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Playing while pregnant
November 24 2013
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Beachlover1999
12 years ago
Well I think common sense and respect to the unborn child should answer that question!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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Enjoylifealways
12 years ago
When I was pregnant i loved sex even more than normal so I could understand why you would want to play when you are. Though I couldn't because it just felt wrong and like my body wasn't mine. Though make sure you use protection because a STD could cause big problems for bub. If you feel ok with it i don't see the problem. Your body your choice
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've seen a few forums about this, so it's not abnormal. . Like Sharing says: Your body. Just play safely.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Each to their own we say. Personally, if you're still enjoying it, and as long as you play safe (which we would think you'd be doing anyway) then why not?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Really? You are on RHP and cast judgement about questions? Seems hypocritical to me. If you are pregnant and it is of interest to you then do it. It isn't up to us to judge. Personally I say you feel as sexy as hell pregnant and if someone else finds you same than enjoy it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I dont know about tis'....
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Is it Mr or Mrs asking the question? Because I think by and large the motivations behind the query (and the responses) will depend on which of you is asking. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
= Bad
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RHP User
12 years ago
I understand where beachlover is coming from, I know when I first encountered a pregnant woman who asked if swinging was still okay, my first instinct was to say no way. The pregnant woman is supposed to be like the Virgin Mary in a way and the baby should be out above the mothers needs with in reason. Now that I have grown accustomed to the idea, I can definitely see the appeal. Although as already stated ensuring that the baby is protected is paramount and if something where to happen.... Well that doesn't bare thinking about really.
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RHP User
12 years ago
However OP you haven't said, Are you referring to swinging, threesomes, etc or are you asking about sex between the two of you?
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RHP User
12 years ago
when you have your checkups...at five months I almost miscarried after having sex x R
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RHP User
12 years ago
Mr asking - Ask her. It will depend on her head entirely. Mrs asking - Is there any medical reason you shouldn't? Are you emotionally OK about it? If so, do what you like but I do suggest you avoid fisting.
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RHP User
12 years ago
As Meeka asked/said husband to wife is fine,But the thought of bringing others in to have sex is so wrong.
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RHP User
12 years ago
What makes you say that? She's pregnant, not dead? Ill? No. I mean normal. She is just fucking pregnant. The kid wont have a dent in its forehead due to penile robustness. We have a cervix to cover that. Skulking off with my crankypants x GRRR
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QLDtwo4fun
12 years ago
It's up to the individual, and the couple to make those choices. A healthy pregnant woman is gorgeous.
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Beachlover1999
12 years ago
Just don't understand why anyone would risk 'the slightest chance' of anything going wrong with the pregnancy but perhaps that's because I had 4 miscarriages (and NO risky sex)......... As Meeka often says, no sex is completly risk free.....
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Beachlover1999
12 years ago
It's about the potential risk of infection, bacteria and potential need to take medications to fix it, even antibiotics are not recommended unless 'absolutely necessary' during pregnancy. Many medications cross the placenta and can and do harm the unborn child as does bacteria. Your blood travels to the foetus. Sex with your usual partner and sport than you did before pregnancy are recommended as safe ie don't start being an elite athletic once you become pregnant if you did nothing before. :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'KindaHippy' What makes you say that? She's pregnant, not dead? Ill? No. I mean normal. She is just fucking pregnant. The kid wont have a dent in its forehead due to penile robustness. We have a cervix to cover that. Skulking off with my crankypants x GRRR
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RHP User
12 years ago
The doctors and midwives recommend sex and lots of it when your pregnant. I wouldn't do it close to your due date though as sex can bring labour on but like sharing said your body your choices
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JohnAnn2227
12 years ago
We continued swinging until I was 6 months pregnant with both of our children. We weren't still going to swing clubs but were playing with friends of ours. It stopped at about 6 months as I was just getting to uncomfortable and tired after that. Our friends used to love spooning with me after sex and feeling our baby kick. Helped make our friendships even more special! there is definitely nothing wrong with swinging while you are pregnant!
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First_TimeCpl
12 years ago
We played while my wife was pregnant, but it got to the stage when she said i don't feel sexy anymore which was about 6 months and then we stopped.It's all about confidence.
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RHP User
12 years ago
For a single guy like me, it's almost impossible to find pregnant women who want to play, but that being said, I find the rounded tummy of a bearing woman to be the sexiest of all. I am still hoping that any pregnant couples would still like to indulge with a thoughtful and caring guy like myself. I guess if you are curious, comfortable and careful (the three C's) then there's nothing stopping you from enjoying this beautiful time in your life.
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RHP User
12 years ago
for as long as i can remember the site of a pregnant lady was an instant turn on for me and you only have to go to sites like fetlife to see that there are a great many men and women who feel the same as long as the womans wishes and restrictions are respected i see nothing wrong with it. P.S. Any pregnant women reading this please reply asap yes i am having a joke but if you are
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RHP User
12 years ago
If you have a cervical stitch in or if you've already ruptured your membranes, then no. Otherwise, do it!! Nothing too rough, and definitely don't catch an STI, otherwise things will be fine (unless you're at risk of rupturing your membranes... infection, twins... google the list if you want) disclaimer: I may be a doctor but 1) I am not an obgyn specialist and 2) you have no way of telling i'm a doctor, so interpret this advice accordingly...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'gorgeous22' The doctors and midwives recommend sex and lots of it when your pregnant. I wouldn't do it close to your due date though as sex can bring labour on but like sharing said your body your choices The baby was born "by appointment" that is induced 14 days after due date but still it was fun trying make the labour happen.The bottom line is if you get the urge don't fight it...enjoy the moment.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Can't say id judge those who do but it would be a no go for us (and yes been approached before) Personally sex was great during pregnancy! Wanting all the time. However our view is that sex while pregnant is more loving and especially as body changes and positions become .... Less available.... Lol. It's still good sex but more between mother and father. Whereas play with couples = friendship! not love. And some great fucking!
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JohnAnn2227
12 years ago
I can see what Madmanx is saying and I wouldn't have wanted to go to Couples Club and play with strangers while pregnant but with close friends the experience was exciting and beautiful. Our girl play became even more sensual and caring as my girlfriends new exactly how to pleasure me and what would make me relax. It made us so close that one of my girlfriends was in for the birth of our second child. To be massaged and carressed by 3 pairs of hands was amazing. Also being carressed and supported in a spa by multiple partners was mind blowing. Saying that I still love that I'm definitely not pregnant! LOL!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Our F is quite keen to play, even do a full swap, but our experience is that a lot of other couples aren't so comfortable playing with a pregnant woman.
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RHP User
12 years ago
What if you get an STI, or played with someone who doesn't understand the word Stop? I know that being pregnant does send your hormones out of control but to me it just seems that the risks out weigh the pleasure you might get from it
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JohnAnn2227
12 years ago
But don't you always have safe sex looking4quality? Also we always play in the same room. We only swung with a few couples that we were especially close with. We would not swing with anyone who was not respectful of our boundaries whether I was pregnant or not.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I find nothing sexier then a lady being pregs but not sure I'd go there as play time due to respect but if it did come about I'd show little more respect and upmost dignity to her n her partner :) We all have a views n at the end of the day only person that can make this choice is our selfs
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RHP User
12 years ago
That's what condoms are for, and we'd be quite careful screening people to exclude those who don't seem our type. If they do not understand the word 'stop' then our M would help remind them!
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RHP User
12 years ago
and I feel sexier, hornier and more beautiful than ever before albeit more rounded and slightly uncoordinated...!! But I do think other men/women/couples may be put off and we haven't invited anyone to join us... Yet!! But I (MrsNawty) am in total agreeance with the above posts that safe sex is a must, with a prior discussion about boundaries and mutual respect throughout by all. Which was the bloody same before I was preggers anyway! ...however swinging from the chandeliers may not be on the cards now though! :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You can still get an STI even though you use a condom for penetration. Been there... Have the t-shirt. :-( Too many dirty hands!
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RHP User
12 years ago
You people need to read the posted date it's November 24 2013 and the people that posted it never replied once to their own thread... You are all either new to the concept of being trolled or seriously need to find another topic to read and contribute to IMO.. I was going to add my 2 cents but as stated above by more then a few people we don't even know if this was posted by HIM or HER or BOTH... Old Thread Move On...
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