Ladies, what’s the best opener you’re received?

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  OpalRose

  5 months ago

  Are you not a cunning linguist? The best openers are originally thought of by the person who is messaging. No matter how good the opener is, things turn south quickly if they cannot back it up with further conversation. Stealing or borrowing openers doesn’t allow you to be you. However, my most successful openers include the following: 1. Some type of comment about something written on their profile to show I’ve read it. 2. A general joke about something we likely have in common (that can be about rhp itself) 3. A couple questions to find out a little about them. These can be generic but think of questions every likes to answer. 4. A confident question. Something that suggests I’m confident and interested. Should also get a giggle out of it. Absolute no-no’s: 1. Dick pics 2. Sex pics 3. Smut 4. Sleaze 5. Over confidence 6. Just talking about your dick 7. Fake compliments 8. Bullshit compliments There is enough here to generate your own message. The level of effort men put in on this site is dismal. It’s horrendous. Follow my guide and you’ll be better than the 95% of trash men send. I genuinely think they consider their messages junk mail: high volume, low hit rate. 95% of women want to learn about you and who you are. Not about your dick.

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  cunninglinguist

  5 months ago

  Thanks Opal!

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  BarberBoss1981

  5 months ago

  When I get "hey hows it going" ... "what you doing" ... "are you awake" or anything like that, its an instant no reply because its minimum effort. If I get a full novel i know its literally just a copy and paste with no originality. As Opal said mentioning something from my profile that we may have in common, is generally a winner!

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  Unbecoming

  5 months ago

  Among the few great ones... one man asked if he could guess my coffee order in three guesses, and if he got it right, he would love to take me out and buy it for me x It was fun, flirtatious and not sleazy - he didn't get it right, but the conversation continued very nicely!

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  Blueflamingo

  5 months ago

  Copy - Paste what Opal said, spot on 👌🏼

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  Sawadee

  5 months ago

  lve read some pretty corny openers over the years,.. so l just be myself.. Works in the real world , that's the main thing.

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  BrownSugar33

  5 months ago

  This is hands down the most difficult part of it all for me, the dreaded opening line. Lol the life of a decent single male on here is a tricky one.

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  PleasureCraft2

  5 months ago

  Writing an opening line feels like….i imagine what Richard Burton felt like on the night of his second wedding to Elizabeth Taylor. I know what we need to do, Just not sure how to make it original and interesting. 🕺💃🏻

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  SCR34M

  4 months ago

  A masculine man doesn't ask questions, he acts and goes after what he wants. A needy man asks women questions and in turn her attraction level drops to zero very quickly.

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