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Safe Word

April 20 2013

Hmmmm am just wondering what some people use as their 'safe word' during those rough/bdsm sexy times.Do you pick your own or do you pick one for your partner??My last bf & I picked each others safe words (insert my evil laugh).He decided mine would be "apple" & for him I picked "supercalifragilisticexpialidocious" naughty me....lol

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    we start using each others first name....ie..I'll say "Michelle" rather than honey.....and she'll say "Michael" instead of baby ......we know somethings up if and when the familiar become formal.....

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    You are naughty.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    cos you aint sayin shit with that ball gag in

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'jessmc' cos you aint sayin shit with that ball gag in I love ball gags :)Safe word for most of my plays has been red. just has to be a word not commonly used used in your sessions or everyday conversations...

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    "ACHTUNG"

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    "Mercy"

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    "O-U-C-H, you fukcin bassstaaad, do that again and I'll put you through a slow moving, blunt & very dirty bacon slicer"To be most effective it must be delivered with some authority & urgency...an accompanying evil glint in BOTH eyes (Note) is sometimes very beneficial tooBut, done right, it works every time~~Deli fun f~~

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Super - WHAT THE FUKKIN' - cali - BASSTAAD, C*&@ IN'- fragilistic - IF YOU EVER DO THAT AGAIN, I'LL... - expialidocious-SHITHEADBut maybe that's just me~~A little wet from the rain f~~

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'jessmc' cos you aint sayin shit with that ball gag in

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I have had 2.Lady 1 - we used banana poodle (go figure) as she chose that. To be fair I kept going at times as she would say just "poodle" and not the full word..Lady2 - We chose the simple word "Ouch!" Practical actually

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I suppose "mmm I like that do it harder" might be a little confusing ??

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'PuZZled03984991' "O-U-C-H, you fukcin bassstaaad, do that again and I'll put you through a slow moving, blunt & very dirty bacon slicer"....not sure I'd even remember this!!!! it's worse than my superblahblahblahcious....lol

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Quoting 'ruby_blossum' Quoting 'jessmc' cos you aint sayin shit with that ball gag in

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Help!!!!

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Well according to family fuy (because cartoons are where i get all my worldly knowledge, ha) the safe word is banana!- Posted from rhpmobile

  • perthsensual

    perthsensual

    13 years ago

    Does anyone else use uncle? Thought it was a common term. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    "Fuck you, Master!!" FOXY

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    "I think I over trusted that fart!!" Just sayin :p- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    "too much"

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Not that we get into the rough and pain side of things but,our safe word always no matter what play is happing be it soft n gentle or hard n rough is simply “STOP”! its easy,theres no confusion and it works xx

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Chubb   its a safe word

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    Seems to stop my sexual experiences....... But to be serious, as I'm pretty vanilla in taste, just NO or DON'T will stop me.

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I am about to experience being roped up by a guy who's been doing it professionally for several years. There may also be flogging involved. He brought up safety with me last night and told me about the Traffic Light system he uses. Red & Green are obvious (Green is used when he says to me "Challenge" & I tell him the colour I am at). Blue means you need sustenance eg water or sugar. Orange means you're getting close to your threshold of pain. It's simple and easy to remember in the heat of the moment ;) I am now feeling assured that it's all going to be very safe...and I am very excited about finally realising my fantasy of being roped up by someone who knows what they are doing. Looking forward to the rush :)- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    13 years ago

    I dont share my safe word.I like to keep it safe.