How much mental connection is needed?

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  For us, both an intellectual and physical attraction/connection is important before play is considered. To make things even more specific, we want everyone to connect (not just one sided). We don't necessarily put a number on it, that is nigh impossible. It all comes down to our feelings, the general good vibes we get from the other people, whether their expectations are more aligned with us, their dos and donts for play meets and how they treat us with respect and not pressure us etc. With some people we have picked up on all those things after a first meet and greet but usually it happens when we have met them socially a few more times. I guess it comes down to common sense, gut feeling and just a general good impression made. Like most other people, we don't want to live in another couples' pocket and we don't expect them to either. But when you are getting highly intimate with someone and possibly sharing your soul mate with others in a moment of fun tinged with lust and passion, you want everyone to feel right about it and have fun. A mental connection, with physical attraction, together with mutual respect and a friendship, is the way that feels right for us. Suffice to say we hope to meet a nice genuine couple who have those same wants as us.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  We feel that a mental connection is important to have with playmates. We look at it as more of a "could we be friends with these people". If you don't get along with us outside the bedroom, or if you only want to play without at least drinks or dinner first then we aren't interested. We see the mental connection as mutual attraction, mutual respect, possible friendship and having fun with each other. Pretty simple really. I don't think it has anything to do with the mental connection you would look for with a life partner. They're playmates, it's a different type of connection.

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  Paradisepair

  13 years ago

  If it's a super hot tradie, I'll need barely any mental connection as long as they keep their mouth shut. The mental connection in that scenario would be a bonus not a pre-requisite.

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  But for me I don't need one cause that's what I have my husband for and rhp for me is about my fantasies and naughty desires . But I have also met some great people , which I love to hang out with , but most of the time as I know them more I want to be friends more and fuck them less Dirty sex is for strangers , makes it even hotter !! - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  13 years ago

  As a single woman...Connection means a lot to me...NO CONNECTION I just can't go there.But then again I do get on with so many people that's it's very rare I meet someone when there is NO Connection what so ever.Foxy

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