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My good mate has asked me if I would join him and his gf in bed. I have known her for years and often think about it

June 17 2015

what should I do? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    I think part of your first sentence may have gotten cut off. Could you give a little more background?

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    F he is that Good of a mate. I'm not sure it's something he'd want Spread about the Net on Forums ! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    I'm just gonna get all presumptuous..... But he wants to know if it's ok if he fucks his mates girl in the pooper while his mate is peggin her in da chops!!! 😂😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • luvsilver

    luvsilver

    10 years ago

    I think he may have been that excited he finished before he really ever started Mr Luvsilver

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    bloody typical 😝 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    This thread has a detailed, complete title... Before I saw that, I read this thread and thought that the op was invited to the state of oranges at the mcg... Hp xo Because you're worth it...

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    Until such time as you have her consent DO NOTHING! Your story is short on detail and what stood out for me was HE asked you to have a 3some, there was no mention of what SHE wants . . . . .

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    Yeah, just saw the whole title too. OP, I'd consider the best and worst possible outcomes and mainly the latter. Could this affect your friendships in a negative way? I say tread carefully, and discuss your mate's invite at length with both of them. Let us know how you went x

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    C'mon, it not like the OP said it was his mate Richo with his missus Raelene, was it? ;-)

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    I wouldn't do it. The fact you need assurance tells me you think it may ruin your own friendship. Say that's really hot but the friendship means more and you don't want to take the chance. If you knew it wouldn't be an issue, you would already be confident with the situation. Take it as a compliment then let it be is what l suggest.

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    Calling it as I see it,. You want to bang her.You've thought about it for agesSo... you're not going to listen to us if the opportunity presents to satisfy the thought sand urges you've already had.Right?!...... Correct. HOWEVER....... the horse, goes before the cart. Has she stated this is something SHE wants... or is this just BS talk from your mate. DG

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    or them, why not ? Mates are dime a dozen. And I bet he'd fuck yours at the drop of a hat.

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    Love it ! Now I can retire Wozza and Shazza !

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    First time I had that request many many years ago, and first asked "You're full of it, mate, how much have you been drinking?" and then got his very sexy girlfriend on the phone "We are very horny!" it took me about 10 seconds to pull out the bike, and then think I made personal record time up the hill to their place, losing a good few mill of the foot pegs in the process. What should you do? WHAT! you are kidding right? Please don't procrastinate, run don't walk and have some fun. The longer you wait the more chance there will be of another taking your place. If you feel there is a moral problem, then maybe you should find a lovely lady and get married. sezh... This is why I dont have sex with young people, they are just too confused and hung up on it. OP its NSA sex, for no reason other than the joy of life, deal with your emotions when alone at home.

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    ....... I think that it is s compliment on your friendship ...... to let someone into the relationship. Care required .... be the gentlemanly generous lover ? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    I would say be careful to not ruin/change a friendship.You are young. If your friend brings it up again,talk about how you might all feel the next day/week.eg:If you just rock up to their place for a beer and a chat, will they think you are trying to get a repeat performance happening? What if you turned up at their place and only she was home? Would she feel uncomfortable about that? Would you? Would your friend? Lots of what ifs, but ultimately up to the 3 of you. Just communicate beforehand as much as you all can. Im trying to look at it from a 22 yr olds perspective, but this can sometimes ruin friendships of any age. Or it can end up a great experience for all of you. All the best.

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    My-good-mate-has-asked-me-if-I-would-join-him-and-his-gf-in-bed-I-have-known-her-for-years-and-often-think-about-it ^ thnx Honestly - I wouldn't do it. Hands down. Would never do that. UNLESS - I had became friends them in a swingers context. It is way too much of a risk otherwise.

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    I reckon your mate wants to see you naked and performing....I mean why else ask a friend? Only if you were interested in them yourself.

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Calling it as I see it,. You want to bang her.You've thought about it for agesSo... you're not going to listen to us if the opportunity presents to satisfy the thought sand urges you've already had.Right?!...... Correct. HOWEVER....... the horse, goes before the cart. Has she stated this is something SHE wants... or is this just BS talk from your mate. DG I was feeling like a voice in the WILDerness

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    If I didn't consider HER.......Id be sexist and consider women as merely my sexual playthings...... right!!!

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    10 years ago

    We have threesomes because we enjoy them. Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    Well he asked so wait till they are in a "69" position and fuck him while hhis girl looks on from below. if you are not sure talk to her first maybe she does not know his plan and she will get on board with this to teach him a lesson. But your mate may not appreciate being fucked so see how it goes. If shes up for it then you might end up having some fun times with her.

  • RHP

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    10 years ago

    Talk to them together. There's always arguments for and against. Only you can decide. .I think if you're all up front and completely honest with each other - & you're all on the same page there's no reason you can't. The fact you're asking makes me think you're either a really considerate nice guy who thinks a lot of his friends or you have feelings for the girl. If you have feelings for her other than purely physical attraction don't do it.