RHP

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Mens penises

April 29 2011

I have just started having a sexual relationship with an older man who has a decent size penis, however, it appears that it doesnt get rock hard. Last night we made love and he didnt cum until the very end, he enjoyed what we did and then I got my jollies, and then he got his. This was not through penetration it was a hand job, which is ok, however, Ive always got off on guys cuming in me. Is this normal or not, Im not complaining its just something I have never come across before.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Many things could be contributing to this. I have found that older guys dont tend to worry too much about the whole orgasm. Their penis can go up and down all night and then after many hours they finally allow themselves to orgasm. Sometimes this can go on for a few days rather than the night. That is fine as there are times when I dont want to orgasm either but sex is about more than the finale! Certain medications can actually upset the whole process of orgasms as well. Blood pressure, (strangely) anti-depresants. Many doctors prescribe low strength anti depressants for prematutre ejaculation and this can have the same effect as what you are describing. If this gentleman has been on his own for a while, he is used to masturbating and this can also cause this to happen. He may need to give up the nightly wank and hopefully things will get better in time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Sorry, even though you don't have a picture...I lost focus when I looked at what's under there and thought maybe that was the guy you are talking about? Oh well...what's in a name. | Men definitely are not all the same so whether he goes rock hard or hard enough to rock your world could be just how it is....watch a bit of educational material available freely on the 'net and you will see a lot of guys that are hung like horses get a stiff on rather than a hard on. | Quoting 'meggiesgirl' This was not through penetration it was a hand job, which is ok, however, Ive always got off on guys cuming in me. Is this normal or not, Im not complaining its just something I have never come across before.| | Just personally, I have a number of what I call "Cheery-O"s before the grand finale'...damn they tickle soooo good it's almost torture, but a great time to change drivers or take a quick break before diving back in the pool. As for the breaking the tape, some women like to watch and I like watching them, some like to have a chat so I just listen...and others like to take over and finish the ride with no argument from me. As long as we get there...let's go. | Of course, if you happen to be tied up at the time and can't really fly the plane just leave your seat back reclined... | ..and let the pilot find the runway. | | And if you can't see...it's called flying in the box. We do practise blindfolded manuvers.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    How old is the older gentleman?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    MMMMM lol if he reading this , I think you better get use to soft . o BTW could you be any more low class , I know you must be fishing for some guy , to say I got a hard one Can i do you now lol ,O well better luck next time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I thought if I was honest i would get an honest answer. Im not trying for anything.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    it can come down to blood flow, paranoid fears of insecurities etc - how long has it been since he was with someone? There's a reason there's a pill for older men to "help" the flow...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Hotsexycouple88'MMMMM lol if he reading this , I think you better get use to soft . o BTW could you be any more low class , I know you must be fishing for some guy , to say I got a hard one Can i do you now lol ,O well better luck next time. In fact I got that she has just started a sexual relationship, which kind of lends to not fishing for anything but advice. As Fiona and CM have mentioned there a quite a few things that can affect the rigidity and also the prolonging of the orgasm. But one they haven't mentioned and is always worth a try perhaps he has a few little kinks he is keeping to himself that tend to make him ummmmm rock hard may also make him cum a lot earlier in the piece. This part can also be fun for you, the sussing out and trying something perhaps a little different