How do you pick a bot?

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  Zpaset

  2 days ago

  Bots are easier as you will usually get a response within a set time. They ask questions designed to suck you in but have difficulty answering questions often ignoring the question and asking another question. If you ask the same question in two slightly different ways you often get the exact same answer. People faking accounts are harder but they will definitely not be able to meet so avoid the conversation heading in that direction. They usually want access to more photos. They will also talk how many men fantasise women on here will speak to them. Asking to see your cork or complementing your big cork and asking to see more. In my experience women are not that crude straight out of the gate, they definitely will want to see what your packing but only after talking for a bit and getting to know each other better. If it sounds too good to be true then it usually is. Just make sure anything you send can't identify you, that it's only from your albums and you have on your account and spent some time thinking about it. And trust your gut, most women here are looking to meet and will decide very quickly if you are what they are looking for or not. Personally I'm suspicious if I get a reply at all, but I will always treat them as a real person and with respect hoping that they turn out to be genuine.

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  NewOldStock

  2 days ago

  I think this is getting harder in the world of AI that's constantly getting cheaper, more advanced and open to everyone Perhaps ask them to prove they are real early on if you are suspicious to gauge interest or mention that you've had trouble with bots. I think a quick video call or a selfie doing something specific (e.g, them giving a thumbs up) isn't unreasonable to ask for. I'd be careful if they reply at odd times, avoid normal back-and-forth, rush the relationship, or try to move you to another app right away. If they keep making excuses, ask for money, or if their story does not match up, move on. There are probably other tells, maybe other commenters can help. It's not easy though for sure.

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  nutsundae

  2 days ago

  Sorry that's been your experience. Maybe I've been lucky, but all the fake profiles / pic hunters I've encountered so far are easy to spot as being our old mate Dave, the hairy truck driver. Best advice I can offer is as Zpaset has already shared above. Always follow your gut (not dick) and stick to the old adage: if it seems too good to be true, it probably is. Still, hard not to get excited and sucked in sometimes. I know I always find it a bit flattering when Dave messages me from a new profile and my devilish charm has his panties around his ankles within 5 minutes. 🙌

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  MsSuperFoxy

  2 days ago

  Ask it? Ms Foxy

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  Deetsy

  yesterday

  I was actually accused of being a bot the other night. It was weird. I was chatting nicely to this guy, no pics exchanged, just general chit chat. He told me his story, I told him mine. Then he said he thought I was a bot. Which blew me away. He gave me his number and pretty much demanded I call him, and I explained that I was sitting with my 12yo and I couldn’t call. He got really shitty about it, saying all us girls were the same and he was just a genuine nice guy. To me, he didn’t sound like a nice guy in that moment. He made me feel awful and guilty that I put my child first. He continued on in an abusive way. So I went to my room and sent him a voice message, saying I was sorry I offended him, that my children come first and also don’t need to hear me of the phone to random men. That they aren’t stupid, they can hear the difference in me talking to someone I didn’t know vs a close friend, and I refused to put them in that uncomfortable situation in their own home. I then wished him well in his pursuit of finding someone. I gave him the time to hear it and respond. Which he did, going on about why it was so hard to just call and prove I was real. Then I blocked him.

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