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MY INAUGURAL GANGBANG!

March 31 2018

Is taking place on Sunday! I have a ‘protector’ in place...so far, it is me and twenty strapping men. Some are bi some are straight. I’m looking for preparation advice. I just had my first couples experience on Thursday, they were lovely people but I really need to push that boundary further. I have rediscovered my love of anal this last few days. This encounter and the yum sex I’ve had with an ex lover which lead up to it awoke my inner beauty and I am utterly insatiable. Anyway, I am looking for tips, pointers, what to expect before and more important during and after. What is the best thing to wear? Have you had one or been a part of one? What advice can you offer? Thanks, Femme xx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    ....you've paid your private cover and ambo subscriptions. Good luck. ⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I’ve never had one , but I would assume , lots of lube! And when you get too sore , you would start doing other things... listen to your body is first and foremost if things don’t feel right or it hurts — stop and change or don’t do it! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    But id like to hear what you thought of it after the event.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Best advice is make sure that you have lots of lube and protection. Have all twenty actually confirmed? From what we understand there is a fairly high ‘drop off’ rate. Equally best bit of advice is to have fun and remember that your safety, comfort and health are the first priority. Can’t wait to hear all about it - details,, highlights, insight, and advice. Enjoy! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • TheScorpions

    TheScorpions

    8 years ago

    We have hosted a few and still do and like the others have said plenty of lube, condoms and towels and if you have screened the guys and have someone who isn't participating and watching your back you should be fine. Get your "protector" to let the guys know the do's and donts so everyone's on the same page. But expect 25% + to do a " no show" and just have fun and enjoy with the remainder. Hope all goes well gorgeous and would love to hear how it went. 😘

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    LaFemmeFontaine, There are only a few, but VERY important things you must take into account. Especially with SO MANY men and just one female - you. 1 - Always scope the men out first before ANY contact is made. Anyone you feel uncomfortable with are the first ones you need to deal with immediately and before anything happens. They are the ones that will cause the grief if you are not comfortable with them. So a chat on a one one basis for a minute or two would probably be There are only a few, but VERY important things you must take into account. Especially with SO MANY men and just one female - you. 1 - Always scope the men out first before ANY contact is made. Anyone you feel uncomfortable with are the first ones you need to deal with immediately and before anything happens. They are the ones that will cause the grief if you are not comfortable with them. So a chat on a one one basis for a minute or two would probably be the best approach. 2 - Understand that they are their for their pleasure, not just yours. So some men will go out of their way to arrive, fuck any and every hole you have, then stop/leave. This is an unfortunate fact of the gangbang scene. Some men are the sensitive type, who WANT to be there for YOUR pleasure and yours alone, though that is very difficult in a gangbang situation. Still, those men are the ones that will be the ones that make sure you are comfortable, that boundaries are kept, and that want to pleasure you in everyway possible. I am one of those types of men. 3 - Speaking of boundaries. Make sure that ALL the men KNOW the boundaries you have if any. Considering that your Anal lust has been awakened, then that usually means no holes are barred, where Double Penetration and other positions are open to be done. If there are ANY issues you would like to be noted, make sure those issues are spoken about FIRST before this starts. Apart from the lube, protection, snacks and porn that usually accompany such meets, the initial formalities always give way to the carnal pleasures that accompany such amazing meets. Relax when you can, and being your first, you will have butterflies. Make sure they are not anxious ones, as thatt can interfere with YOUR pleasure. If those butterflies are more excited ones, then this would be a fun meet to have, one which I would want to be a part of also, because YOU sound like a decent content and knowledgable lady. If there is anything that is done during the play that YOU are not happy with, then NO means exactly that - NO! If this collection of men understand this and are responsible, then you will have a great time during play with no shortage of cock in every part of you that you wish to have filled. After play? Well, you will probably find that most will just get dressed, and leave, some will stick around for a conversation with the other men there (Yes - we do chat to one another at times too), while others will simply want to get to know YOU. It is up to you entirely as to how you deal with this, as respectful human beings, these men should respect your wishes. Period! Venue should really be away from home, like a larger hotel room that will accomodate every one comfortably. Theft is common (No - I do NOT condone this, but untrustowrthy people exist) so treat your home as more of a sacred place, rather than a place of play with people you are not too familiar with. I know with the few gangabangs I have attended (I prefer more intimate liasons persoanlly, like threesome and foursome), usually everyone seems to get along because they are adult and respectful enough to be there to enjoy the time there with you, centering ALL their attention on your pleasure. I hope this helps you, even in a little way, and hope that when I travel through your way (or you travel through mine) that we could share experiences with others as respectful adults also. Have fun, be safe, and most of all - enjoy every minute of it. R xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Good luck, envious :) Yes I've come across the Goddess style event too, albeit with a smaller ratio. There used to be a regular local event host(ess) for these. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    8 years ago

    It might be worthwhile to let everyone know that if you're not feeling good about anyone particular on the day that you reserve the right to ask them to leave at the start and not have to explain yourself (just thank them for coming). I'm not sure how this fits in with gangbang culture having never participated in it but my thoughts are that your safety and comfort come first. Remember spending time with you is a privilege and not a right. If you are comfortable, please do give us the step by step recount as the less adventurous of us are very interested *sits up attentively* 😊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Turns out “that time” of the month arrived out of sync and tomorrow isn’t happening at the planed venue and given some thought, the number of guys in attendance may have been a little advantageous for a first time. Though there is an established trust with the person running it, it was to impersonal, lacking in my being part of the vetting procedure and there were too many things just not lined up for me. I’ve had some wonderful messages from beautiful, well meaning gentlemen about safety protocol, having a watcher who’s sole purpose is to care for the women and makes sure it doesn’t get too beasty or primal. So NEXT week, I would like to organise one. Wondering about what is considered a good ratio and potential venues for such an event. Great big thank you to 4across for the invite after finding out about the other mob. You guys are lovely. I’ll message in the morning at a reasonable hour, but physically, this week, I just can’t do it. I’ll pop up an event organiser for next week with clear instructions wait for writing expressions of interest, followed up by a phone call and make sure that by my standards, it’s safe, clean, delicious and yummy encounter for everyone. Again, thank you for the posts and messages, it has been very educational and besides...a little delayed gratification never hurt anyone. 😉 Happy Easter Everyone. Femme 💋

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    8 years ago

    Such a shame thats happened and your plans didn't work out. Best of luck for the next one and keep us all updated x - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    With 20 guys coming around I'd be looking at your fridge. Maybe some sandwiches and canapés... I'd also expect some cold beers in the fridge and maybe cider for the bi guys. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Just the fact you need someone to watch your back and need a protector. Sounds more like your going into battle. Dont know if its worth trying . - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    This is insanity but a record...919 penetrations! Go hard and go for the gold...good luck! ⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I would attend one first to check it out. There is no way I would walk into a room of 20 horny dicks when I haven’t observered one before. Particularly if you don’t know the organiser. You don’t know if you will even like all the dicks, although from the gang bang girls I have met that isn’t that important.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    sounds like a fantasy many would have but few who would be game enough to try it... good luck and hope it goes well when it does happen... some interesting advice from others - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    How tedious, it’s bad enough waiting in line at the bank, do people really line up for pussy? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Yep. They do.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Is not how we see it. It's more about getting to watch something incredibly arousing, then being able to take part. On the smallest possible scale, it could be like having your partner masturbate with a sex toy while you watch. Some women don't necessarily like this because they prefer the real thing when the real thing is available, but the idea is to watch and then take part, not to be replaced. And so it is with a group. Plus, it allows the woman constant attention while sometime we could do with the time to recuperate energy for more ;) So yes, if a man needs constant attention and can't deal with watching for a period then yes, it's not for you.

  • AKAHunk

    AKAHunk

    8 years ago

    I'll keep an eye out for that on the events page, I'd love to be part of your fantasy x - Posted from rhpmobile

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    8 years ago

    Our tips: Make sure all the guys understand your rules. No fingering, one sharp nail can ruin a fun time. Have fun enjoy yourself

  • EarthQueen

    EarthQueen

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'alwaysfun000' How tedious, it’s bad enough waiting in line at the bank, do people really line up for pussy? - Posted from rhpmobile I doubt that the men that are participating would feel its a chore.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I’m on an iPad and not most tech savvy woman around. I’m reading all the posts and LOVING them. Country Touch, thank you for your message and the time you took in writing it. 😍 Dallas, can’t wait to meet you. 💋 No fingers!! Of course! That hadn’t crossed my mind but is just common sense. I’m really appreciating the input, advice and experiences you’re sharing. Thank you, Femme 💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I’m on an iPad and not most tech savvy woman around. I’m reading all the posts and LOVING them. Country Touch, thank you for your message and the time you took in writing it. 😍 Dallas, can’t wait to meet you. 💋 No fingers!! Of course! That hadn’t crossed my mind but is just common sense. I’m really appreciating the input, advice and experiences you’re sharing. Thank you, Femme 💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I with LaFemme. This has been a very informative thread. I probably overthink things... but 20 guys is a lot. Not in a 'slut-shaming' oh my god that's disgusting way... but logistically. I was at the supermarket today and 5 people in an aisle is a crowd! Sure. You can argue that most guys won't have trolleys, but you still want a bit of... room. If for no other reason to keep the queue orderly. And speaking of queues. How does the order get established? Is it like formula 1 where the fastest lead away so there aren't accidents with the slower participants getting in the way? Even with some fast qualifiers the back of the grid is still up for a good 10(?) hour wait or so aren't they? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • curiousnhorny05

    curiousnhorny05

    8 years ago

    Curious to here how it goes! I think having someone there to watch our for your interests is a great idea. Best of luck! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I will be in Australia in a matter of weeks, please just wait until we have had our moment before doing this. If you insist (and if I know you at all, you will) on continuing with playing out this fantasy, wait until there is a man in the room who loves you, has history with you and is there for the sole purpose of caring just for beautiful, you. I know the experience you seek, I recall us speaking of it in Prague. I do not have confidence that this is the way to go about it. Yes, a rather public declaration I am aware, I would like to say you have forced my hand but we know you could never and yet, I had no intention of joining this site however, after the recent conversations of the last few days, here I am. Do as you are told, kitten, WAIT! I am on my way, I just have to tie up a few loose ends.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Thank you for your offer but I think the past is best left there, in the past. Two decades is a little long between conversations for me, babe. I can take care of myself, thanks.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Hello Luscious lady. A dear friend of mine had a novel way of celebrating her fabulous 40th! She invited the "ten best fucks" of her life to her place to celebrate "HER"... all in one evening. Having sat with her after for a "debriefing" session... no I was not one of the ten as we have never "fucked"... she described the events... blow by blow... and she certainly is talented in that department. She started at 8ish and was literally "DONE" by 1am. SORE, FULFILLED, RAVAGED, FUCKED in every orifice... multiple times... HARD, soft, sensual, VIOLENTLY. She had SQUIRTED, ORGASM-ED clitorally, vaginally, anally... she had SUCKED and swallowed loads and loads. Her throat was sore, her anus was red raw, her vagina was engorged and pinker than a pomegranate, her butt was the same colour from several good spanking and she had teeth marks all over and scratch marks all down her back. She was dehydrated and exhausted... but immensely satisfied! And that was a ratio of 10 to ONE!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I meant to say... she had giant cocks... tiny cocks... muscular firemen and weedy academics (stereotypes I know but still). She stressed that the big boys have their place... but the lil fellas often know what to do with it. One was the father of her child, several she had met online, one she met in a supermarket and one was her ex boss.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    In adult movies, further numbers than a woman can deal with at any one time, is only required for visuals during the time, and more happy endings (again, visuals). Of course some women do enjoy the feeling of being responsible for a man's orgasm (whatever method) as well as the man/men pleasing her, and so more numbers helps this as some men may be quick finishers and able to only once etc. In my experience, even during such moments the mind may be keen but the body may not obey what you desire, keeping erection as long as you want etc. All real, variable, imperfect people. A sense of humour is sometimes great to relax and be at ease, you and them. Most advice in the past via the forum seems that 4-5 is a good number at least to start. If you invite 20, that's likely how many will show anyway. It all depends on what you want, and why you want it, and making sure the men (including the main male companion/carer) understand all of it. So communication with him (and them, on or before the event) is key. Even if you just wish to go with the flow with no particular plan or fantasy, you will have to communicate what your boundaries include and exclude. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Feeling genuinely grateful for everyone’s input. Thank you. Jean-Girad your imagery is priceless. Mstr_full As always, your way with words not only gets straight to the point but delights in the process. CT when I get home to Melbourne and finally find my feet, we should catch up for a drink. Your messages, posts and care have been truly lovely.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'Jean_Girard' With 20 guys coming around I'd be looking at your fridge. Maybe some sandwiches and canapés... I'd also expect some cold beers in the fridge and maybe cider for the bi guys. - Posted from rhpmobile Spoken like a true Victoria Bitter drinker homophobe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Quoting 'AdoreHer' I will be in Australia in a matter of weeks, please just wait until we have had our moment before doing this. If you insist (and if I know you at all, you will) on continuing with playing out this fantasy, wait until there is a man in the room who loves you, has history with you and is there for the sole purpose of caring just for beautiful, you. I know the experience you seek, I recall us speaking of it in Prague. I do not have confidence that this is the way to go about it. Yes, a rather public declaration I am aware, I would like to say you have forced my hand but we know you could never and yet, I had no intention of joining this site however, after the recent conversations of the last few days, here I am. Do as you are told, kitten, WAIT! I am on my way, I just have to tie up a few loose ends. This can't be for real is it? I'm not sure I should be privvy to this but the drama is first rate: 4.5 stars And 20 years?! WTF dude, I think your kitten is a cat nowadays. This has got to be heavy for you man, I hope you are ok?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You are most welcome LaFemme. We will save that pleasure for another time. Remember you are always in charge. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Minx99

    Minx99

    8 years ago

    I enjoyed a fantastic gb for my 40Th and loved it so much I went back for more a month later. In my experience I was respected and adored. Have the best time! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I’m always last, no one touches the sides after I’m done, and the lady needs resleeving - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    too badd im not down that way then - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I'm just commenting to keep LFF's 'on rotation' profile pic high up in my news-stream.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Forever, I am and will be...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Date no longer confirmed at this point... Looking more like me going out with a ‘bang’ before leaving the state to returns home. Wednesday 19th if it is still happening and dependant on Who is interested in attending. I will however be attending BrisBiOrgy beach event if it happens on the 8th in Byron. Femme 💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Now that’s is one way to get a woman’s attention. 😉 Carte Blanche invitation extented with a brag like that... Message me, though, I hope to have a lover in attendance who is going to give you a run for your money. 💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Just caught your post and could kiss you all over your god damned face. Hahaha. Thank you, the kitten became a ducking lioness. Drinks on me if we cross paths. 😂💋💋💋💋🤣

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Fucking lioness kinda lost its roar with autocorrect turning it into ducking...damn it. 😝🤪

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Seriously Babe, stop it, Aussies are going to slaughter you with your British ‘toff’ and I’m half inclined to let them. I’m having fun here, I moved on a long ass time ago. 💋