Open Relationship / Play

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Thats my take on it!   Msfun

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  My take is... if you are in an open relationship you are open to playing with others within agreed boundaries... the rules of engagement should be understood by ALL parties involved in said interaction. (See the thread about sleepovers).SG

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  It is very different to enjoying some play together to enhance your sexual experiences. It would appear to means the inability to commit to the one person. It could also mean a marriage/relationship of convenience...but we don't know :)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  We believe you've hit the nail on the head.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Yes that is just what the term means,Not something we would ever do need for it.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  It means you've got your red light on Roxanne :p - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  As long as the other party is aware, its removed any grey area's and proceed to play :o)

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Minimal exclusivity, avoidance of love, shallow self orientated realm, damaged goods, STD ++..Both playing around which makes it acceptable in some declared equation of disclosure..Waiting for someone better to come along....

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  For some couples, it seems to (only) mean open to playing, as a couple...- Posted from rhpmobile

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  totallygenuine

  12 years ago

  Interesting topic, I recently experienced an open relationship with my ex partner who had let me play on my own with couples only (no single F 's & I'm straight btw). That went on for about few years. Well I can honestly say within that time till now I've had experienced diff types of open relationships with married and attached couples as where I can meet with the wives or gf's of the couples while partners away for work (with partners consent of course) or just out for basically for naughty meets (sleep overs as well) depending on the boundaries that they have set in place I guess it all comes down to TRUST.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'tickled_kink' Minimal exclusivity, avoidance of love, shallow self orientated realm, damaged goods, STD ++..Both playing around which makes it acceptable in some declared equation of disclosure..Waiting for someone better to come along.... I am very much in love and we have an open relationship.STD's Well, we both look after our sexual health very very well and it's something I always discuss with anyone coming into our domain.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Means many things, to many different couples. Being that we are all individuals with our own set or values and morals yep?For us. We play together, with other men. Me, him and another MMF, oh greedy me lol. This works for me on many levels. I tend to not want to play with guys outside of that. I have with women. That suits me just fine and dandy.He has slept with others outside. Its fine. You know what, plenty of people screw around behind their partners back. I am glad we have this trust and openess. I can't stand lies and deceit and have dealt with it over my years on this planet. I wouldn't always say its perfect for me, but its pretty damn good and we have deep feelings for one another. I can separate sex from feelings (its taken me quite a number of years to do so, but now it is very simple)STD'S. I'd just like to note anyone can get one. Promiscuity within an open relationship or another type of relationship is no different. We are incredibly careful. I would not have sex without a condom, nor would he, which to my despair I hear of many other people doing. I have regular sexual health checks, actually I'm having one tomorrow. Not because I think I have anything, but because I like to check up. I think there can be a large misconception of what an open relationship is and generally I would not disclose to people who I don't know well, that I am in one. I do however find people like my sister and close girlfriend who are understanding. You know some people who are married and such like, have open relationships and are very happy. They have their own rules and boundaries and what or what is not acceptable. Maybe, just maybe, this might actually be even more honest approach to life and love, than your usual type of relationship for a lot of people. Perhaps then there would be less sneaking around and having 'affairs'. Just a thought.

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