RHP

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Getting back on the horse

July 29 2018

Prior to having our 3 kids my husband and I had had a couple of sexual encounters with another woman. Fast forward 6 years and 3 kids and we have just started talking about trying to arrange another encounter with another woman. How do you get yourself back in the game?!?! Haha We live in a pretty small town, but are heading to Melbourne in October. Thinking maybe trying to organise something for then, so plenty of time to work on my courage and confidence! Any tips? Haha - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I have visited many small towns and am always surprised at what I find on dating apps, websites etc in that town, and they things they are into. Granted, when you actually live in a small town there is a distinct possibility that you may know a lot of the people on there, but people are generally quite good at keeping secrets when it comes to sexual stuff. You just never know who wants what you want in your town.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    I’m sure he’s doing most of the talking lol 😄

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Learn to have a thick skin and let irrelevant comments roll of your back like water off a ducks because heaven forbid in a couple the woman speak up and have a voice 😱 omg!! (This coming from the women who’s sick of seeing comments like “sure it’s the woman”) Secondly chat to each other, make sure you both know what you want and don’t want so that you are both on the same page. Then just have a look around, check out profiles, see what you both like the look of and make contact. Most people are ok with discrete, you’d be surprised, start slme chats and see if connections are established... take things from there... trust your gut, don’t compromise and just relax and enjoy the flirting and have fun. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Pay for a membership - that way you can msg people instead of waiting and hoping people msg you... sending msgs is no guarantee of reply though lol but it’s always a good start to be able to initiate chat with people who interest you! 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    for parties at the time you're in Melbourne. There's also the date finder and travel options too. Good luck 😊

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Most people are pretty friendly and can steer you in the right direction. Flirt parties in Melbourne has been recommended in a previous thread too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Can you only use chat if you upgrade? Or is it just my phone that won't let me? Lots of great advice, thanks guys. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    if couples can use chat unless they are paid members. Using chat on your phone is annoying as the app is so limited. Try PC or laptop, in explorer seems to work better for me rather than other web browsers.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    . - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Be confident and comfortable in your own skin 👍 Be friendly and open and honest 👍 Make it fun and make sure you can have a laugh 👍 The best fuckbuddies you can have,are normally good friends you meet along the way 😉