M57
On Sick Leave
June 14 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry........ but I have zero sympathy for couples not getting sex! LOL
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RHP User
12 years ago
No sex? Youre already playing with yourself (if the ;) is your inference).... Is it not possible (probable!) to offer your partner oral... or hand massage... or toy play.. etc etc... and just allow them to enjoy themselves while you do whatever it is you need too abstain from prior to the operation?! I don't get it.
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Forced into abstinence for a week recently. By no means a record but it seems every spare moment I was thinking about sharking for some trade and then the inevitable sad realisation that I was supposed to be on the wagon hit home with a thud. It's the whole thing about lent or Ramadan. Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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Enjoylifealways
12 years ago
Pretty hard to play with him because he works during the day and as the day goes on I feel worse sick plus can't get comfortable. I did some self play when he was at work :(
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RHP User
12 years ago
With no one other than your partner? Pffffft. Zero sympathy here as well! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Enjoylifealways
12 years ago
I only did self play once because I was very grumpy and hard to live with. Even though I feel sick all the time I still get horny just feel awful so can't do anything about it :(
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RHP User
12 years ago
I will do you one better! When I had my IUD put in my gyno told me no orgasms for 10 days! That's right. You heard me. No flicking my own bean. It was very very hard. :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm sorry to hear that you are not well OP, I can empathize but this can be a really good bonding time with your partner and a chance to catch up on all those illegal downloads (I do not recommend "Game of Thrones- bite me) I've had a knee reconstruction and pneumonia in the last 6 weeks and to top it off last night while wading through a tin of Pringles, (hey sex aint happening !!) I broke a tooth - excruciating pain. $800 bucks later I now look like a chipmunk. I'm seriously over it and because I'm on crutches and encased in a knee brace still, just now while hobbling up the flight of stairs in my house (why did I buy a three storey terrace ?) I just slipped and fell and crashed into the stair rail. Trust me I'm so over it. So yep been out of action for a while and yes I am missing "it" and I know, I sooooooooooooooooooooooo know, it will be worth it when this wretched brace comes off and I can breathe without sounding like Darth Vader. Thank god for my late night and early morning sms/phone call buddy who is waiting in the wings for removal of knee brace day ( 2 weeks) The patience of a saint and the mind of a deviant Oh yeah, its SO gonna be worth it I'LL BE BED RIDDEN ALL OVER AGAIN Meanwhile, Ep 16 of "Breaking Bad"
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RHP User
12 years ago
16 months, though it wasn't me that was sick but my relationship. Since I put it out of its misery I've made up for lost time and then some. Worth it.
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gazpacho
12 years ago
I like stories like yours Meander. It makes me feel that all is right and well with the world when people reclaim their sexual liberty. :) Hugs Gazp - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
and you're feeling bad about YOU not getting any because YOU'RE sick?(don't get me wrong - I'm sorry to hear you are unwell and wish you a speedy recovery from the operation)So, how is hubby feeling then? What's his take in the illness induced drought?I once went 192 days - yes, over 6 months - while still in a "loving marriage" and there was no illness involved.......and now I'm single.... Make sure you talk to hubby so you can both work through the tough times! Rocky
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RHP User
12 years ago
I do feel for you, and all who have to go without. If there is such a thing as 'Frigid' my 1st wife was the 'epitome'. I calculated once, that in 11 years of marriage she 'deigned' to give over roughly once every 3 weeks... on average. This was in my PRIME male years from 18 to 29... Frustration is just a word when in this situation. To top it off, I was a musician in a popular band with hot and cold running girls. But I had set of morals and ideals then, that precluded adultery, so I sucked it up and came home every night or went back to the Motel. It may sound strange to some people, but I just wanted to make love to the girl I loved and married... This led me to read everything I could get my hands on (no internet then) about women, sex, their attitudes, mindsets and psychology... Fortunately, she found her 'mojo' and shared it with everyone, except me (including my best mate/best man at wedding). When I found out, she disappeared in dear of her life (and rightly so). I did get 3 beautiful children, who make it worth the pain and heartache. Since then (especially with my 2nd wife, I have been successfully making up for those lost 'Prime Male Years'... And will continue to do so... SO, a few weeks for me are not so difficult to get through... given the training I've had. Plus the 'Tantric' methods I've mastered make every encounter worth four of any I had previously... But I have to admit... I do resent her for those lost years during my 'prime'... But have at least let it go and concentrated on the NOW, rather than 'THEN...
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Enjoylifealways
12 years ago
Rocky rhode he is fine with this he copes better with no sex than me. Besides when I have asked he said no because he didn't want to hurt me even when I begged and said it would be fine. He loves me very much and is looking after my health. Yes this has show us how strong our relationship is but I am soo horny. Ha ha
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm little confused with ur post and some replies ? Are you simply asking all how long they have been without sex?
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Enjoylifealways
12 years ago
I was asking how long they hare gone without and if when you got it again whether it was worth the wait.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Was needed for me. I voluntarily was out of the game for 9 months with a medical condition that left me wanting to close up shop due to medically induced lack of interest. Man I did jump back in with both feet. Well worth the wait. Ms S - Posted from rhpmobile
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