How did this happen? :o

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Tell her to have another glass of wine!

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Well, I always knew my partner was naughty...I used to have the romantic we will always want each other...then I found myself being attracted to other guys and women...and before you knew it I was the one encouraging further sexual experiences. So far we have tried couple to couple... Men to man with me watching ;) and now he is very keen for me to try 2 gorgeous men...by the way I can't wait...so excited :)) I think is just a matter of knowing you love each other but sex will always be more exciting if you experiment and let go!

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Enjoying a few drinks one Sunday afternoon at a friends house. The girls decided to get naked, take their glasses and enjoy a skinny dip, while us guys chatted about this n that. From the giggles coming from the pool we could tell there was plenty of naughty talk going on between them and after a while they came out to refill, came over and said, "How'd you like to go to a great naughty place next weekend?" That "great naughty place" ended up being Utopia on the GC, which introduced us both to such a great aspect of swinging, as I'd always enjoyed the thought of sharing my wife with others and to have her willing and wanting to experience swinging was devine. That was many years ago, and we've never looked back, we enjoy all aspects of the lifestyle, its been a great journey for us and we've even made some life long friends along the way..

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'tickled_kink'Tell her to have another glass of wine! It's funny cause it's true!   x Ms Shout

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I told hubby after a few wines and we were getting romantic and talking ect he asked me if I had any fantisys I told him I kissed my best friend when I was 15 and would like to kiss a woman ect again the next day he had created a profile on a Internet site . It took a few scary meetings before I had my first full on experience I played with a girl for 6 months before she moved away . From there we we moved to couples with both of Us playing untill we were to meet a couple and had booked a motel ect when only the guy could come because one of the kids had come down with a gastro ( we had played with them previously and it was clarified by the wife) so I had my first MFM then after a while hubby had a drama with his work when we had arranged to meet a guy and couldn't make it so suggested you can go on your own if you like so after a bit of nervous thinking I very nervously went to meet the guy on my own and played solo he took a few pics for hubby and I came home glowing ( hubby's description ) to give hubby all the details ect If someone told me 15 years ago I would have done 10% of what I have experienced and enjoyed I would probably been shocked and probably disgusted that they would suggest I would do such a thing lol- Posted from rhpmobile

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  Cheekyarses

  12 years ago

  Mr Cheeky and I have always been naughty.... I in particalar seem to have a reputation for having a naughty mischevious mind and a smart wit about me.... I give as good as I get and sarcasum just comes natural..... But.... we had had threesums before we were ever on this site and other naughty things....It was actually Mr Cheekys idea that we go on this site.... I was alittle apprehensive about it at first - the whole low self esteem kicks in and will I be good enough etc etc.... But the excitement and the unique ppl we have met has made this a worthwhile cause in many ways.I met my two best friends on here almost 5yrs ago..... Both incredible girls who I love dearly and spend alot of time with, one I still have sex with...... The other we have coffee and lunch regulary.This site is not for everyone and it is not to fix a marriage or relationship. I do believe that to go onto a site like this both partners need to be 100% in participating in looking, messaging, etc etc. It is not for the weak relationships - that is just my point of view.We recently met the most incredible couple who are so inspiring, fresh, can hold a conversation about anything and we can still chat sex - love it when this happens.Great topic OP

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Interesting that some of you had already had experiences in the 'real world' before RHP. Our story is far more mundane - since we were both interested in threesomes and had fantasies we wanted to explore, and our sex together was spectacular, it made sense to create a couple's profile and widen the base, so to speak. It had a little bit more prompting from Mr Tryst, to be honest (who went from 30 views a month on his single profile to 300 on the couple's. That was a step down for Ms Shout though, from 3,000 to 300. Life ain't fair!)   Since we made the profile almost a year ago we've had fantastic times on here as a couple and met some wonderful people, and crossed many things off our fucket lists (though more seem to be added weekly!) We play seperately, but we usually see each other once a week, and try to meet a third/fourth once every few weeks.   T & S (we're on the couch in the same setup, but this time it's a glass of orange juice and an afterglow!)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  You can never tell who-where or when so it becomes an art to use a conversation to bring up the topic. Even with that I was caught out by a gal I was seeing as she spoke like a duchess and acted proper in the bedroom. One weekend we decided to stay at some log cabins in Donnybrook and her best friend came along. It was cold weather so I went to make a hot coco and came back to the fire in the lounge to find them both naked and it was on. In short you will have no idea who is into what but its fun when you do.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I've always been a little sexually extroverted. We had a few personal issues happen in our life which ended in us having some very difficult conversations.We came out the end of it and realised life is too short to feel guilty about our urges. We decided that the most important thing for us as a couple was that both of us felt satisfied in all aspects of our lives and that the trust and connection we had was strengthened by doing so, not torn apart.I heard a friend talking about meeting people through RHP for a foursome and I joined up to see if it could assist us in finding like minded people we could play with.And here we are, not really any further in our journey, but the fact that we're on it is great :DMrsSplicey

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  I've never been in a swinging relationship myself, so I'm finding this quite inspirational. While I understand how the subject would come up with someone you met here, I really wouldn't know how to broach the subject with a guy I met outside of RHP. I've not lived a sheltered life, but before joining I'd never met a couple who were swinging openly. It makes me wonder what the percentage of swingers is in "the real world". But then I'm also not sure how I would feel about sharing my man, if I were in love with him. Only one way to find out, I guess.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Enjoying picturing Ms_Shout in a dressing gown and ugg boots for a moment...We've always been adventurous, and this just seems to be a bit of an evolution. The only obvious catalyst was availability - we moved to central Sydney and options opened up so to speak. We prefer the clubs and social events though, screening and organising dates just adds a level of difficulty we couldn't be bothered with.So our first "swinging" experience was at Aarows. Oops, it's not really for beginners. Might tag along with a guide next time we're that adventurous (looking at you Meeka). We persisted though and finished the night as popular exhibitionists at the now defunct Lotus Lounge a couple of hours later. It was fun, so we kept going.RHP was part of our research, with the proper profile and forum interaction coming later, and really just because you are all such an interesting bunch!Mr C

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  We have always had a fantastic sex life that only seems to be getting better despite 14 years of marriage. We started watching porn to spice things up years ago and the topic came up for us while we were watching a group scene one night. Once I got my breath back (Mrs Sherpa) I simply asked how one would find another couple or group to play with. After Mr Sherpa picked his jaw up off the ground, it didn't take much prompting to google "Swingers". This is the first site that popped up and after we set some ground rules for ourselves to make sure this is what we wanted to try, we haven't looked back.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Our sex life has always been adventurous and is evolving rather nicely...but...back then I was very attracted to particular types of women and had fantasies for a number of years of what it would be like to be with a woman...Hubby suggested going to a swingers club to help me fulfil my fantasy...we looked in the local paper and found two swingers clubs in the personal section...I nervously called both of them and felt a good vibe with one...LP's Wangara (sadly no longer in business I believe) and we ended up going there one night to check it out...we chatted to a few people and decided to come back another night...this night I met a really hot chick who popped my lady cherry that very night...was just what I needed to cement the fact that yes I do LOVE women and FUCK I should have been doing this years ago! HahaAs far as RHP is concerned, we found out about the site from people at the club and then decided to join! Have not looked back since!:D xxx Magz

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  It's got to come out (the 'Subject') coz you just can't keep that kinda thing in. Whatever the response will negate how long you'll be with that partner.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Not sure, I have always been a bit voyeurish and wife and I have had some experiences, not many but as we get older our fantasies are getting further apart with her losing interest in doing things, even simple flashing so, I envy you guys.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'tickled_kink'It's got to come out (the 'Subject') coz you just can't keep that kinda thing in. Whatever the response will negate how long you'll be with that partner. Good point.

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  madotara69

  12 years ago

  Probably some of mum and dads friends, they had lots of friends and when they threw a party, a quarter acre block would fill with them all, they were exciting times, so many people all laughing, battles of wit, practical jokes and 4 litre casks of Riesling wine, Coolabah rings a bell.It was funny to see all those proper ladies, most were mums of all us kids running around, getting louder and more flamboyant if that is the right word as they gradually got pissed on wine off the tap. Back then, I used to think the naughty forties was all about the grown ups all getting drunk in someones back yard, usually ours. Dad had a good record collection, and music was a big part for how the mood everyone was in, they sang along to most of the songs. "It's nine o'clock on a Saturday , The Regular crowd shuffles in , There's an old man sitting next to me , Makin' love to his tonic and gin He says, "Son, can you play me a memory, I'm not really sure how it goes, But it's sad and it's sweet and I knew it complete , When I wore a younger man's clothes." "I heat up, I can't cool down , You got me spinnin' 'Round and 'round , 'Round and 'round and 'round it goes , Where it stops nobody knows, Every time you call my name , I heat up like a burnin' flame, Burnin' flame full of desire, Kiss me baby, let the fire get higher, Abra-abra-cadabra, I want to reach out and grab ya "And all ways, Santa Esmeralda- House of The Rising Sun Then not that long ago, Tara was giving me a blowjob, I joked with how some lucky bloke should enjoy this, and She liked the idea, we got really horny talking about it, here we are and some lucky bloke met with us, a couple of times. We liked it.Mado, Tara xx

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  Two_Tarts

  12 years ago

  Following a few drinks we somehow arrived at that fantasy converstaion which was a game Mrs never seemed enthusiastic about. After some initial reservation Mrs came out and said "my fantasies are no good for us" and then left it at that. We had already been together for 20 years and done all the usual stuff, along with some slightly 'out there' stuff in life and love, but in bed it had only been the two of us.   Well, I (Mr) took the hint and did a search on swingers to discover RHP online the next day. After another day of looking and learning there was that moment when I called Mrs over to the computer after the kids had gone to bed and said "have a look at this and tell me what you think" Now I was pretty much expecting the negative response that you might expect from telling your reasonably straight wife that you have just discovered some really kinky porn online that she should try, but I was happy to wear that risk. I still recall my surprise and shock when her first response was "what is there really a place where we can look for people to do that" and the conversation just flowed from there. We have often talked about what the possibilities would have been if we had discovered swinging earlier, but we always agree that we plainly found it and decided to indulge when the time and place was right for us.   A couple of years and a lot of learning and discovery later we have met a whole bunch of awesome people, done more liberating and fun stuff than we could have imagined, and our communication and understanding with each other has a whole new level of open and honest because now our best fun of all is getting to share those naughty secrets with each other.   we_want_to xxx (hope you do too!)

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