Porn vs Real life

January 08 2024

How similar is the porn you masturbatory too, to the sex you actually have? Ms Foxy

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    nothing like it, with porn rarely watch same thing twice but certainly love having sex with same people more than once

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    Masturbation is actual sex but just by yourself. There is porn of people masturbating - just go to the chat room LOL You do remind me of a couple I knew who went to a swingers party. She loved it. But he said he was disappointed as the people’s bodies were not the same as the porn he liked to watch. It was a funny comment as he certainly was not someone you would see in a porn video.

  • Libertine001

    Libertine001

    2 years ago

    Not even comparable as porn is just for instant gratification whereas sex irl normally consists of sessions with many positions. The issue with porn and young guys is that they have an impression that that's what women like and have no thought that they are paid actors with a basic scrip and it's the same for young woman that that's what they should all be doing which is so far off the mark for the most pleasurable sessions for both partners. Each to their own though. Libertine

  • Obi1kenietzsche

    Obi1kenietzsche

    2 years ago

    Very similar in that (at this juncture) they both imaginary! 😂

  • Fuckmywifexxx

    Fuckmywifexxx

    2 years ago

    Well my husband films my encounters and then we watch them - so exactly like the hotel sex we have...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    I rarely watch it anymore but if I do I watch it from specific producers like X-Art or LustCinema. These days I tend to rely on my imagination more. If I’m masturbating to my imagination then it’s pretty close as it’s generally what I’m visualising, but if it’s to porn it sometimes is if I use any ideas from what I’ve watched

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    2 years ago

    Worlds apart

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    Rarely look at porn anymore... when I do, it's similar to the sex I've had / am having (if not in that moment). I've been lucky enough to have had four long term relationships with bisexual partners. Porn is crude in comparison. Although, I think what turned me off the whole thing was the terrible voice-overs. Can't suspend my disbelief when she's talking dirty with her mouth closed or when her moaning is out of sync with her breathing. These days, porn mostly serves as inspiration rather than satisfaction.

  • NeoAndTrin

    NeoAndTrin

    2 years ago

    Reverse cowgirl is my favorite to watch but it's not as pleasurable to do because I can't see the good stuff. Boobs, face, stomach...

  • slutsolutions

    slutsolutions

    2 years ago

    The regular 20th century human person has not yet achieved the required leveled ups to experience-hop between mechanically produced visual projections and there own personal organic mind eye displays. Until this skill is commonly attainable the difference will remain as vast and abstract as observing another creatures grief without having experienced grief oneself. Experience is the only reality t.v. we have for the moment though, besides big brother that is.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    There is so much porn out there so you can find stuff that replicate your sex life. I find it can be a bit boring and just there either for people to get off on or for those posting to give them a sense of freedom and at times allow their exhibitionism out. I do have a small selection on an external drive but only has stuff from a group called Desperate Amateurs with good realistic porn.

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    2 years ago

    lm more likely to be drawn to homemade amatuer stuff because its more likely to be the real deal .. Even then its as rare as hen's teeth trying to find anything that's good.. Foxys description of being ninja fucked fired up my imagination .. specially being tied up and fucked 😁 , now that was hot... What do they say ' seduce my mind and the rest follows...

  • Ourmalibu

    Ourmalibu

    2 years ago

    I’ll only watch real homemade porn, mainly on Fet. I don’t like mainstream ‘scripted’ porn 👎🏼 It’s all different on Fet and people are not paid actors and that’s what I like about it. Is it comparable to my sex life….Yes and No.

  • nightingale8

    nightingale8

    2 years ago

    I’m usually skipping to the hardcore bits. I’m too impatient so I wouldn’t know 😂 if not for that then yes, sometimes. Just not now while my back is giving me grief! I don’t watch the violent coercive stuff or “destroying pussies” with fingers, dicks or tongues. The beautiful porn sometimes is too beautiful for me!Someone like Owen Gray seems a good balance and that’s mostly quite vanilla.

  • Ex007

    Ex007

    2 years ago

    An old man (at a guess say in his 80’s), sat beside me at a camp draft once. He was looking straight ahead into the arena and without skipping a beat said. “You know what watching this is like watching porn, it's only really fun if you're doing it yourself”.

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    2 years ago

    Some great answers here, thank you. Ms Foxy

  • CharliePeanut

    CharliePeanut

    2 years ago

    I find most porn artificial. The actors know the camera is there and play to the camera. When you film your own porn and there is a genuine connection between participants then that's another level and it's almost no longer porn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    Porn is mostly a fantasy. Where real life is more involved you have a connection, chemistry then you both explore each other that's the difference for me.

  • jhanmelbourne

    jhanmelbourne

    2 years ago

    Nice

  • Manicmedic

    Manicmedic

    2 years ago

    I have to say that the porn I watch directly relates to what I enjoy. It gives some reality and some ideas too. I've also managed to have some porn type experiences. I've arranged a few gangbangs MMF MMMF MMMMF, DP, DVP etc. some were fantasies of others which I helped to facilitate. Pure porn stuff without the model figures, lighting or to be honest the stamina.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    I’m a bad boy because of porn 😈

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    It’s all about ideas. It’s fake like any movie. But skull F’ing, threesomes (2 girls preferred); but love a filthy slut. Bukkake, filling a glass with cum etc…. When you bang or gang bang a slut who is talking so much filth and starts spitting in your face, demanding to be called a cum slut whore; it just gets better and better. Thank you porn for all the ideas. Been watching for most of my life. Try me…..😈

  • TheVelvetKey

    TheVelvetKey

    2 years ago

    It is almost never the same, although a cpl of years back I had a FWB who I connected with so intensely that the sex was intense and better than any porn I’ve watched

  • AmiablePrick

    AmiablePrick

    2 years ago

    Solo masturbation porn mimics my sex life 100% I think I might be the opposite of a lot people. When I watch porn what I look for is the conversation that leads up to the sex. The sex I can skip as it's mostly vanilla and just a catalogue of what people can do to please each other and I kind of lose interest quick, or cum, but that little part in couples sex where the actors improvise a dialogue scene that leads to an acknowledgement that they want to participate is what turns me on. I know there's non-consensual porn too, but I don't have an interest in that.

  • Easytiger0070

    Easytiger0070

    2 years ago

    I only watch Amateur stuff. Stuff people post themself. The directed stuff does absolutely nothing for me so fake

  • Hobartfun

    Hobartfun

    2 years ago

    Tbh who needs porn I got enough imagination to do it without porn I think it’s bad look if you have to watch porn to get in the mood or off tbh

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    Make our Owen porn and watch it and do it all over again

  • Playful2looking

    Playful2looking

    2 years ago

    If porn is about lots of cock thrusting and women on the knees sucking cock it's boring although we are a bisexual couple cock focused porn is a big yawn

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    Depends what porn you watch and get off to. I tend to get off to the same kind of stuff I do IRL. I’m all about pushing the norms so I do a lot of freaky stuff as most people would see it. But then I seek out the niche who are into that.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    Nothing beats the skin to skin , the scent of her body , the connection that link two naked bodies With all the respect I have for my hand ... It s still not the same 🤣

  • Gialia

    Gialia

    2 years ago

    Real life fulfilled some fantasies similar in the porn scenes but the experience likely to be different to expectations

  • RHP

    RHP User

    2 years ago

    I am going to become a Porn star

  • iamthecowgodmoo

    iamthecowgodmoo

    2 years ago

    Lately I've been watching people caught by housekeeper, neighbour, beach goer, etc. Whether alone playing with yourself, or with someone. I love a bit of exhibitionism. It is something I have done and hope to do again..