RHP

RHP User

M41

How long before you get bored of a partner?

December 21 2024

In the latest iteration of my existence in online dating, I’ve listened to my “ghost of conquests past” and recognised patterns that lead to very short-term escapades. A more mature outlook than the “what the fuck’s all this about?” 30 year old me dictates investment in a more mid-term adventure is on the cards. But I am curious to know from all you lot; how long do your fuck buddy situations last on average before one of you calls it out of boredom or loss of that spark? I’d say for me it’s probably been 3-5 play dates with some serious outliers thrown in.

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one year ago

    Hahaha well it has always been when they get sick of me if I am lucky enough to find one

  • Alex_Lover

    Alex_Lover

    one year ago

    I'm not into fuck buddies, so it's when the connection has run its course or dies. Anywhere from 1 date to 10 months thus far. I've had a couple of women (whom I didn't play with) tell me their number is 3. After 3 play dates, they're done - Alex

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    one year ago

    I've gained the nickname (by my daughter): "The 2 date Fuck Off", for a reason Ms Foxy 🤭🫣

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one year ago

    Been with my FWB for nearly 4 years. Never been bored. We try and catch up every 3 weeks +- 1-2 weeks.

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    one year ago

    Anywhere between 2 weeks to a few months depending on attraction and compatibility...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one year ago

    At least 10 catch ups or 6 months, unless both of us communicated that it was going to be a one time thing. Sex gets better over time