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Naughty Friday Get Togethers

December 06 2014

Firstly Happy Christmas to all our fellow RHP's. We have started holding some informal get-togethers at our home on a Friday nights. They are an absolute blast, very low key, with generally most people ending up naked and doing 'things' together or in groups. With the two we've already had we've come to the conclusion that we need a better screening process. We send out an invitation to couples, single guys and girls. I'll be honest we are trying to bring together people who we find attractive and from what we can learn from reading there profile we hope we will have a connection. What I need from my knowledgeable RHP regular forum writers and or readers, is can anyone come up with a idea on how to avoid getting the totally wrong type of person turn up. This has happened more then once and it's incredibly difficult to have to tell a couple or a single tactfully, also mindfully of feelings that this wasn't going to workout for them at this party. What should be a fun night is a rotten night for a short while. The thing is if everyone is connecting really well but one couple isn't you have to deal with it as kindly as you can but its a really crap thing to have to do! Hopefully it's clothes off after that and lets get down and very naughty. I'd love to hear from someone who screens their invitees so well the above never happens. Please share your secrets. We are going to try and hold another 2 before Xmas so if you are up for a long, long, long very very naughty private sex party have a look at our profile. Send me an expression of interest and if you look right for our party I will send you an invitation. You must except the rules and regulations of each party and also remember and respect this our home. There are the most wonderful people on this site, but your always going come up with the time wasters and total dicks! Don't ever be put off by a negative experience just sieve a little more carefully next. Be safe peeps and enjoy. Mandy x - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    From reading your post, it appears that you're saying you've had people turn up on the night and you've found them unattractive and had to ask them to leave, which given you're basically saying "you're too ugly for our party, go away" no doubt would be an awkward conversation... If that's what you mean then the best screening process would be to have people send you full body selfies through an app like Snapchat, where you can't load a pre-taken image. If that's not what you mean, then you may need to explain further...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    there is always going to be the chance that not everyone connects.....Its so hard to predict these things until everyone is together......All I can suggest is through trial l and error find people that play well together and concentrate on those ....maybe introduce new couples every now and then....

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The only way is to meet them first for a quick drink to see if they are "your kind of people"

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    One way is to meet for a coffee, then you can make a proper judgement, to invite or not after meeting you can call them with you answer. worth a try. Please can I cum to your party.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Agree with Meeka and Mvagusta Have a night that you dedicate to meeting potential party goers and lay down the rules so they understand fully what their rights and obligations are. Don't give details until after a meet in public and tell them they will receive an official invitation to the party when all candidates have been scrutinsed . Just tell them it is about creating a safe and pleasurable evening for everyone involved. I would probably spend some money on hiring a security person until you have a good regular group if that is what you are after and if anyone has any concerns with anyone else, they can go to security and have the said person/persons ejected from the gathering without you having to fuss and be the bad guy.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You state attractive so that means in your opinion. I can tell straight away you are not a fetmania club member as club rules state there are no ugly people just different. To start with there is age range and it seems that when your over 50 you become ugly and that is a load of tripe. I will agree some people are creepy I have been called that at pleasure lounge by othern ladies because my 4 girls are under 25 but they never asked why these girls want me. In my opinion you are the ugly people with your attitude and one day you to will be over 50.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I forgot to add tall/short/fat/skinny/bald and so on you have a very plastic attitude.

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