Kinks

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  NeoAndTrin

  one year ago

  I'm pretty certain that's just a dog shit excuse/cover to cheat

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  FeistyFatty

  one year ago

  Of course there is. If there's a porn tag, there's a corresponding "kink".

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  RHP User

  one year ago

  Piss poor excuse for cheating.

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  Brian_Breynolds

  one year ago

  Yea the taboo aspect is a turn on for some people. Legitimate kink, illegitimate excuse to cheat.

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  MsSuperFoxy

  one year ago

  Yeah, "Homewrecker Kink" It's a thing I have mixed feelings about it and do understand it. Ms Foxy

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  CandiKane

  one year ago

  Yes, Its definitely a kink rooted in power, dom, sub dynamics. It still doesn't excuse the act. Ones desires, kinks, fetishes, whatever is never an excuse for treating another with such disrespect.

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  Alex_Lover

  one year ago

  I've chatted with a couple of women who get off on the cheating, more than the sex. It's definitely a thing, that doesn't mean it's a good thing, or justified, just 'cause they wanna do it - Alex.

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  CravingMore

  one year ago

  A kink is just a desire isn’t it? And just because a person has a desire to do something doesn’t make that thing OK. We can’t just do things because we want to, because they make us feel good, or fulfilled, or aroused, or anything simply because we have a ‘kink’. That is either a weak person, or a person who has not got the required consideration of others for me to want them to have in my life. Obviously, nothing is ever as black and white or as simple as it seems, but general consideration of others is a requirement for a good human in my opinion. Some people don’t have the required control, IQ, EQ, maybe they are battling with their inner child or whatever. They are all reasons for people to do shitty things, but that also doesn’t make it OK. As I don’t know what’s lead up to this in their life, I don’t judge them, but I do CHOOSE to not have those people in my life.

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  The_Milkman

  one year ago

  Yeah, I’ve actually come across someone who claimed to have this so-called “cheating kink” They said they got turned on by the idea of being sneaky or knowing their partner didn’t know. Instant ick for me. Felt more like emotional immaturity dressed up as a kink. There’s a big difference between consensual non-monogamy and straight-up betrayal. Total dealbreaker.

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  RHP User

  one year ago

  I think that people who cheat werent loved by both parents.

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  Flexi3rd

  one year ago

  Of course there is. But first you have to figure out what constitutes "cheating".

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  AbhayBarrs

  one year ago

  Simple, the lust and thirst of sex is more and more powerful than a commitment to the better half

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  Tara72

  one year ago

  If it's a kink then it's something done with mutual consent from both partners. "Cuckolding" and "hotwifing" would be considered kinks but it is done with the full knowledge and consent of both partners. If one person is driven to cheat on their partner habitually then it is certainly a psychological compulsion, but not a "kink"

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  dianet

  one year ago

  Kinks are so wide and varied. What is right? What is wrong? Ultimately it comes to one's values, ethics and morals, and those of all parties involved. I've heard of cheating kinks in several scenarios. 1. They want to experience the feeling of going behind their partners back, as a rush, the secret, being caught etc, but they have an otherwise wonderful connection and relationship. Something that can be talked about before (and after perhaps) the "cheating" such that the relationship is not jeopardized. 2. Another aspect of a cheating kink is wanting their partner to cheat on them. I know some get off on the mere thought that their loving partner is fucking others. Are they actually doing or not? Again communication something to be raised, but time, place or person not disclosed. 3. The other kink I know is playing with a cheater. A couple might want to see their partner (or both) fuck a married man or woman, knowing they are cheating. Now the parties here are all consenting but what about the partner of the cheater... if the cheater belong to one of the above 2 situations then that's different...what if not, if it's a liar keeping their partner completely in the dark... Cheating / being lied to (even ommission) is a terrible thing, that is very destructivd. But a cheating kink can be handled ethically. Kinks don't always make sense, even if it's the "common" desire to be beaten on the arse black and blue...each to their own, at the of the day communicate, so only willing parties can partake without being mislead.

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