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Rejection and Private Galleries
January 07 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Maybe they don't want to meet.... just swap pictures. Frankly people never cease to amuse me around here with all these diverse sexual interests. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
I get guys asking to see my PG2... 99.99999% I won't allow access to it as I know they wont drive the 1 1/2 to come see me. * Rolls eyes*. Just tossers to me who just sit on the comp n wank.. .. Who knows what some on here do.. Hope you meet some nice couples huggies sweetpetite41 xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
When it comes to the Wide Wonderfull often Wild World of RHP....Nothing Surprises Me....And its always interestingEveryone Unique...as is Everyone else..Who knows whats going on in someone else's mind...?I dont question why some people do the things they do....They Just Do.....they dont seem To Think....Its How i react to it that counts...
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RHP User
15 years ago
I see your pics are in private gallery, they are probably showing you their pics in the hope that you would show them yours. Just like stalky said, they just want to swap pictures.
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RHP User
15 years ago
we open our pg for most as we didnt upload the pics to be hidden from everyone. the only reason we have pics in there is due to keeping our personal life hidden from people that we know outside rhp. in saying that it only gets open once we are sure we dont know these people/person from our day to day life.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We do message with photos on our 1st or 2nd contact, we say meet and play. But when they respond....nope dont want meet or play, but in the spirit here is our p/g. Wow neatie some nudie pictures ....we will get off on such a couple, yeah right in a million years no thanks!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'tastietwo' We do message with photos on our 1st or 2nd contact, we say meet and play. But when they respond....nope dont want meet or play, but in the spirit here is our p/g. Wow neatie some nudie pictures ....we will get off on such a couple, yeah right in a million years no thanks!but in saying that there are ALOT of profiles that have pics that arn't in the PG that could get a guy or girl off :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
if u send us ur pg but we dont feel we want to play with u we will still send you our pg simply because you have sent us urs and we think its politeMrs B
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hello to all. Myself and my wife are on here as a couple to hopefully explore and extend out sexual desires and even help us to communicate with each other. My wife is very straight down the line especially if there is something I am interested in. (Please bare with me here I don't know short answers) She can be jealous at times but when communication is said and done then there is no real great problem.Maybe this couple is very new and vanilla? Maybe they are just looking for the thrill of the "Voyeur" style. I know my wife at the moment is ok with the voyeur/exhibitionism thing at the moment but not really sure if she wants to continue on to persue more than that at the moment.I have found that communication is the key and maybe they arn't that good at communication.Then again it might be just a fraud and glossed over? However I'd like to think that we could all give people the benefit of the doubt on here at least once.
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RHP User
15 years ago
did they actually say "here's our PG"? cos sometimes i'm an idiot and i've occasionally hit that drop-down box instead of the template reply one and after it's sent i think "oh shit, did i tick the boxes?" not everyone can keep their brain fully engaged on getting laid all the time ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' did they actually say "here's our PG"? cos sometimes i'm an idiot and i've occasionally hit that drop-down box instead of the template reply one and after it's sent i think "oh shit, did i tick the boxes?" not everyone can keep their brain fully engaged on getting laid all the time ;) Yes along the lines heres our p/g ..enjoy! After saying no match!
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RHP User
15 years ago
when someone ask to see your private pics and you agree, how long do you give then access, ..one day ....oneweek..forever, and when you do take it back,do you get..HEY I WAS LOOKING AT THAT, CAN I HAVE IT BACK PLEASE?? and you say no i look the same as i did five minutes ago BUT I WASNT DONE YET, maybe for those males that have one hand on their dick and the other on the keyboard i should keep a pic that will deflate them instantly...maybe my mothe inlaw. ha..
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'BadRomancefor4' Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' did they actually say "here's our PG"? cos sometimes i'm an idiot and i've occasionally hit that drop-down box instead of the template reply one and after it's sent i think "oh shit, did i tick the boxes?" not everyone can keep their brain fully engaged on getting laid all the time ;) Yes along the lines heres our p/g ..enjoy! After saying no match!well that's just plain weird
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'SORENTOSEXY'when someone ask to see your private pics and you agree, how long do you give then access, ..one day ....oneweek..forever, and when you do take it back,do you get..HEY I WAS LOOKING AT THAT, CAN I HAVE IT BACK PLEASE?? and you say no i look the same as i did five minutes ago BUT I WASNT DONE YET, maybe for those males that have one hand on their dick and the other on the keyboard i should keep a pic that will deflate them instantly...maybe my mothe inlaw. ha.. Thats a interesting one, we leave it open for a week a couple might want to discuss take a 2nd look etc. If we dont hear anything within a week we may delete access to our p/g If we are talking leave it open, lets face it they can easily be copied, we have got annoyed when you are talking and the p/g is deleted we take it as you have changed your mind. We will access all photos as we are leaving home as a refresher to reconise the couple in public when meeting.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Badromancefor4... I was actually wondering why someone would send you a wink, then block you..Just like you guys did to me ???
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RHP User
15 years ago
Maxking2010 We have history messaging Dec 2010 no history of winking, you must of upset us bad for us to block you.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'BadRomancefor4' Maxking2010 We have history messaging Dec 2010 no history of winking, you must of upset us bad for us to block you. I got a wink, logged on to your profile and ii was blocked.Not sure what i could have done to upset you. Dont get me wrong, i havnt been crying into a box of tissues, just thought it was strange.
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
We have plenty of facial pics in our public gallery so anyone can see what we look like, we expect if someone contacts us and seriously wants to meet and they have their facial pics in a private gallery they should give us access straight away on FIRST message, we aren't hoping for action shots..clothed shots are fine so long as faces are visible, that's the most important thing. But as for the initial question here...so what if they send you PG access after rejection? Badromance you say you then message them and ask them to block you ??? If you're ticked at them..just block them.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Dissagree with facial photos on first message being a absolute requirement, thats being a bit tuff considering way more messages dont get answered than answered. If the words look good we will ask for photos, we wont reject because they didnt supply face photos on 1st contact. Quoting 'Donna_Brett'We have plenty of facial pics in our public gallery so anyone can see what we look like, we expect if someone contacts us and seriously wants to meet and they have their facial pics in a private gallery they should give us access straight away on FIRST message, we aren't hoping for action shots..clothed shots are fine so long as faces are visible, that's the most important thing. But as for the initial question here...so what if they send you PG access after rejection? Badromance you say you then message them and ask them to block you ??? If you're ticked at them..just block them.
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RHP User
15 years ago
hey petite i would drive to bunbury anytime to catch up with you.
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RHP User
15 years ago
But I am not meeting at the moment. Hence no pics up on my profile and in * busy* mode. Just cause a person offers to meet does not mean one has to accept. We all are here to find that mutual attraction. I might like a profile & pics and drool... :P But the other person might like mine. Takes 2, 3 or 4...to tango . huggies sweetpetite41
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
Quoting 'BadRomancefor4'If the words look good we will ask for photos, we wont reject because they didnt supply face photos on 1st contact.We are the type of people who don't like to hurt anyone's feelings even if we reject them, the way we see it is if a person/couple message us and their profile sounds great & all is good but we haven't seen face shots and then we ask for them and at that point we are not attracted to them for whatever reason and THEN we decide to reject them it is obvious that it is just based on their appearance ....and that we think would seem insulting. But if we get a message and see profile & photos all at once and we decline , well, it could be for any number of reasons. Some years ago this happened when after getting messages from a guy who sounded OK but when seeing his photo we knew it wasn't going to happen he was so insulted and kept sending emails along the lines of "What's wrong with me", "Aren't I good enough" etc etc .Maybe other people don't care and that's fine but we try to be polite as best we can.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Maxking2010' Don't get me wrong, i haven't been crying into a box of tissues, just thought it was strange. the dripping tears would make the whole box soggy. that's just plain illogical. ;)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' Quoting 'Maxking2010' Don't get me wrong, i haven't been crying into a box of tissues, just thought it was strange. the dripping tears would make the whole box soggy. that's just plain illogical. ;) When they are wet your fingers could go thru.............. messy :<
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Donna_Brett' Quoting 'BadRomancefor4'If the words look good we will ask for photos, we wont reject because they didnt supply face photos on 1st contact.We are the type of people who don't like to hurt anyone's feelings even if we reject them, the way we see it is if a person/couple message us and their profile sounds great & all is good but we haven't seen face shots and then we ask for them and at that point we are not attracted to them for whatever reason and THEN we decide to reject them it is obvious that it is just based on their appearance ....and that we think would seem insulting. But if we get a message and see profile & photos all at once and we decline , well, it could be for any number of reasons. Some years ago this happened when after getting messages from a guy who sounded OK but when seeing his photo we knew it wasn't going to happen he was so insulted and kept sending emails along the lines of "What's wrong with me", "Aren't I good enough" etc etc .Maybe other people don't care and that's fine but we try to be polite as best we can. i hate to tell people no when the face pic is the thing that settles it in my mind, but you're kinda letting one guy's extreme reaction spoil it for you... although i suppose it is a good way to weed out the people who didn't bother to read the profile so i guess it all works out in the end. i just hate that it's always the weirdos and wankers that are the ones that influence everyone's protocols and decisions!
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RHP User
15 years ago
We all have the right to say no at any stage. 1/ 1st contact via profile message with photos. 2/ 2nd contact via profile message with photo request. 3/ Ist meet after profile contact in person. 4/ 1st meet at a party no profile insight. 5/ 1st meet at a club no previuos contact. The universal swing rule is No means No, no questions asked and a explanation is not expected, its the way with the lifestyle. If it hurts your feelings or you are a type that think it may hurt someones feelings saying no, its time to revisit the most important swing rule above. We dont think you are not Mr Nice guy by saying no at any stage, its the way it is.
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' i hate to tell people no when the face pic is the thing that settles it in my mind, but you're kinda letting one guy's extreme reaction spoil it for you... although i suppose it is a good way to weed out the people who didn't bother to read the profile so i guess it all works out in the end. i just hate that it's always the weirdos and wankers that are the ones that influence everyone's protocols and decisions!Hell no...some fool's hissy fit hasn't tainted our experiences in this scene, we've been in it for about 12 years now. That one was just an example, we've seen all manner of flips outs & issues but our attitude is "That's their problem, not ours" & we just move on.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We don't have the usual pg. We do not need to look at pink bits, for what reason?, we all have them and if we get that far we would rather keep it till then. We meet other couples and men (hi R) because we like them, not because we are interested in their outer or inner labia formation or if his penis fits in. It is assumed they are there and it will fit in. No need to show us and we won't show ours. I also will not put pics of my wife's genitals on the internet, that achieves nothing other than cheapening us and giving some perv a free hard on. We agree with wagga_pair in that we only have face pics and won't release those until we know the recipient is not someone in our personal unfun life.
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RHP User
15 years ago
We feel it's polite to send you our PG if you've sent us yours. Annie.
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DonnaBrett
15 years ago
Quoting 'tyandeb'We agree with wagga_pair in that we only have face pics and won't release those until we know the recipient is not someone in our personal unfun life.You know, anyone who knows you personally would certainly recognise you from your pics..even with faces covered. In this scene you have to be prepared for that...that's why all our non swing friends know what we do..and so far no one has ever had an issue with it...it certainly hasn't changed friendships in any way....a few have even cum over to the Dark side...LOL
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ballinacpl' if u send us ur pg but we dont feel we want to play with u we will still send you our pg simply because you have sent us urs and we think its politeMrs B Yep, we do the same thing as "Ballinacpl" trying to be polite ! didn't realise we were pissing people off.We get a little peeved at people asking to see our PG and say they will respond with theirs then don`t.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Donna_Brett' I was very much in to haveing face pics of people .. but after a 'bad' experience .. i now ask for full body pics. to cut the story short ... heeps of emails, cam shots, phone calls ... the shoulders upwards and the voice were wonderful .. not quite brad pitt but close .... then came the actuall 3D meet, the shoulders down resembled "damian" from the current series of the 'Biggest Losers family" .. and it was then a complete NO GO for me .. so not its full body or nothing .. Quoting 'BadRomancefor4'If the words look good we will ask for photos, we wont reject because they didnt supply face photos on 1st contact.We are the type of people who don't like to hurt anyone's feelings even if we reject them, the way we see it is if a person/couple message us and their profile sounds great & all is good but we haven't seen face shots and then we ask for them and at that point we are not attracted to them for whatever reason and THEN we decide to reject them it is obvious that it is just based on their appearance ....and that we think would seem insulting. But if we get a message and see profile & photos all at once and we decline , well, it could be for any number of reasons. Some years ago this happened when after getting messages from a guy who sounded OK but when seeing his photo we knew it wasn't going to happen he was so insulted and kept sending emails along the lines of "What's wrong with me", "Aren't I good enough" etc etc .Maybe other people don't care and that's fine but we try to be polite as best we can.
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