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Wannahavefun3283

Wannahavefun3283

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Fun with straight couples

June 30 2014

So are going to the Gold Coast next in few weeks with friends who are kinda hot... we are sharing an Apartment together and looking to try have some fun with them... Soooo where do we start and how do we get them into it.... Any ideas ???????

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  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    11 years ago

    Could turn ugly, and then you're all there with nowhere to go... If I was really getting a sexy vibe from them I'd break out the tequila and start talking about how different some relationships can be. And then have a plan b, of how to make things less awkward if you freak them out, which could happen.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Initiate the conversation where you ask them if they've ever considered playing as a couple with other couples. I've always found honesty amongst friends is the best policy .... A few bottles of champagne or shots won't hurt ;) but I wouldn't advise waiting until you're at the apartment to spring it on them! Better to be clear about where you all stand before you go. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I sit in the corner and watch and listen ? Hp xo💋 Because you're worth it...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I don't think you can get anyone "into it", if they are not at least a little bit interested already.Do you know if your friends are swingers? I can imagine if they are not they may be unpleasantly surprised at your avances, subtle or not, and your friendship may be affected.Tread lightly, I'd say. I like Paradise's suggestion, talking about different kinds of relationships. Find out how they feel about swingers in general first. If they say "Eww", you know to back away gracefully.

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  • Smilingwithfun

    Smilingwithfun

    11 years ago

    I wouldn't be broaching anything on the first night. Would be an uncomfortable time for the rest of your holidays if it didn't go well.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Go back in time, get some vodka/tequila etc, get sloshed and play truth or dare..... The girls have to kiss / your wife has to kiss her husband etc

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Then if it's uncomfortable, you can blame it on the alcohol, if not then.... "That was fun, let's do it again"

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  • Wannahavefun3283

    Wannahavefun3283

    11 years ago

    She's a Nympho and loves sex, do people still play truth or dare these days lol??????

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I am having a Nostradamus moment OP.......you could be heading for disaster..... tread with caution....unless you are willing to risk a friendship .....x Q

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I personally wouldn't. Not with friends, unless you know that they are swingers. Even then I think too many emotions may get involved.

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  • madotara69

    madotara69

    11 years ago

    Be staight up with them and allow them some time to discuss the idea, if they are interested they will have at least had enough time to address the what if's and all those feelings that could destroy the relationship, not just with you as friends, but themselves. She may be a nymphomaniac but he may not see her as that same person with another man or she for him same same. Mado Tara xx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Wannahavefun3283' She's a Nympho and loves sex (Allegedly) so am I. That does not mean I'd be willing to fuck a platonic friend if he suddenly came on to me. It would probably severely damage the friendship.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Susan80' I personally wouldn't. Not with friends, unless you know that they are swingers. Agreed. I'd go as far as to change it to EVEN if you know that they are swingers. I wouldn't risk a friendship by introducing sex into it.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Send em a text message saying "wanna fuck??" :p - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    If I was to pop the question over some drinks it would be ..... Would just mention at the start that you have an open relationship but not make moves on them. If they are not comfortable no more talk will have come of it and it won't have been as risky as letting then know you want to swing with them. If you have gotten them talking and interested I am sure they will come back and ask questions Could also wait till the last night of the holidays to say something, that way if things become awkward you only have one night of awkwardness instead of 5 or 7. All depends on how much you value their friendship if you say something and they are offended and don't want to be friends after that v staying safe and bit risking anything cause you value their friendship too much. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • Wannahavefun3283

    Wannahavefun3283

    11 years ago

    Thanks for advice guys it's doing my head in now lol... It's mainly for the girls to play together and guys to watch or join in with there partners only to start off.??

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    We think its worth the conversation while drinking. That way if they are not into it, you can blame the drink ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I think it might work

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    ...and that is don't unless it's mutual. Specially married friends. You don't want a 5 minute fuck you could possibly later regret.. In saying that. I have a FB who used to be married to mate . He treated her like crap, and she didn't deserve that, so this doesn't bother me..

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'Susan80' I personally wouldn't. Not with friends, unless you know that they are swingers. Agreed. I'd go as far as to change it to EVEN if you know that they are swingers. I wouldn't risk a friendship by introducing sex into it. If they were just aquaintances, then maybe and I would still be putting out some feelers first , good friends, no, I wouldn't. Maybe you could mention you saw some show on tv about swingers and see how the discussion goes.

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  • threesixty

    threesixty

    11 years ago

    Was up on the GC in March with a group of boys. We headed off to Hollywoods in Canal Av and it was full of couples. It could be the ice breaker to get the ball rolling... Heaps of eye candy for both sexes... Nothing ventured, nothing gained... If you want to kick the night off in style, try Moo Moos for dinner, great food and impeccable service...

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  • JohnAnn2227

    JohnAnn2227

    11 years ago

    We would look at this as a long term plan. Maybe aim for nudity and possibly sex in front of each other. When going out at night where something revealing and sexy (make it obvious that you are wearing a g-string) as this will get comments and playful banter. You will most probably come back tipsy together to the apartment and that is when the boys can try and "con" you girls in strip poker. Play along and see what happens. When all naked loseing team then has to kiss winning team, then blow winning hubby and so on. Good luck!

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