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June 26 2025

I don't ever know what to say as an opener. It seems we have an ok profile but struggle to get good banter going. What do people suggest to get things going?

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  • NeoAndTrin

    NeoAndTrin

    11 months ago

    Just comment on something you like about their profile. Might get a foot in the door. It's hard to get many replies around here in case you hadn't already figured that out.

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    11 months ago

    Include something on their profile to make it personal and don't contact people that you're not a "match" with.

  • Apples_N_Oranges

    Apples_N_Oranges

    11 months ago

    Really, you struggle to get good banter going. We find that hard to believe considering the great validations you have and from some very attractive people, one of them being a group/party who appear to be very choosy about who they invite and we know they speak to/vet people. Maybe you’re not having as much success as when you started and it feels like you are in a lull. Our question for you would be - how long have you been on here/in this lifestyle? If it happens to be around 6 months to 1 year, based on your profile/validations/friends etc, I wouldn’t be complaining to much.

  • Kervan

    Kervan

    11 months ago

    Hi... Just be yourself, and ppl who like your profile will get back to you... Hi😀😉

  • StillSoftandwet

    StillSoftandwet

    11 months ago

    Suggest??? Well maybe how's about when you contact someone and are talking to them and are having your ever elusive "Banter" maybe don't just cut and run in the middle of a conversation and delete your messages and block your profile. Maybe manners might be to give an explanation for your behaviour!! Or just say "Sorry my bad, I shouldn't have contacted you and wasted your time" thanks for the chat, look after yourselves. Live long and Prosper. 🖖