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"Once you go black you never go back…"
February 23 2015
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RHP User
11 years ago
He was not bigger than average in fact he was slightly smaller. Lovely guy. The experience was as different as it is between the different lovers I've had over a life time: it is about the connection between two people, and possibly cultural differences. I imagine if he was from America or the Caribbean then there might be some other subtle differences. He had beautiful muscle structure of course but I think the experience there was just visual. 😉 I would not pursue another dark skinned man because he was dark skinned. It was something that just happened and that is how I tend to live when it comes to men.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Yes I concur the "myth" that you refer to, I've made Mr paint his Wang black ever since, it rocks!!!!!
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RHP User
11 years ago
she wrote a song about it...
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RHP User
11 years ago
On being eroticised and sexualised....Racial exoticism.........being stereotyped/objectified because I am perceived to be hypersexual and have great sexual prowess is wrong on so many levels.I have defined my personhood as in relation to my(colour blind) surroundings only to realise that I am being constantly being defined by my skin colour and the stereotypes that are attached to it ...
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RHP User
11 years ago
So OP, have you ever been in a car driven by an Asian guy? Was he a terrible driver or like any other one? Would you do it again? Racial stereotypes are a major turn-off for me personally.
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RHP User
11 years ago
the OP was only picking up on the saying that has been around since year dot. I know someone who loves black men and says she will "never go back" But its a myth that they are all hung like horses, in fact, a (black) friend of mine says that they think the white guys are hung! The biggest one Ive seen (and boy was it big) belonged to a white guy. Asian guys are rumoured to be small but one who goes on cam regularly certainly isn't. Again, all men have dicks, its the person attached to the dick that means more to me.
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RHP User
11 years ago
This topic comes a day after another OP managed to compare the current trend of guys with beards to the beards being sported by Islamic terrorists. That topic was deleted within minutes. I'm sure the OP meant no offence, however I'm still appalled at the ignorance of making assumptions based on a person's race, even when disguised as questions. I'll bow out now.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Black or not ,many women have wanted bigger penis size and over half went back to Mr average.From what I am told there is no difference as a lover but some womenprefer black men.
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JohnAnn2227
11 years ago
I have been with a lot of dark guys and I love sex with them. We have holidayed in the US and Jamaica a number of times and I have definitely enjoyed myself. I don't think that dark guys are any more hung than white guys as I have had everything from 5 inches up to 10 inches (that brought tears!) The thing that turns me on the most is the contrast between our skin colours. Seeing a black cock in my pussy turns John and I on immensely. Also I enjoyed the looks I would get from other women when they would see me with one of my "friiends"... it was obvious what they thought of me and what I was doing. As far as the saying well it is the reverse for me... I will always be with John but will always enjoy dark guys when the opportunity arises.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
He thinks our combined colouring is striking. He is not the first dark partner I have had in my life, the first as a teenager and who I found many years later named his firstborn daughter after me. I look at Roh and see a beautiful, finely boned (facial features), intelligent human being. As a Lover he is as wonderful as any other man I've been fortunate to experience. I'm uncertain what has motivated this thread OP. Do I think darker gentlemen have a harder time attracting pasty white caucasian females to their willing, wanton embrace and sexual charisma, yes. Is it based on the aforementioned racial stereotype, probably. Do I look at him and wonder what my parents are going to say when/if they meet him, hell yes. Thing is, we live in a multi-cultural melting pot of race, colour, creed, religion and whilst it can be difficult to fathom our attraction to any one of those elements to ourselves let alone anyone else the underlying deciding factor should really be: How does that person make you feel? How do you feel on their arm? Is the caring, attraction and feeling between you reciprocated? If the answer is yes then who gives a shit wgat anyone else thinks. Roh has told me some terrible things he's been subjected to because of his skin colour that make me feel ashamed of other people's narrow mindedness. We hold hands in public, walk arm in arm, laugh, kiss. I'm not sure if oeople are looking at him or me or both considering we're both quite handsome (insert big smile here but you get my point right?) but at the end of the day, whilst we are together; I am ceetainly oroud to have such an attractive man by my side. He could be pink with purple polka dots for all I care, the people who've met him think he's divine as well. Maybe it's worth thinking about the opportunities people miss out on because of interracial relationship hesitancy. I certainly never thought at 42 I'd be dating a very sexy, emotionally intelligent pommy let alone a black one!!!
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
One woman who only ever dated African Americans. I'm sure she coined the OP's phrase. Obviously she was shallower than a puddle on a Formula 1 racetrack........
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RHP User
11 years ago
Are you now suggesting all puddles on Formula 1 racetracks are shallow? Stereotyping!
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RHP User
11 years ago
Why are we all so sensitive when it comes to talking about racial groups? The reality is that genetically we are not all the same. Each race has specific physical characteristics that are quite clear: black (sub-Saharan) are typically of fair stature, nose is flat as well as broad, lips are thick and projecting. Also in general, black men have the largest penises; particularly Nigerians at 17cm length in average. By contrast, Asian men usually have the smallest penises. It's. A. Fact. Now to address the "Once you go black...", the Australian National University conducted a study published in 2013 and showed that penis size influences a man's sex appeal, and the taller the man, the bigger the effect. A preference for taller men's larger penis size was notable. Instead of trying to force equality down our throat, why don't we recognise the similarities and celebrate the differences. And no, I'm not racist. I'm married to a dark latino man and loving every second of it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have dated a few black guys. Briefly and thought we kissed Etc I just never got turned in at all. One guy in the USA was a spitting image of Denzel washington. We even got naked , he was turned in I was not so we stopped. At school an indigenous guy. Same deal no chemistry. I am not attracted to black guys. No idea why. Nor Asian guys. I do like Middle Eastern, Spanish, Italian and the rest of the United nations. Some women go crazy for black guys. Some men go crazy for Asian women. It's chemistry. And that is linked to the gene pool and a glad in your nose. But hey if I come across an Asian or black guy that turns me on I will go for it. Some of the mouri guys are pretty hot so I just have to wait and see. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'thepeach'Some women go crazy for black guys. Some men go crazy for Asian women. It's chemistry. I think that's merely a preference based on physical characteristics or for some people perceived character traits (like black guys being more dominant and Asian women being more willing to serve. Yes, stupid I know). Visually I prefer dark-haired men and women to blond ones, and a light skin tone to a dark one (no matter what race). I don't think that has anything to do with chemistry.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I have been with a black guy who said that to me but when his pants came off, he was just average and meh in bed. He was a nice guy but wouldn't go down on me so that was the dealbreaker and nothing to do with his race or colour. But I guess the saying is true in my case. I never went back.... to black 😛 unless there is a sexy black guy out there to convince me otherwise 😁 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I quote: "your the one that hodge people by there colour." Hey, not my fault I find dark hair more sexually attractive in general than blond.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I heard the Dutch are as kinky as. I think it's to do with fingering so dykes.
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RHP User
11 years ago
When we were living in Papua Nuigini one of our 'black' friends came to see us to reveal that he'd experienced a white lady. One of his dreams. We asked how was it. His answer: "no different" lol. He was a bit disappointed. We all just laughed. Quite natural to be curious. Not that long ago we lived quite separately and everyone else... Maybe even in the next village ....was exotic and possibly even very frightening.
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RHP User
11 years ago
You crack me up!!! :)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Hey, not my fault I find dark hair more sexually attractive in general than blond. So now you're saying there's something wrong with baldies are you?
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'SimonDoes' Quoting 'Meander' Hey, not my fault I find dark hair more sexually attractive in general than blond. So now you're saying there's something wrong with baldies are you? Since when are bald men blond?
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RHP User
11 years ago
QUOTE : Instead of trying to force equality down our throat, why don't we recognise the similarities and celebrate the differences. Great statement Tequila.. People tend to get caught up in their own emotions when it comes to sex and another race.. With the exception of a particular group currently upsetting the world with their disgusting practices , I'm not a racist person at all.. If I like someone its because something appealed to me no matter what their race... I see the differences as interesting and quite often very sexy .. Few years back ' my ex tried dark guy just to see what it was like.. She felt it was abit uncomfortable the experience was good and she was glad she did.
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RHP User
11 years ago
And one of the 3 most amazing lovers I've ever had is black. The second one is white. And the third is Mediterranean... Lol. I'm an equal opportunity lover :-D Now I'm wondering what it would be like to have all three of them at once - oh my! ;-)
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'thepeach'Some women go crazy for black guys. Some men go crazy for Asian women. It's chemistry. I think that's merely a preference based on physical characteristics or for some people perceived character traits (like black guys being more dominant and Asian women being more willing to serve. Yes, stupid I know). Visually I prefer dark-haired men and women to blond ones, and a light skin tone to a dark one (no matter what race). I don't think that has anything to do with chemistry. As an artist i really love the features of black people, especially to draw them. I may like the way they look, think they are gorgeous, but sexually, I cannot go there at all. My view is sexual and unless there is chemistry then there will nothing to come back from, as i cant go there in the first place. So when I see a person that has my visual preference as well as my chemical stuff then yes I can go there. So I do get the visual attraction that's say part A but i cant get the other part B and their for they cant get into my Part C
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6exxy
11 years ago
I'd like a shot at that title! 😘 Hmmm all this talk about labours makes hungry for some oysters. Interesting because when you say oysters there's no race attached. "Once you get a good bit you never go back" that's what the saying should be cause let's face it intimacy is a huge part of a relationship. Chemistry that two share together and nurture one another. I've lived here a long time and love all the flavours but yes it is the person that matters most💐
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RHP User
11 years ago
Maybe that's why Mrs. d_d married me. Go figure. Btw, this post and thought-process (just to be clear, I'm not attacking anyone here) assumes that all black people are the same and have the same personalities and physical attributes. There's a term for that. Reverse the situation..what if you asked a black person: "Would you have sex with a white guy/girl?". Sounds silly, right? Though, don't get me wrong..personally I/we love to see skin colour contrast and find it highly erotic (helps because my skin is quite dark). The point that I'm trying to make is to break down these silly assumptions, myths and stereotypes and take people for who they are, rather than a skin colour. $0.02
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' Quoting 'SimonDoes' Quoting 'Meander' Hey, not my fault I find dark hair more sexually attractive in general than blond. So now you're saying there's something wrong with baldies are you? Since when are bald men blond? Don't even rate a mention. It's like we're not real people at all. Don't worry, I can take it.
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RHP User
11 years ago
So after that comment from Jay, a question to the forumites: If you found out someone had sex with you just to see what it was like to have sex with someone of a different race/who was obese/had fake breasts/was uncut/had a disability/etc. would you feel used or offended? I would.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I was tempted to try out a dumbarse once but nah....xxFreya
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RHP User
11 years ago
Moving on....
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RHP User
11 years ago
Don't worry, I did it for you. It's true what they say about dumbarses...
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RHP User
11 years ago
And you know what . . I merely presented the basics in reply to the OPs question , no juicy bits , no details on how it all came about or where or when , just the basics.. But for the record, it was 2 consenting adults going about what curious adults do here on a daily basis. If someone was offended as you presume' it would never of happened... but it did and no one complained or found anything bad until now ? So. ' A '. There was a attraction.. 'B' there was no racist objections ... and 'C ' we know how much you like your C being referred to as that ... so stop being narky... You must be missing me..
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RHP User
11 years ago
Oh my, the thread was not meant to offend nor be racist nor imply that seriously one would only pick a sexual partner based on skin colour. Sexual attraction comes in many forms and personal chemistry between the people is the key factor to sex being hot and sexy IMO. So apologies if I've offended as that wasn't the intent. The angle of the thread was that I like the visual aspect of the difference in skin tone when I've been with a man with dark skin. Some people prefer light features, other dark features, some prefer all men, others prefer short men, athletic, blue eyes etc…we all have our individual turns ons. One of mine is the tone of skin as I love the contrast especially in the throes of passion. And picking up on some of the comments some people share the same opinion. Not all and I can understand that totally.
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On_Safari
11 years ago
How curiosity about trying someone different comes about and is then tested. A sampling before deciding if it's for you or not. I'm still sampling, I think most of us are. It's not meant to be derogative or demeaning it's just curiosity at work.
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RHP User
11 years ago
No dig at Jay at all, he wasn't even talking about himself. It's just that I've heard quite a few women (in this instance) say they've always wanted to "try" a black guy. I admit that that was one thing on my Fucket List when I joined a few years ago.I actually ended up meeting a lovely African American via this site back then , but I realised the main reason I was keen to meet him was because of his race. We didn't work for different reasons, but still. I rather felt like a bitch after our date and would not have blamed him in the least had he felt the same way about me. If I had been in his shoes (and had found out) I would have been offended.
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RHP User
11 years ago
plus its discussed all the time eg blonde v.brunette skinny v. fat no muscles v. muscles Throw the word Race into it and it suddenly becomes an issue or offensive of some sort, it shouldn`t be an issue. I reckon variety is the spice of life and trying something different is great be it skin colour or race too. Any black guys on here offended if a lady would like to see what sex with you is like? There is a party on Saturday night in Perth hosted by a group of Black guys for those interested...........
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not narky and I was referring to a comment made by your ex not you, but you're right, I misquoted your comment. Apologies.
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RHP User
11 years ago
What you posted was perfectly understandable and created some interesting responses.. Just a minor hiccup '. back on track now .. Jay..
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MissBishere
11 years ago
when I saw the title I thought this was about hair colour. 😝
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LetsFrolic
11 years ago
Race gets so twisted in australia because we dont care about races yet have slang terms for everything and peolle assumed we were being racists calling them names. Ive never been with a black girl but i love how they have booties At the end of the day all i care aboug is being with someone that will either play really regularly or be a partner that i caN caress and melg into but also be naughty and experiment wigh and talk to on all levels and be understood. Race etc isnt much after all those things - Posted from rhpmobile
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LetsFrolic
11 years ago
I had to convince them for ages to try it - Posted from rhpmobile
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LetsFrolic
11 years ago
In i had to convjnce them to try it on their girls.. lol i wasnt pressuring them to go down on me. Im straight - Posted from rhpmobile
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
Quoting 'Meander' So after that comment from Jay, a question to the forumites: If you found out someone had sex with you just to see what it was like to have sex with someone of a different race/who was obese/had fake breasts/was uncut/had a disability/etc. would you feel used or offended? I would. I have a few wannabes wanting to try sex with my variety for the first time. It doesn't worry me in that regard but my worry is they may find its not for them at the worst possible moment and run out the door leaving me with my ego and self esteem in a shattered mess. But they have to start somewhere so I go through the checklist to lower the chances. Apart from that though as long as we both have a satisfying time it's not a problem....... And if they don't cancel........
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RHP User
11 years ago
Was reading all the posts and thought that it seemed strange that a positive attribute to a certain race is considered racism. Then Meander s wisdom shone through, to try someone out no matter what race to see the difference rather than being with an individual for who they are, borders on disgusting. Cheers Michael - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
I think there are several ways to look at this question.At times I feel people become too politically correct,that it brings tension .As a black man, I have experienced a lot of couples, or single women.I wouldn't say I excited everyone and vice versa.Is it true that black people have bigger ducks? Yes.I have read through several medical journals that back it up.But having something big and not knowing how to use it is just as good as not having it. I personally have no racial preference,but there some people out tge who prefer a specific race.I see nothing wrong with that.You can't force someone to like something. Heidi Klum left Seal for a white guy.Proof that going black and never going back is just a myth - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'snowpatrol121' plus its discussed all the time eg blonde v.brunette skinny v. fat no muscles v. muscles Throw the word Race into it and it suddenly becomes an issue or offensive of some sort, it shouldn`t be an issue. I reckon variety is the spice of life and trying something different is great be it skin colour or race too. Any black guys on here offended if a lady would like to see what sex with you is like? There is a party on Saturday night in Perth hosted by a group of Black guys for those interested........... Did you say party? Agree with your comments about trying. It's like trying anything else that one likes. In the end it all comes down to the people involved and chemistry or lack thereof.
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RHP User
11 years ago
We have never had a Black person and have no desire for one in the future. Hope this clears things up for the majority.
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RHP User
11 years ago
I look at various people, particularly if I'm as toey as a Roman sandal, and fantasise. It is no disrespect and many would never know what thoughts went through my head, because most remain only that (unfortunately). It could have been an Asian woman, a dark skinned man, geez even a woman with herself completely covered. I think it is perfectly OK to wonder if a dark cock would look different to mine and I might want to find out or what does a dark woman's pussy look like - light pink against her darker outer lips. Or is there a difference between sexual contact from one race or cultural group to another. Bloody hell, are some of these stereotype really true or not. I look at people who don't in anyway do it for me, but I know are another person's passion... an yes wonder what is it that really does it for that person. I have acted out a few curiosities, because I was curious. I was respectful and gave it as much as I would any other encounter. But then I knew that that look, that type, while more than likely a nice person doesn't excite me sexually. To answer the question at hand though...... Have been with both black women and men. No better or worse than any other. Yes the contrast in skin colour between us when having sex did have a certain sexual turn on for me, but as a sexual partner, they were like any other. Would get with another darer skinned person for sure, but not based on the colour of their skin though.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Annie_Whichway' Apart from that though as long as we both have a satisfying time it's not a problem....... I get what you're saying, I guess it's what you're both looking for. I'm looking for long-term flings, so I want someone to like me as a whole person.If a guy merely wanted to fuck me because I'm Dutch (and he heard we are all so kinky with our fingers in those dykes :-p), I'd feel used. I understand that when it comes to shorter-term hook-ups, that would be much less of an issue, is that right?
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
The fuck you miss out on is one you'll never make up for...... Nice to make every one of them a winner!!! And if both like it, then it can become a long term thing. Like buying a car. Get with the program girl......xxxx
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RHP User
11 years ago
To form an opinion after trying one person of a race is just crazy . No two people are equal, everything is different , from fingerprint to physical appearance to their mentalities . You won't come out with a fair judgement Based on one person encounter And if you want to feel the contrast, I suggest a hand shake it will be sufficient Sex is more about attraction, you want to enjoy the act with some one you click with. Regardless who you have it with, what race they're from, it is exactly the same pleasure and movement . And if it is a must to try it with some one for experience, at least add another reason to make it a more enjoyable experience. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
How did you feel in another forum when you said you didn't want to or wouldn't sleep with a guy under 6 inches? Just curious? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Quoting 'Annie_Whichway' Like buying a car. Get with the program girl......xxxx I would never buy a car just for it's exterior (or the size of it's engine) only. Unless it was a Porsche 911, then obviously yes.
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AnnieWhichway
11 years ago
you would take it out at least once because it was a porsche to see if it was up to the hype. Just as you would a black man/woman....or an old tranny...
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RHP User
11 years ago
But trying out a black guy just to see if he lived up to the hype? Not my thing, personally.
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RHP User
11 years ago
Live up to the hype? Black men don't go down? I forgot that all black men come from the same factory, with 12 inch plus size penises and have the same personalities.
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RHP User
11 years ago
A very racist forum and ideal against non blacks
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RHP User
11 years ago
BellaRH up there with you............... Our preference our choice
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RHP User
11 years ago
Not because I've anything against dark skin (since I once had an Indian boyfriend) but I just don't find dark skin attractive. If one relies on the general consensus that this also equals larger manhood, I'd still give it a miss. Give me an average 6 incher any day. Big ones hold no thrill for me.
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blackbig
11 years ago
I can understand your question was a simple fact finding asking people's experience... Sadly it has been turned into political correctness , ignorant generalisation and jab throwing at each other. Where are RHP openminded people in these forum? We have preferences.. Each to their own. I personally get turned on with non overweight Caucasian ladies and particularly blondes. Saying that I don't see anything wrong with other ladies.... It is just what clicks. Saying that I have been turned on and play with reds, Asian and sometimes black ladies. Generalisation that black men have this or don't do that or have similar personalities is very scary thought-:(. Underneath that skin we are all the same, no matter how hard we try to defeat the human physiology and anatomy. Just want to add to ' hisandhers ' please feel free to make me your guinea pig anytime-:)) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
11 years ago
Once youve had white youll never be tight - Posted from rhpmobile
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