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Meddlers

April 07 2014

Do you know any meddlers? People who pry, monitor, notice everything, comment, gossip and generally get way over in your business? How do you deal with them? Are you a reformed (or current, even!) meddler?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'd be interested in seeing what others do too. This monitoring that some do is kinda weird! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    a meddler in my back yard but I think my housemate chopped it down:-) ....it had weird fruit ......but that's not what you mean lilmiss....I am a very private person,very few people get close enough to even try....If I want advice I will ask for it....otherwise you will get a steely gaze,raised eyebrow and "Really"'...a complete sentence..xxQ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    also quite terse if someone wants to instagram,Facebook photos of me....I loathe most forms of social media with a passion.....I think that is where lots of meddlers lurk,gathering their ammunition:-) :-) xx Q

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Only one in my job. When she asks intrusive questions I tell her I prefer not discuss my private life with her. Or tell her something outrageous, so she'll think twice about asking next time. Q: Where are you going tonight?A: Can't decide between going to that orgy and just staying at home doing drugs...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    they are everywhere and the cyber ones are the best. I personally don't care at all about them but its sad when you see it affect others

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meander' Only one in my job. When she asks intrusive questions I tell her I prefer not discuss my private life with her. Or tell her something outrageous, so she'll think twice about asking next time. Q: Where are you going tonight?A: Can't decide between going to that orgy and just staying at home doing drugs... How can you trust anyone who does not do drugs

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    yeah I need advice/help..... Meddlers, people who pry into your life without hesitation. just wish I knew how to deal with them and get them out of my life...... I ignore them with a passion and stat clear of them...any more tricks please tell

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I found that moving to another state was an excellent way of avoiding family meddlers:-) .....if a friend is meddling maybe the friendship isn't very healthy..defriend them..other than that,a fuck off with a smile,should do the trick:-) xx Q

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    12 years ago

    Nosey little fuckers aren't they? Hey you reading my post...yes you...which part do you want to gossip and moan about today? The fact I said "nosey little fuckers" or the bit where I said "aren't they"?? Foxy

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' Nosey little fuckers aren't they? Hey you reading my post...yes you...which part do you want to gossip and moan about today? The fact I said "nosey little fuckers" or the bit where I said "aren't they"?? Foxy To busy looking at your legs Foxy Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I am currently trying to deal with a meddler so I will be following this thread with interest as everything I have tried so far has been unsuccessful. She is doing my head in big time.

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    12 years ago

    I am quite adapt at seeming to pay attention and do lots of nodding and hmmm yes I seeing... Then merrily go and do exactly what I want anyway... If they really push it and continue to meddle well that's where the tail comes in handy :P - Posted from rhpmobile

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    12 years ago

    Sorry spelling nazis I think I got it wrong :( - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I tend to give outrageous answers similar to those mentioned above eg teaching my kids how to pole dance or introducing them to the wonderful world that is cocaine - both of which are completely untrue lol - my daughter is still far too short to pole dance and I don't like sharing my drugs heeheehee - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Like Mea & Fitzy. I just amp it up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    To meddle in some lucky lady's business I don't think i am a meddler but i am a curious kiz !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Missb72' I am quite adapt at seeming to pay attention and do lots of nodding and hmmm yes I seeing... Then merrily go and do exactly what I want anyway... If they really push it and continue to meddle well that's where the tail comes in handy :P - Posted from rhpmobile but since you commented Missb, I read right along and only looked back when I read your next post... Safe to say you are adept at being adaptable! Peachy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Without meaning to make light of your topic Lilmiss, the body I can think of who most matches the description of your OP is... The government?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm curious to know if you're going to try giving outrageous responses, like some suggest :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Yes, you are totally right, but this is why I disagree. @ Mado, those aren't Foxys legs ;)

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'looking4quality' Yes, you are totally right, but this is why I disagree. @ Mado, those aren't Foxys legs ;) You girls are meddling with us, doesn't matter as we think you are both hot stuff. What on earth has Bigmamma done to you, bahahaha We know she is hot too, meddling or teasing? Medlerising*

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    was cross with me,for some reason she would call me Meddlesome Mattie....xx Q

  • Cazz61

    Cazz61

    12 years ago

    I never have problems with meddlers, I say the most outrageous things all the time so nobody wants to know what Im up to just in case I tell them the colourful details

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    curious and googled...it was a poem written in 1926 a cautionary tale about a child who was always lifting the lids off teapots and saucepans.....meddling with "'stuff"....xxQ