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RHP

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Help finding the perfect unicorn 🦄

December 26 2018

So, my boyfriend and I have been together for 6 years and we both fantastise about introducing a beautiful female into our sensual love making. One problem...we don’t know where to start. This is the first app we’ve been on to search but all the bites we are getting are all from either men, or other couples. Does anyone have any advice to finding a beautiful, intriguing participant? We are both professional, sophisticated people and would like to find a like minded friend. We are also both very devoted, and passionate love makers who enjoy wining, dining and being very kind to each other. We have booked a hotel room already but am starting to think it will take a little longer to find that perfect person. Would we have more luck finding someone out one night or is this the best place to look? Thank you, we would love and appreciate any advice! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Welcome to the site.. If you have something particular in mind you desire your best bet is to pay up for membership to be able to send messages to the profiles that match yours. Otherwise you’ll constantly be sitting on the sidelines waiting to be approached. A single female is highly desired and many profiles seek them. Be proactive. Pay up. Send messages and good luck with it!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    And probably don’t jump the gun and book accommodation!! Lol Remember the profiles on this site belong to people. Real people with real lives and it does take some organising most times to arrange a meet with anyone.. it’s not just about when you are free but then and their availability as well. Additionally the majority of single females will most likely want to chat and establish a connection and comfort before jumping into hotel rooms... remember they are doing this on their own so will seek reassurance to ensure that what you both want pairs with what she wants.. there’s many a match with what you seek, many a way a potential meet could play out and ground rules need to be put in play before hand to ensure boundaries are respected at all times on the path to sexual satisfaction...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Post more sexy pics of the mrs, just not too sexy so guests can't see them.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Two words. Good Luck.

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  • HotNightsGC

    HotNightsGC

    7 years ago

    Work on your profile some more. If what you seek is the company of other bi curious or bisexual women, you’ll be competing with many other couples for the same thing. Explain what you’re offering to single women by spending time with you. More detail gives women a better idea of who you are and if you’d be a good match in the bedroom. By being transparent as to what you’re looking for and also equally respectful, you’ll attract more attention from single women. More pictures would also help. No too explicit, just enough to invite further attention. We hope you enjoy your journey on here 😉 Ms HNP XX

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  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 years ago

    Good luck with that👍🏻

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Wow. Thank you everyone so much for your responses. I have learnt a few things from other users advice ... -I will be updating our photos to something a little better suited to us and a little less tacky (the main concern was if people we knew recognised us, but I guess that’s just a chance that we will have to take) -personalising our profile to bring a little more emotion and detail into it -upgrading our subscription And we will be patient...to be honest I only booked the hotel to give my boyfriend an extra little surprise present for Christmas (even though it’s really for me haha) but I can easily change the date if we don’t have any luck. Thank you all again! 🥰😍

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  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    7 years ago

    I think the best way to think about it is if you (the couple) were a single man, what would you be doing to find a girl. As a girl, I get that you may not be used to doing the chasing but booking a hotel and planning her as a Christmas present (to him or yourself) is not the way to approach it. Few girls want to be treated like a piece of meat, which is easy to overlook from the 'safety' of a relationship. Keep that in mind 😊

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Wh84066 - the majority of people here seek discretion as well - we have working lives and family lives, as such don’t feel like you have to have a face pic in your public gallery.. put it in your private gallery and therefore you control who views it.. if you are chatting to someone and you think you’d like to exchange face pics go for it, if not then that’s your choice as well.... good luck with it ☺️

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Verify your profile. Anyone (single female or otherwise) will want to know they aren't dealing with a fake profile. Over 50% of profiles are fake on these sites. If you are genuine then be careful.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Quoting 'wh84066' -I will be updating our photos to something a little better suited to us and a little less tacky (the main concern was if people we knew recognised us, but I guess that’s just a chance that we will have to take) I think you'll find that most people who visit this site and look at couples are people who are actually genuinely interested in couples. I think pretty much everyone on here is discrete.The only problem I have with posting my face pic is that I know a few people at work who - for shits and giggles - like to set up fake profiles on dating apps just to see who's on it, whether they know anyone etc. Which is a little bit childish but anyway. Were I just to have a classic vanilla profile, looking for classic vanilla things, I wouldn't give a toss if my face were on here. I would rather not have any of the aforementioned see a pic of me on here however, click on my profile and see what it is that I am after. It would have repercussions.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Nightingale8 has a good point as well... don’t expect or assume a ah for lady to fall at your feet... they do need to be wooed a bit.. remember that they are people just like you, with wants desires needs insecurities fantasies boundaries.. The foremost important thing you can do as a couple is to ensure that that single person is the most important person to what’s going on. Make them feel included and as significant a part of the planning as if it were the two of you planning a weekend away together. Ask for her input in location, time, date, pre drinks, after drinks, anything you are thinking you may like to experience run it by her and include her in on it. Make her feel involved included and valued.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    As spontaneous as you'd probably like it to be, I think nights like that are probably best being planned. Who knows, the lead up to it could be interesting

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