Safe sex

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  ...yeah that justification for having safe sex on his profile makes ZERO sense and is actually super concerning. I can't say i've found it super common that people refuse to play with condoms thankfully, but I do think people are either ignorant or not concerned enough about the potential for catching nasties (not to mention potential for unplanned pregnancies eek!). We have safe sex for intercourse on our profile - we don't use condoms with each other for sex and don't use them for oral sex with other partners but always condom for intercourse with another partner. Miss Little xx

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  That’s very frustrating OP. Personally I’m all about the condoms, the regular blood tests and yes the chatting and asking all of that before the meet. I’m all for the hot fantasy of spontaneous messy fun, but in this day and age that’s all that is - a fantasy. I may not always have the luxury to be choosy, but I sure won’t take the risks like that, my vibrator won’t complain if I stay in.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Im glad its not just me that thought his explaination sucked eggs!!! Theres too much risk of loads of nasties/pregnancy, why would you do it? And yes...we should use protection for oral and are risking things also but a mouthful of rubber ain't nice...eeek!

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  If it’s not it’s not on...simple

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  It sort of comes down to a trust thing. In most cases it’s discussed, but in the heat of the moment there it plenty of grey area. If you are open about having multiple sexual partners I’d like to think it’s a no brainer. Unfortunately. Some people Take the risk.. good luck to them.

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  RHP User

  6 years ago

  Dorky1 have to agree with you, some might take the risk but most here are here to have fun. So I would assume most are seeing others and it’s safety first in my mind :)

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  EarthQueen

  6 years ago

  Yes It’s very common for men to ask if they have to use them. Even if you have discussed it first. Maybe because of my age they think no risk of pregnancy so it’s a free for all. It’s not. It’s stupid because often they tell you openly they haven’t been tested . It’s not worth the risk. I wonder if they are talking BS because they often say “Oh the last person I slept with said we didn’t have to use them. “ So maybe there’s lots of both male and females out there who aren’t that bothered? Or it’s just coercive tactic?

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