Sex - how would you describe it

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  Nightglider

  7 months ago

  There are more than one type of sex and reasons behind why. From kinks, companionship, ONS, FWB, Dom/sub dynamic, booty call, outdoors, quickly, parties and events, to exclusive friends, and everything in between. Each have different feel and reason behind them. Something fleeting at a party or event can be exciting and give a good dopamine hit. Then something more exclusive can provide a deeper sense intimacy. A Dom/sub dynamic might provide a different kind of connection through trust and surrender. I’ve had so many experiences. Each different so it’s hard to sum up.

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  55SexyandSingle

  7 months ago

  For me it’s about creating a sense of intimacy and feeling a connection with someone on the same sexual wavelength. Having been single for quite a while now it’s being touched that I find I crave more than anything … and kissing ! Oh how I love kissing 💋 As much as I can (and do) pleasure myself regularly with my toys, they cannot replace the feeling of intimacy when being touched and kissed, and the giving and receiving of mutual pleasure … (insert sigh here)

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  RHP User

  7 months ago

  For me it’s the give and take of power. There’s no attraction in vanilla sex so I tend to gravitate to those who crave a deeper, primal interrogation of their status. Socially, existentially, performatively. I know I’m built abnormally and I accept this. Thus seeking more taboo and devilishly creative ways to express the exchange of power is what captures the psychological aspect of my sexuality. It’s gender agnostic. It’s about attitude, debauchery, caution to the wind. It’s 18th century French libertarianism enacted out in the present day. That said, it has a very positive impact on one’s ability to strive for more and discard what social normalities were once imposed throughout one’s youth and formative adult years.

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  TheTwoYouSeek

  7 months ago

  the best 90 seconds of her life...

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  RHP User

  7 months ago

  I suppose for me it is the build up. The touch and skin on skin. Those scents that fill and sounds that fill your senses. I don't really crave sex but do crave the intimacy between two beings, especially that feeling of floating in a space that only connected beings bring about

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  Cucknshells

  7 months ago

  Sex for me is getting lost in the moment. It is sensual, intimate and passionate. It's having all my senses heighten. The kissing, the touching, stimulating my erogenous zones. Feeling a man on top of me and inside of me. The moving as one. Hormones pulsating through my body. Knowing you are pleasing someone and that they are pleasing you. Laughing and sharing an experience together. The built up. Finally ending in a climax. The aftercare. Reliving it in your mind. Smiling. Honestly when it all a line there is nothing like it. Nothing compares. Shells xx

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  selfless__lover

  7 months ago

  Firstly define sex, are you talking about purely penetration? What about sexual intimacy that doesn't involve it? Sex for me is all about feeling connected to a person, being absorbed in the moment to the point that entire world tunes out and the electricity of touching and being touched by another human. There are many times it hasn't resulted in penetrative sex and that doesn't lessen the experience. One of the hottest experiences I still recall to this day was making out with a girlfriend in my mid teens, our hands exploring each other's bodies and her having an explosive orgasm (her first) as I fingered her. She physically collapsed into my arms and we lay that way cuddling and softly tickling each other until her Mum came home. Sex means many different things to different people. For example people who are paraplegic can still have sex, maybe just not what you believe is the definition of sex is.

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  RHP User

  7 months ago

  Where to start.. For me the following are all significant steps towards sexual fulfilment Not a need, rather a desire For connecting (enabling connection) A search for deeper intimacy, trust, acceptance and understanding Vulnerabilities Trusted Empowered Orgasm, while important, is the icing. The cake is built via the correct ingredients, the appropriate rising, baking and standing time- so patience is critical. Listening and being heard. Is this too serious?

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  OwnedAndAdored

  7 months ago

  Sex for me (the female in this couple. Just incase you’re wondering which of us this is) varies based on the type of sex and who it’s with. It can be about connection, serving or pleasing who I’m with, taking what I want physically, just having a fun time or communicating my love for our M etc. So many different variables based off the kind of sex and who it’s with and the context it’s in. Is it a rushed rendezvous or is it an extended session? However it varies these things remain constant for me. I’m a very tactile person. It’s not just the sex. I am not just into the sex anatomy bits. I’m into the entire physical experience. The feeling in my hands as I run my hands across skin/clothing, our skin touching as we lay next to each other, the sweat that drips off them and onto me etc. All the physical stimulus adds to the greater picture. I like to experience it fully. Everything is important in the moment to me. The inhalations and moans and even the little shifts of their body. Reading all the small bits of information is vital to me while I’m with someone. All the little bits of information is the trees that make up the forest. And I like to take in the entire forest as well as the individual trees that make it up. I think it also makes me a more giving lover. Paying attention to the unsaid sometimes small signs that someone is enjoying themselves means I can do more of the thing they are enjoying. And I just enjoy basking in it all. Every bit of insight into their experience heightens my own. It’s not about me reaching the final destination and cumming. I’ve had great enjoyable mind blowing sex and not cum. On the other hand I’ve had sex where I’ve cum but it wasn’t a top tier experience. For me it’s much more about the experience being enjoyable overall than the orgasm. To sum it up: If you can’t tell I’m a very in my head person. So good sex for me is all about being focused on the moment fully and taking it all in mentally and responding physically to all that mental stimulus.

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  madotara69

  7 months ago

  When we had babies it was all Tara ever wanted, to be a mum. I would wake up in the dark and Tara sleeping with our babies probably is where the cravings began, I was young, fit, up on commercial buildings with a team of guys in NZ laying metal roof sheets often in wind, it was hard work, high risk, hot or freezing cold, real teamwork because our lives depended on working the way we did, over all I was waking up and all that mattered was Tara sleeping with our babies, three of them. I was so proud, sometimes a note with my sandwich she loves me, so I spent most days, seven days months at a time, dawn to dusk, high adrenaline, young dumb and full of cum in love, true love, the sort of love where all the choices especially important ones, i could count on Tara she made good choices and no matter what we would see them choices through to the meanings meant mostly, mistakes here and there but off in the future i had to maintain what would ensure Tara in the centre of our life always, (advice i was promised to be successful) I asked Mother Nature in Dreamtime to find the answers and a set of principles which had in place one answer unconditional in any moment. Honest with Tara, being herself, support her choices even if I thought different, I never made choices for her or forced nor told her what or not she should or shouldn’t, mistakes she made or we for sakes, learn from them with care, I guess if you consider what it truly means to be friends, then all the principles honouring friends, I came to find the answers to ensure Tara will be right there with me in the centre of our life could only be ‘if she wanted to be and the promise was kept, because the idea of having great sex with someone who needed a friend felt betrayal in some form or another and lose a little something, love is everything, but she might not like me much, I suppose sex would follow the lead. I have to give the Quickie credit as due, because when times we had babies and Tara had priorities and all of them were the babies, i had no choice with the cravings I had to want to fuck for hours like when we could. But when the chance to the little time we had, fun was the general idea and great sex means to me at least is when Tara takes off with the fairies and even in a chance, I’ve had times and the best three minutes and mostly was her having an orgasm to climax, that was the end of me Shells, long live the Quicky… Then there was the sex where we had hours of much the same, we had to pace ourselves and edge the feelings of arousal, after time 2 hrs about, we regularly added amino acids, three essentials so that when our minds began to create the chemicals of arousal and released to our system. The three that are sourced Lysine, gamine, methionine, are plentiful so the feelings in the mood of arousal, we’ll Tara says the sex has never been the same it’s different every time, she loves it all and all especially how vocal sex can be, I won’t for the details now but how it ended up was hours spent and after a couple the chemicals released have saturated our systems, our minds go into ‘Altered State of mind’ euphoria, tantric, etc So it’s a super heightened sense and feel sexually there seems to be no limits with intensity and one example where a buddy and I were well into all we thought Tara would like, hard work as she likes it all and said so whatever you want, she was quite satisfied seeing us working together and when she said in compliment we just had the best DP she ever experienced. I can’t speak for him but I know we both were exhausted, when we came we did in ropes all over her and life was but a dream. Shells I reckon and upon recollections we had great sex, I know what I crave for and to the luck of it all and the fun, quite a few guys came to realise the sex they craved was in the throws of Tara in her heightened sexually state, by her choice and she trusts mine, it’s the waves of intense orgasmic energy expressed during orgasms to climaxing shells.

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  madotara69

  7 months ago

  Sorry Shells, I ran out of ink. Yeah it’s almost ethereal Shells, well all the stuff we did that is i suppose. Mado Mado Tara xx

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  Generousgent

  6 months ago

  The adrenaline rush if I'm at a party. The sights and sounds are mentally stimulating. In my relationship, the chance to express love and affection and a deep connection, to strengthen the unity we already have.

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