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Messages: Sending Sooner or Later?

May 18 2019

I have a question regarding when is the best time to send new (recently joined) members a message, generally speaking. Having messaged most already I think might respond, I do keep an eye on recently joined members that might, according to their profile if they have something substantial already written, be interested in at least a conversation. However I'm curious if sending recently joined members a message quite early is a good idea at all. Those members especially if they have a picture are promoted on the main page and in various site suggestions, and nearly all women here say that they get a barrage of messages when they first join (even though it later slows down). Even if you have a nice respectful message, I would think that it would likely get lost in sheer numbers. So common sense might say that you might wait a few months or so until that person/s has settled into the site and stopped receiving as many messages per day. But then that postponement just might mean they meet someone else from the messages that they do get instead of you. So do you think it is better to jump in first when you see new members join, with everyone else, or just wait until a much later time, assuming they stick around and hope they are still looking then? - Posted from rhpmobile

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EarthQueen

7 years ago

You do get a lot of messages when you first join. However, messages that resonate with you will catch your eye. So I would just say send away. What's meant to be will be.

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MsSuperFoxy

7 years ago

If a profile has caught your attention and there is something that is appealing, then why not just send a message right then and there. There is nothing stopping you. If a woman likes the email message of course she will reply. :) Ms Foxy

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RHP User

7 years ago

New members get absolutely bombarded with messages, you’ll almost certainly get lost in the crowd if you make contact too early on. I started this profile in February (maybe late Jan) and the messages have only just started to slow down now. Wait for the rubbish to take itself out first then make your move 😉 good luck.

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RHP User

7 years ago

There are always things that can be done to make you stand out in a crowd Or in here..... the swarm 😂 If you think about the process.....It starts with the headline But that’s all I’m prepared to say Not all writers are created equal

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AnnieWhichway

7 years ago

Ready to swoop on a fresh carcass when newbies emerge from the RHP turnstile. The usual parasitic pests bombard the startled prey as they come out of the dark. With their copy paste blurb hastily sent to be the first in for the kill. The fresh prey, confused and in awe at the massive tide of requests for some action scurry for cover and quickly log out and head for a strong coffee.to regroup and smooth their crumpled clothes, unsure of what just unfolded before their eyes. From their quiet unassuming lives since their recent singletons status, suddenly confronted with alluring offers to give them hours of oral pleasure, make them squirt like 'old faithful' and give them a 1000 orgasms. Poor things have no clue of the endless line of blow and goes, their curtains used as cum rags and the inevitable limp dick performance, all leaving the victims aghast and ready to scurry back to RSVP.. So to answer you Country Touch, proceed with caution as you rub shoulders with the usual crowd of vultures

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RHP User

7 years ago

Quoting 'AnnieWhichway'So to answer you Country Touch, proceed with caution as you rub shoulders with the usual crowd of vultures See also.... the obvious line of friend requesters

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hootymcjugs

7 years ago

We are newbies and have been on for just a few days. Yes, a lot of messages, yes too many to properly keep track of. Have tried answering a few of the interesting messages explaining that we will read and get back later. But of course then we get offered free advice that this site isn't for us and that we should leave (some interesting expectations from experienced site members it seems). So now I am thinking that we shouldn't reply to any of these initial flood of messages. Perhaps they are playing the numbers game? I would vote to wait at least one week. But if they look at your profile and contact you - then fire away! Oh - and take it easy on the newbies - we need time to get things organised!

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RHP User

7 years ago

Do both.Send an initial message,make it interesting and personal,then in a few weeks send another one. It will either capture her/ their attention or it won't . Hugs Q

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MsSuperFoxy

7 years ago

Welcome. No one can ever tell you if this site is for you or not, nor tell you to leave. It is your choice to be here, not there's. As far as I am concerned, they can get fucked. It is best to only reply to those that interests you.There is never ever any obligation nor rules that state on here that you must reply to every email. You don't have too. Take your time and follow your gut feelings. Ms Foxy

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boobsandbusted

7 years ago

i’d wait for the testy twat waffles to subside ,and then stand out for the guy you are mr b

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RHP User

7 years ago

As Mr B so eloquently put it and made me spit my morning coffee across the bench 😂 “i’d wait for the testy twat waffles to subside ,and then stand out for the guy you are” It’s bedlam for the first couple of weeks, and some of the messages are just downright annoying with their persistence in saying “you must meet me!” I mean it’s daunting enough deciding to start living this life but to be pushed from all sides in the beginning can make you back off a little too. Hopefully some of these newbies will be at the next FlirtParties Meet & Greet so they can see for themselves what a nice man you are, we’ll see you again there too.

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