the Mrs, it shows her from shoulder to butt, cuffed from behind. It's quite tasteful, naughty, and a great conversation starter or tease - especially once our guests find out it's her.

  • Zeldarella

    Zeldarella

    10 months ago

    I love this thread! So important to get the mood right. I'm an art consultant...so if you're looking for sensual artworks I'd be happy to work with you. Xx

  • Water8oy

    Water8oy

    10 months ago

    Velvet Wallpaper. Ok so please hear me out. I know it sounds strange. Firstly, I hated velvet wallpaper until a sexual experience about a year ago. I entered the bedroom of my then FWB and I was shocked to see velvet wallpaper on all four walls. I thought it looked hideous lol. Each to their own. I reluctantly asked why all the velvet? Her reply was, you'll find out. My imagination quickly ran wild, I thought will she be using some concoction on me or her to stick to the velvet wallpaper? I had no idea but the thought felt so erotic it just added to the excitement! (Before reading on, do you have an idea why?) I couldn't wait to find out. We started on her bed with lots of foreplay but as I was going down on her ensuring I was pleasing her I couldn't get out of my mind the velvet wallpapers' intended use because she clearly had a reason. Anyway back to the foreplay which went for at least 15-20mins on each other, the intensity and build up was electrifying. She had already cum but like me I knew our next move was that bloody velvet wallpaper. She asked me to come over to the wall, my face lit up in anticipation, she grabs my hand and we move over to the wall. She faces the wall and I knew she wanted doggie. As I inserted myself inside her alreadybwet pyssie she puts her hands on the wall along with her face as i start to slowly f*ck her. I was mindful not to slam her head into the wall so I continued slowly in and out, she said I can go harder but not too hard, I didnt want to ask anything at that time because the hot look on her face while it was resting against the wall with me inside her gave this feeling of a more erotic and sensual touch to it. Watching her feel desired and pleasured, tongue coming out of her mouth while her hands and face moved slowly along the wallpaper, just gave me an image I'll never forget. She looked GORGEOUS and HOT!!! I literally exploded inside her and not long after she had another orgasm. So, after this incredible sexual encounter had ended, I didn't need to ask again what the velvet wallpaper was for. I just knew!!

  • Wecome

    Wecome

    10 months ago

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 months ago

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