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Multiorgasmic and unsatisfied
January 05 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
I read and re read your post.. I am trying to understand what you are saying?? basically you have a friend who has a partner who she has good sex with but she is unsatisfied? cos once she has climaxed, he does and then its all said and done??(is that what you are saying) isnt that what FB's are all about? if she wants more than good sex - then she needs more than a FB ? but then discovering some one who delivers and satisfies your sex drive and desires is not a easy task!!, and who will give you more than just good sex !!hhmmm not an easy predicament !!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Women cum first. If you dont have the stamina or your woman needs allot of stimulation to orgasm, then there is nothing wrong with going down on her first and making sure she has a good time rather than leaving her feel unforfilled. Also communication is key. If your partner does something you like, let them know and if you think they could do a little better dont be affraid to give some pointers ladys. If your guy wont ask you what you like, just flat out tell him. Sex should be enjoyable for both partys. But thats just my two cents worth, want more? offer another 2 cents.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi! .KarolKarol. I think all you can do is advise your Friend on some online site for info, books dvd etc she could find ways to approach her Partner sort the problem I'm sure he finds it a little awkward himself cumming so quickly ..The cock rings are supposed to help a Guy last longer maybe you can suggest that to her if she asks and let her vent if she needs to..She's decied to continue with her Buddy .Honestly this is their problem. That's realy all you can do ..You did confuse me a little when you said ""and then the fun begins did you mean they do get it on or they go thro; the same again not being fulfiled ..Lol Lu :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
that its not your business? that they are normal. that hes doing what 99% of men do, but she needs to talk to him or it wont change. that if he was truly into her there'd be no issue with doing whatever he could to please her, but remember that men cannot go all night or repeat performances every time as we are simply not physically able to, we are wired to 'recover' after sex (that reflex that sends us off to sleep is 100% natural and normal). 2 and 3 times in an evening is not unreasonable, but not without breaks in between.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I know some people like to let their man be in control. Frankly, how is he going to know to hold back unless this person gives him some guidance? Then again, I also know how difficult it is for us guys to hold back... so a little help from the ladies is also tactful. I mean.... in the throws of it.... we know when our junk is really warmed up.... there's that tightness and the sense of the inevitable... just a little bit more... frankly sometimes all it takes is a bit of an enthusiastic twitch from our lover and us guys know we've gone passed the point of no return... no sense stopping now! Even when we are trying to control the situation by using the stop start technique its more often the case that our lover is in the throws of passion .. doesnt want to stop... so even if the dude stops... she's pumping his cock like a maniac on heat.... that feels sensational... deleriously sensational... too fucking sensational damn it... ooh oh... there's that point of no return again .... See, the fact is.... she can't really blaim him for her own shortcomings.... it's up to her to also try to get into sync with him... in particular stop wriggling like a slippery wet hawt thing that needs a hose down if he abruptly stops.... and not depend entirely on him to get in sync with her beat. It's not a one man band right? Of course talk it up during sex but be careful... cause yelling commands like "pull it out of my twat and ram it in my arse you dirty fucker" ... sometimes that kind of talk can make a guy cum!!HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
She needs to tell him what is happening and why. Communication is the key. The man is not a mind reader. Suely he would not be doing this deliberately as that would be too cruel and a total mind control game. Another story all together. She obviously is not too happy with the staus quo as she is talking to you about it. Yes I know, girls talk about stuff. Maybe she is really into this guy and thinks if she does speak up he will not bother calling again. It may be a fuck buddy situation on his part but her feelings may be running deeper than she is admitting.
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RHP User
15 years ago
sometimes men believe that just because they cum once then thats all a woman cums these men need to be educated and made to realise that we can cum as much as they want she either needs to talk to him or "NEXT"...because if she doesnt talk to him he will never know if she doesnt call "NEXT" then she will never have fun her choice i guess good luck to your friend roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
so its his fault? oh yea thats right. guys dont get it. i forget that.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Unless I'm reading this wrong, it sounds like the bloke is trying to ensure they both orgasm at the same time. Too much of a coincidence if he comes right after her starting to come each and every time. If she suggests he hold off a few minutes to see how long she can make each orgasm last it won't sound like a complaint, it'll sound like a game.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have to say that it sounds like he is trying for simultanious orgasms...when i was younger I used to try for that as well. Its nice if it happens but if the peaks too early is a disaster. Now here is the problem if you don'y know you are doing something wrong, you will assume you are doing it right. | Rewarding bad behaviour will only reinforce the action as being good...Communication is the key in every relationship. LC
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RHP User
15 years ago
The guy has obviously got a fair bit of control and she needs to say to him what she is seeking. If i was in the same situation i would be caring on as he is as Fionabee states "he is not a mind reader" god if he was he would be a womans ultimate man :)She needs to be tactful and maybe say to him " I want to cum several times before you cum". Is she afraid that he will not come back if she speaks up?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' I know some people like to let their man be in control. Frankly, how is he going to know to hold back unless this person gives him some guidance? Then again, I also know how difficult it is for us guys to hold back... so a little help from the ladies is also tactful. I mean.... in the throws of it.... we know when our junk is really warmed up.... there's that tightness and the sense of the inevitable... just a little bit more... frankly sometimes all it takes is a bit of an enthusiastic twitch from our lover and us guys know we've gone passed the point of no return... no sense stopping now! Even when we are trying to control the situation by using the stop start technique its more often the case that our lover is in the throws of passion .. doesnt want to stop... so even if the dude stops... she's pumping his cock like a maniac on heat.... that feels sensational... deleriously sensational... too fucking sensational damn it... ooh oh... there's that point of no return again .... See, the fact is.... she can't really blaim him for her own shortcomings.... it's up to her to also try to get into sync with him... in particular stop wriggling like a slippery wet hawt thing that needs a hose down if he abruptly stops.... and not depend entirely on him to get in sync with her beat. It's not a one man band right? Of course talk it up during sex but be careful... cause yelling commands like "pull it out of my twat and ram it in my arse you dirty fucker" ... sometimes that kind of talk can make a guy cum!!HugsStalky Good advice Stalky In my opinion-she best grow up and say something...you don't ask you don't get-if it's really bothering her...what is achieved by sitting there thinking about something at length if you don't DO it! Maybe she'd rather be "happy" than multi-orgasmic-I'm far too greedy I'd want it all or eventually move on to where it is available there are lots of attractive charming men-with money, boats and flash cars too! All that never really impressed me before-but I figure on the off chance they are going to turn out to be an a***hole or sexually useless might as well hang out in the Master bedroom with the marble ensuite and a pool while he picks out his next toy-for the next few months than in the bedsit. I might have a cough at the moment but my life isn't destined to be La Boheme-although maybe a trip to the opera or Paris could be just what the doctor ordered... Just because I've never shopped in Hardy Bros doesn't mean I should deprive myself-well this website is all for new experiences isn't it? You may get off on pain or 3somes? I've had both already and I prefer to seek pleasure...life is too short if you can't have what you want-enjoy and appreciate what you have or go all out and get it-stop whinging or living in your head-what are you waiting for? You will spend a lot of time dead-less time living-I don't understand why people waste time like they have infinite time ahead and certainty that tomorrow will not be their last day. Just remember karolkarol some people don't appreciate what they have or could have and they just like a grumble or a whinge-sometimes they don't actually ever want to solve their problems as they have too much invested in remaining a victim-the attention it brings them with little effort for a start. I'd say give her some encouragement but leave her alone to work it out for herself-if something is important enough to anyone they will do whatever is necessary to get what they want...without fear. I wonder if she realises how fortunate she is to have a friend like you. Off topic-if you're playing "tease and control" though-and you want to win-that line of Stalky's or a slight variation never fails to get results... or the results she is seeking by the way! Well it always works for me... *smirk & evil giggle* NymphetamineDrm ALWAYS I've been here before a few timesAnd I'm quite aware we're dyingAnd your hands they shake with goodbyesAnd I'll take you back if you'd have me So here I am I'm tryingSo here I am are you readyCome on let me hold you, touch you, feel youAlwaysKiss you, taste you all night AlwaysAnd I'll miss your laugh your smileI'll admit I'm wrong if you'd tell meI'm so sick of fights, I hate themLets start this again for realSo here I am I'm tryingSo here I am are you readySo here I am I'm tryingSo here I am are you readyCome on let me hold you, touch you, feel youAlwaysKiss you taste you all night Always(Come on let me hold you) Touch you, feel youAlways Kiss you, taste you all nightAlwaysI've been here before a few timesAnd I'm quite aware we're dyingCome on let me hold you, touch you, feel youAlwaysKiss you, taste you all night Always(Come on let me hold you) Touch you, feel youAlwaysKiss you, taste you all nightAlwaysAlways..Always..
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RHP User
15 years ago
We all agree he is not a mind reader and being a fair bit younger than him doesn't holds like a valid excuse to sit back n complain. Is it common to be multiorgasmic? I have to work it out to get one or two and is easier to achieve it by myself than with a partner ( well, girls always make me cum lol)
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RHP User
15 years ago
being multiorgasmic is great sometimes....you just keep cumming and cumming and cumming until he is finished with you but sometimes it can be exhaustive...thrashing about like a fish out of water...it takes its toll lol roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' I know some people like to let their man be in control. Frankly, how is he going to know to hold back unless this person gives him some guidance? Then again, I also know how difficult it is for us guys to hold back... so a little help from the ladies is also tactful. I mean.... in the throws of it.... we know when our junk is really warmed up.... there's that tightness and the sense of the inevitable... just a little bit more... frankly sometimes all it takes is a bit of an enthusiastic twitch from our lover and us guys know we've gone passed the point of no return... no sense stopping now! Even when we are trying to control the situation by using the stop start technique its more often the case that our lover is in the throws of passion .. doesnt want to stop... so even if the dude stops... she's pumping his cock like a maniac on heat.... that feels sensational... deleriously sensational... too fucking sensational damn it... ooh oh... there's that point of no return again .... See, the fact is.... she can't really blaim him for her own shortcomings.... it's up to her to also try to get into sync with him... in particular stop wriggling like a slippery wet hawt thing that needs a hose down if he abruptly stops.... and not depend entirely on him to get in sync with her beat. It's not a one man band right? Of course talk it up during sex but be careful... cause yelling commands like "pull it out of my twat and ram it in my arse you dirty fucker" ... sometimes that kind of talk can make a guy cum!!HugsStalky what he said...Seriously...LS
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magsluvsoral
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' I know some people like to let their man be in control. Frankly, how is he going to know to hold back unless this person gives him some guidance? Then again, I also know how difficult it is for us guys to hold back... so a little help from the ladies is also tactful. I mean.... in the throws of it.... we know when our junk is really warmed up.... there's that tightness and the sense of the inevitable... just a little bit more... frankly sometimes all it takes is a bit of an enthusiastic twitch from our lover and us guys know we've gone passed the point of no return... no sense stopping now! Even when we are trying to control the situation by using the stop start technique its more often the case that our lover is in the throws of passion .. doesnt want to stop... so even if the dude stops... she's pumping his cock like a maniac on heat.... that feels sensational... deleriously sensational... too fucking sensational damn it... ooh oh... there's that point of no return again .... See, the fact is.... she can't really blaim him for her own shortcomings.... it's up to her to also try to get into sync with him... in particular stop wriggling like a slippery wet hawt thing that needs a hose down if he abruptly stops.... and not depend entirely on him to get in sync with her beat. It's not a one man band right? Of course talk it up during sex but be careful... cause yelling commands like "pull it out of my twat and ram it in my arse you dirty fucker" ... sometimes that kind of talk can make a guy cum!!HugsStalky Another great comment Stalky lol you always make me laugh
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RHP User
15 years ago
...yeah this dude is seriously switched on - great post.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'karolkarol' We all agree he is not a mind reader and being a fair bit younger than him doesn't holds like a valid excuse to sit back n complain. You get what you put up with. How the hell would he possibly know what she wants if she's telling YOU and not HIM??
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Iabloke
15 years ago
Woohoo or boohoo. Once apon a time I had motorbike accident headon. Managed to dent the fuel tank with the jewells. Had a wood for a fortnight, change of colour as well. Told missus to live out a fantasy but no go. Then a flat spot for 6 months. Eventually got a wonder drug. Weeeelllll willy would stay around for 3 to 4 hours. Multiple orgasims for however long ones partner wanted to play before ajourning for nutrition.
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RHP User
15 years ago
think its none of our business really. they'll sort it out if they want. after all theyre only fuckbuddies or fwb's, so from either side it doesn't really matter. we should all get over ourselves and mind our business.............. simple solution and ah, now theres no problem............ffs
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thats a start, talking about this synchronicity you both have physically. Gotta practice the body performance side of it. Know when to subside and when to perform. Plateau and choose when to peak (or not). Bit of experimentation should help. Yours sincerely Dr Pill.
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