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April 28 2014

How many if anyone has stumbled across people on a swingers site, adult site or at a club or party they know from the vanilla world? We were corresponding with a couple and then they sent their face pics!!!!! They are people we know from the kids sporting club!!!! What do you do? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Fuck !!! Hahahaha! At least you have common ground!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Well they can't exactly point the finger now, can they, lol. I would probably play it cool and have a bit of a laugh about it as they probably feel the same way as you. However, I don't think that it would be worth going through with anything with them. I have seen a couple of people on here I know that are customers from work but I woulnd't do anything with them. Fortunately because I work in an adult shop, everyone assumes I am a horny sexual deviant anyway, so it isn't that awkward for me.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Get the heads up from the coach, for when the next away game is, book two rooms, he he. Mado Tara xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Nothing! Like you, I expect other people like to keep their private lives..... private. DG - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    both times they were customers. I didnt let on :)

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Doing nothing DG, they are corresponding with each other and exchanging pics, wouldn't it be rude to just do nothing, it is two swinging couples looking for playing with each others private bits after all. Maybe they could all get on and have a ball getting all naughty, got too live and love living, be a bit daring, play like big kids and fuck. Sorry DG but you make it sound so boring Mado Dora xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Public boring. Absolutely. Privately, feel free to knock yourself out. I don't need the public indiscretions of others haunting me. Keep your shit... YOUR. Shit.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We agree, we have continued to speak and hopefully play! We were just curious as to who else has encountered this? We have socialised in the past and as I have said in another forum, we have both looked at people and wondered if they were... Never for one moment had we looked at this couple in that way... But now sport is so much more - Posted from rhpmobile

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    Isn't it a bit like meeting other swingers at a public place to meet and see if things click?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I work in retail and this lady was a frequent customer at my workplace !! We stood there naked having a good old chat! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    In the industry I am in there are a number of people I have recognised on here. Maybe its the job. Only one (who wasn't work related) that we knew years ago that I knew from many many years ago. Since become very good friends with them and played and its all awesome.

  • ChateauVino

    ChateauVino

    12 years ago

    We see people 'bump' into each other at our club all the time. Sometimes its awkward...... and sometimes its funny when they hook up and play together :)

  • abcplus1

    abcplus1

    12 years ago

    ...but we ended up in bed with a family friend one night. She had always suspected we were that way, we had no idea she was. And she lived with for 6 months a couple of years prior, damn the missed opportunities lol. If you feel confident they would keep the faith as you are, why not chat some more and see where it could go. Hopefully the kids get along :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'JayJay_66' I work in retail and this lady was a frequent customer at my workplace !! We stood there naked having a good old chat! - Posted from rhpmobile Stand there with you and talk about the first thing that pops up LOL.....

  • JohnAnn2227

    JohnAnn2227

    12 years ago

    This has happened to us a few times. We were at Couples Club and I saw this woman who looked vaguely familiar. Got chatting in the spa and it turns out that she is a teacher also at a neighbouring school to mine. We have been to staff development days at each other's school. We always give each other a wink now at school events.Also met friends of friends at a nude pool/swingers party. Standing there naked except for heels when they recognised me! It was good though as they have now become very close friends.End of the day they can't blab without putting themselves in it too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    both of us work together and at a club we have run into an ex employee, was a little awkward as she left in bad terms, but would have been awkward at a pub. We also ran into a customer, he was more worried than us. However in saying that we work hard at keeping our swinging life and vanilla life separate.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    And the trophy for best in field goes to ..... :p - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    We have often discussed this... And actually have a competition on who will be the first to stumble across a vanilla acquaintance.... Don't ask what the prize is ;)... Lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    First was on RHP where the person said they had kissed me when I was younger and quoted of my full name and family, I'm like, mmmm didn't kiss any girls when younger, must be a guy, we still send messages but nothing else........ Second time was at CC, this guy ran up to me saying "what r u doing here" and before I could make a smart arse comment, realised that the kids go to school together. Had to admit the cats out of the bag, especially considering my hubby wasn't with me that night (lol nor the next time i saw them there again). Hubby saw them at the Easter show, he waved but they ran off.