RHP

RHP User

F32

Recently come back after many years...and nothing.

September 25 2019

Hi, I have recently come back to the site after being away for maybe 3-5 years for various reasons, and I no longer seem to get views or messages. I used to get messages, views, but now, nothing. I have noticed the same thing on Fetlife, OKC etc. Sometimes I wonder if all the algorithms have changed. I am a person with a disability (I use walking sticks) so not everyone always accepts that, but always used to be able to find /some/ interested people. I wonder if anyone has had the same experience?

Comments

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    6 years ago

    Maybe people are confused as to what you actually want, after reading your profile (what you want and dont want) and viewing your friends list... there is a disconnect.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Where is the disconnect? I have only had two friends on my friends list and haven't spoken to them for years it's old. Thanks for the reply by the way

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    your first pic is very glum, and, it looks very very different from the rest, that may be setting of some alarm bells.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I'm goth? Also those pictures are older, so I should get rid of the older pictures then?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I literally cut my hair very short a few months ago, that's why it looks so different

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    I literally just posted this same Q. We are a couple in our 30s, have full profile, pics, clear on what we are looking for but get little to no interactions. We upgraded so we could make the first move and have sent messages to little to no response. So yep 100% same situation for us. We are a little over it!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    6 years ago

    Sorry to hear you are going through the same, it is very frustrating. I just feel it all used to be easier somehow, I don't know what changed. I am pretty burnt out at the moment from going on dates that lead nowhere (no one seems to know how to hold a conversation anymore) so am pretty much on a break and will rejig my profile after that