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  RHP User

  9 months ago

  Hello. You come across like you value socialising, conversations, dates etc… which is great tbh. This site isn’t really for that. It’s mostly just a fuck site that many find highly frustrating - what it promises versus what it delivers. I don’t think you’d succeed that much on here regardless of how you write an intro. Just the honest truth because your tone is wasted on the masses who inhabit this platform. There are very few real women here anyway. Try a dating site (as opposed to a fuck site) or something social.

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  NeoAndTrin

  9 months ago

  Theres over 400 people in Townsville using RHP? I think you'll find a lot of those profiles might be inactive hence the lack of response or even outright fake. Try going to a local event in person and make connections there.

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  Thesunlovingsub

  9 months ago

  You haven’t really said what type of women you enjoy spending time with on your biological , and if you’re just sending the same generic message to every woman it’s kinda giving vibes that you think we’re all interchangeable. Hope this helps!

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  BarberBoss1981

  9 months ago

  You're sending the same message to everyone and not tweaking it slightly to personalise it...which indicates You're not reading their profile to find out much about them? The most effective messages that have worked for me is where men or couples have referenced something I've written in my bio or a common interest i have with them Also as a non smoker, the photo of you with a cigarette hanging out of your mouth is not appealing at all...in my opinion anyway.

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  Nightglider

  9 months ago

  Hope your luck turns around. To me, immediate turn off is smoking. I have a number of female friends on this space and have read enough forum posts to know sunglasses in profile pics is not well received. Women like seeing eyes. Take I’ve from above not below face level for lot flattering angles. Your profile bio IMO is underwhelming. It reads more like you’re on a dating site in some ways. Shy at first might be the case but sometimes best to see how you vibe with people as it may not be that way with everyone. Possibly view other male profiles for tips on how they write them. Especially men who have a few validations. I’ll include a screenshot from ChatGPT on a possible re write for your profile bio. Obviously try not to copy past and try to ale it your own.

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  Sawadee

  9 months ago

  Gday Jamie.. see nothing wrong with your introduction... If youre not getting response its not you . Most women here on rhp recieve heaps of messages so yours becomes just another of the many.. Understanding this will save you much soul searching... Good luck...

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  MsSuperFoxy

  9 months ago

  Hi Jamie, don’t be too hard on yourself. Honestly, your intro message is polite, clear and respectful. You could add a more personal touch by adding something in there about their profile and whats attracted you to send a message. Your message does sets you apart from 90% of what people send on here. Add that bit more to make it 100%. 👌 Sometimes it’s less about you and more about timing, luck, or whether the right person happens to see it. I wouldn’t write this place off completely as there are genuine people here who appreciate conversation, connections and social interactions and the chat room Theres always events that do cater for everything. You don't mind travelling, so that's a plus. I know there's amazing people on here because I have met them. So Jamie, keep being you. It's better to stand out for respect as thats very attractive, than blend in with the same ol same ol. Ms Foxy

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  nightingale8

  9 months ago

  Any opener question that you answer with a yes or no, will be a near automatic no. Unless you’re standout in looks. Clean up your pics. Your blank facial expressions make you look boring. There aren’t that many ladies active compared to men seeking. The fact you smoke regularly limits that pool even more. Who knows persistence may get you there.

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  seekandplay

  9 months ago

  Ok, so let’s say you messaged me… first thing I’d look at are your photos. Photos 3,4,5 can go. Photo 5 especially. It’s great you’re showing your face, not many men do, but maybe one of you being less serious? Your wording is somewhat ok. It probably reads a bit more for a dating site (and I know you’ve said going into a relationship is ok with you). The comments around your cock/others/mouths is a little bit off putting. I know this is a different site to others, but for me personally reading that made me cringe just a smidge. You can still put it out there that you’re comfortable doing those things, just word a little differently? I can sit a bit on the vanilla fence though, so could just be me. You need to get out there in person. If you’re wanting to dabble in the scene and also play with other couples (which your profile states) then get to some parties and SOP venues. Good luck!

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  seekandplay

  9 months ago

  10/10 for effort and making the changes 👌🏻 Good luck Jamie!

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  RHP User

  6 months ago

  Hey mate,,got nothing to do with your intro or whatever.I have the same issue;I contacted tens of women and yeah barely a reply.it feels weird but true.Online stuff is only good for women,for men it is a dog race

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