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Single guys not getting the message
October 04 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Just block them ! Don't change your profile to suit them , block them so they can see your profile . We on the other hand don't get why people are so hard on the single guys and why couple feel so superior on this site . If you join something like RHP you are putting yourself out there for people to view , there not doing any harm looking ! On good on them for putting themselves out there and taking a chance , just say a polite " no thank you " Xx mrs cs - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
12 years ago
Cock_Suckers, what makes you think that "couples" on this site feel superior ? Its not that we feel superior, it just becomes tiresome having single guys constantly messaging us, having clearly not read our profile. It's as if they just want to take a chance, that we may be interested in them, despite the fact that we clearly say that we are not and that if they message us we will block them. And still they try their luck. Smacks of disrespect from where we are sitting.If we reject them then they feel we are rude, arrogant and superior? No means no. And we all have a choice as to whether we want a couple, a single female or a single male. We have the right to have a preference don't we ? Just because this is a "swingers " site does not mean that we have to be treated like sluts and that we will open our legs to every horny single guy who happens to pester us ?And yes, we often have the same guy looking at our profile several times, even after telling him that we are not interested. And yes it does sometimes feel that we are being stalked. I (Leslie) guess thats par for the course on sites like this - the good and the bad.
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Mr_Invisible
12 years ago
I understand your pointJust hit the old block button on themHappens to me all the timeHowever... some of the better experiences I have had here have been with ladies who according to their search parameters in there profile... well I just don't fitIf your preferences are cut and dried in that way... fineAs are mine... I don't do guys... yet they can still access my profile... and some do it repeatedly...I just ignore it
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RHP User
12 years ago
So they look at your profile? So what? What harm does that do you? If they persistently message you, then fine - block them. As for why doesn't RHP take your suggestion of not allowing people outside your preferences view your profile? Think about it. Far more single males on here than any other demographic. Make it unattractive to them and that means less money for RHP. It is a business after all.
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RHP User
12 years ago
It is a real shame that the OP feels the way they do. You read someone's post on a forum or see an attractive photo, you are curious and you look. If the photos are amazing I'll look twice or three times and imagine! If they aren't interested in men, I won't bother them at all, or if they say like like men I'll just do a friendly flirt. Reading a post like this just makes me sad that people can't appreciate that others may be curious and think you are hot. Kind of goes with the territory if being on here. If they get annoying block them. But having a perve should never be a crime. Kind of like hanging a beautiful picture in a gallery and saying only couples and ladies can view, no males! Maybe you should go somewhere else, I certainly won't be looking at your profile, and I'm a curious fellow!!!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I fail to understand the issue here? How can it possibly annoy you having someone LOOK at your profile? The only way you know this is by seeing who has been checking you out. What harm are they doing? It just means they like your pics and/or your profile. Nothing wrong with being masturbstion material!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Cock_Suckers' We on the other hand don't get why people are so hard on the single guys and why couples feel so superior on this site Would you rather nobody looked at your profile? They aren't doing you any harm. Consider yourself flattered that people are even interested!
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N4November
12 years ago
Well said!!!! It costs nothing to be nice heh :)
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rupamohan
12 years ago
gender blocking option will enhance privacy and is very desirable. I am sure RHP is aware of this. Technically I don't think it is difficult to implement. Still this is not offered means there can be some other reason.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Firstly I'm NOT talking about someone looking once or twice! And I don't have a issue with a guy a girl a couple or group looking once twice three times. I'm talking about guys that have been blocked, still looking at our profile ( showing on our viewed list) day in and day out . If they can't see anything why would you keep looking???? And if you take notice I haven't said all guys , because there are guys on here that are respectful and not rude. But everyone has the right to not feel unconformable , so as a married couple we don't want the world to know we like to play with other couples or girls that's our right! We are not new to this we have been playing for about 6 years and met some really nice people off this site, for the people saying it's about couples feeling superior ?? It's not right , the bad part of this kind of site is that the single guys on here that do the right thing get stuffed up by the disrespectful single guys who seem to think that what you aren't looking for doesn't apply to them. As for it costing nothing to be nice, well if I take the time to come on this site, make a profile , we clearly know what we are looking for, we fill in what we are looking for and didn't fill anything in wrong. Then some bloke who firstly went to search, choose cpls looking for guys... we aren't in that search! So then says mmmm nothing there I like, I'll look under cpls looking for cpls BAM! Our profile is there! So first we aren't in he's first search so he goes to a search that he isn't part of, he likes our pic decides to flirt of message us and I'm meant to be nice??? Why?? We didn't seek him out he choose to go into a search and seek us out then message us! We're not employed by RHP , we were paying members for 5 years and canceled our paying membership for these same reasons. Clearly it is a simple thing to fix but it comes down to money, for RHP to make money they need paying members , so we are happy to pay NOT to feel unconformable . The way I see it is if a guy is in a shower in a change room and there's a gay guy in there looking at him and making advances towards him is that ok? Or is he meant to take it as a compliment ? Or feel happy that a guy is getting turned on looking at him ? Is he meant to go with it,to fluff the guy and make him feel good? NO on all counts! Everyone has the right to feel safe and not a wank bank for single guys that would NEVER have a chance or the balls to approach in the real world.If we want a single guy we'll decide and then seek one out, we are not on here to be a social worker and not upset someone who contacts us that we aren't looking for.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'rupamohan' gender blocking option will enhance privacy and is very desirable. I am sure RHP is aware of this. Technically I don't think it is difficult to implement. Still this is not offered means there can be some other reason. Quoting 'Handmaiden' I fail to understand the issue here? How can it possibly annoy you having someone LOOK at your profile? The only way you know this is by seeing who has been checking you out. What harm are they doing? It just means they like your pics and/or your profile. Nothing wrong with being masturbstion material!- Posted from rhpmobile Quoting 'Liebsterboy' It is a real shame that the OP feels the way they do. You read someone's post on a forum or see an attractive photo, you are curious and you look. If the photos are amazing I'll look twice or three times and imagine! If they aren't interested in men, I won't bother them at all, or if they say like like men I'll just do a friendly flirt. Reading a post like this just makes me sad that people can't appreciate that others may be curious and think you are hot. Kind of goes with the territory if being on here. If they get annoying block them. But having a perve should never be a crime. Kind of like hanging a beautiful picture in a gallery and saying only couples and ladies can view, no males! Maybe you should go somewhere else, I certainly won't be looking at your profile, and I'm a curious fellow!!!- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
This isn't exclusive to couples - we all have those that aren't what we are looking for repeatedly look at our profiles. I have couples that look at mine repeatedly, even though I explicitly say I'm not interested. It's not worth getting upset about - just be flattered by their interest and block if you are that concerned. Worth noting that there are a few glitches in the system though that mean that on certain devices they can't tell what you are looking for until they get in to your profile. There have also been issues where it will register looking at your profile several times when they may have only looked once. And then there is the fact none of us are all that unique and memorable on here. After a couple of drinks searching through profiles, just like the girl they were chatting to at the bar last week - they just don't remember your name so don't realise they've looked before. Let's face it, after a while all the breast and cock shots start to blur. You can choose to be flattered that they are looking, insulted they didn't remember you or just indifferent about something that really does you no harm.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You display yourself in Public and then get upset if someone looks ... GG♒️- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Are they just looking or are they bombarding you with messages & aren't taking no for an answer? mrs funky- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You know what couples you must be super dooper remember when you were single look'n in playboy ?? Have'n a flog in a dark corner?? Check'n out the talent ? Yes well dont worry most single guys check'n out your woman and if they look more than once guess what ? They want to fuck your miss's!! And guess what your miss's wants to fuck most of em aswell!! So great idea for redhotpie ? You can have a special room ? With a special key ? Redhothypocrite@specialroom Couples must have full "insecurity" to enter!!!!! Hahaha Makes me want log in to some couples check out ya miss's sweet'n her up and fuck her hard when you go to work !! Fuck i wood worry aswell !! Hahahaha!!!' - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
It must be soooo frustrating when this happens to you as a couple.Put yourself in a single woman's shoes, having profile views over and over repetitively and receiving 1,000's and 1,000's of emails.Sorry to say, It does not just happen to couples.Does it make me feel unsafe?? Nahhhhhh does not worry me OP cause it's not in my real life, it's just what it is. Oh by the way...I love single guys!! FOXY
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey man single dont run off thats what makes em feel superior ??!! Nah lets get on there profile and check out there women and when he goes to work or to fuck around behind her back ?! We can fuck her she will be keen as insecurity fucked the cat or in this case fuck the pussy!!!lol lol- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
-Well from where I sit the reason you probably get looked at a few times or more is because your hot or attractive, I would probably take it as a compliment -If you dont look you dont generally get looked at and due to ther fact so many tight arse couples and females expect a single bloke to be a member and message or wink them, maybe they are just trying to get your attention - dont expect blokes or anyone to put up or show face pics when you dont have one up yourselves -There are so many couples and females that say they arent interest in single blokes next thing they have viewed you many times so a bloke figures well why not try his luck -at the end of the the day this is a find a fuck site, if you dont wanna fuck then go back to facebook or skype -how hard is it to just delete and block the people you dont find desireable or are annoying you -if you put pics up expect them to be viewed by anyone and everyone that is a member and you cant control how many times someone looks, especially on a mobile as you generally cant tell if they are looking for you or not until you click their profile, some people just have great pics worthy of being viewed whenever they pop up on your nearby screen -if your on cam expect to be watched, if you dont want to be watched dont cam -this isnt your own private site, feel free to sype with your freinds if you dont want other people watching -please remember if it werent for all the single hopeful horny blokes paying stupid amounts of money for on membership this site and others it wouldnt be here for you to use, the largest membership on all these sites are single blokes, if you arent interest maybe you should join a couples only or swingewrs site instead -from a single bloke point of view I pay my membership to check out pics send a few flirts and pretty much kill some time when bored, my expectation of anyone actually following through with anything they say is very low going off past experience, I have been blocked by many people professing to be interested who ask a few questions, dont like the answers so they block you oh well, next fish in the sea -At the end of the day single blokes are attracted to hotties like a moth to a flame, would be worse if no one viewed you right? anyway just my thoughts have fun and remeber this is a find a fuck site not frigging facebook or skype!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Cpl4fandcpls Seriously, talk about first world problems! If it upsets you that much that somebody views your online profile and dares to send you a flirt or a message, and you have to waste seconds of your precious time to click on the Block button, therefore disabling any chance of them contacting you again, then I truly do sympathise. Man it must suck being such a sought after couple. Good thing you removed your profile photo. Surely that has reduced the problem? I know I don't bother looking at profiles without photos. But then again, I'm not a desperate, inconsiderate, rude single male who is out to make you uncomfortable.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'MisterGreen' You display yourself in Public and then get upset if someone looks ... GG♒️- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You do realise that many many more people are looking at your profile than you are aware of ? Most with any sense of strategy, especially after reading these kinds of posts will have turned on the option in profile settings to not show others you have viewed their profile.This of course begs the questionIf a tree falls in the forest ... "If an unwanted suitor views your profile 10 times and you are not aware of it do you feel better, safer and if so .. why ?"... the answer starts with N
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RHP User
12 years ago
Is your responsibility, not RHP's- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
The difference between a single guys cock and a married guys cock ! Who said that when your profile gets looked at repeatedly by a couples profile it's not the male alone "stalking "you without his partner around ! Married guys perving in alright but single guys is offensive ! Weird - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
some will find anything to whinge about. There is whole big wide world out there, and it aint always going to meet each every one of your requirements.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I read your reply post and you even insult gay guys ! What makes you think that gay guys check out every men and would be checking out your man in the change rooms . I think your relationship sounds very insecure if you are constantly worried that people are checking you out where ever you go ! We get persistent messages from couples , with the male in the profile doing all the typing , wanting to play and when we say we don't want to play with a couple he can " suspiciously " now come play alone ! A lot of men hide behind couples profiles and can be more disrespectful then single guys . Give single guys a break ! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'IndefatigableMe' You do realise that many many more people are looking at your profile than you are aware of ? Most with any sense of strategy, especially after reading these kinds of posts will have turned on the option in profile settings to not show others you have viewed their profile.This of course begs the questionIf a tree falls in the forest ... "If an unwanted suitor views your profile 10 times and you are not aware of it do you feel better, safer and if so .. why ?"... the answer starts with N This site doesnt belong to couples it is not just a swingers site it is qute variable actually. Although I can understand your frustration I dont think we all get your aggrevation..........wow.CHILL........if you have issues with people who are blocked still looking that really doesnt seem to make much sense. At least they cant continue to send you unwanted messages.I get men and couples outside of what I am seeking contact as well sometimes it is curious as to how many times they check out the profiles but they move on eventually.Remember that all the profiles on here are not always what they seem and the couple profiles that have viewed you previously and escpecially from now on..........are not always COUPLES.Quoting Ms FoxyOh dear... It must be soooo frustrating when this happens to you as a couple.Put yourself in a single woman's shoes, having profile views over and over repetitively and receiving 1,000's and 1,000's of emails.Sorry to say, It does not just happen to couples.Does it make me feel unsafe?? Nahhhhhh does not worry me OP cause it's not in my real life, it's just what it is. Oh by the way...I love single guys!! You must be snowed under do you really get thousands? Sexy lady.
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RHP User
12 years ago
... Single Men can't read ;) GG♒️- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I agree, if the was a link where we could choose the people we are looking for instead of open slather where every man and his dog checks you out, the chances of finding like minded members would be so much easier. Im a single guy who rarely messages anyone. These days' Im happy to sit back and allow either couples or single females contact me. That way I know the interest is real..It could be done, but I think rhp might suffer a membership decline... I dont know. I'm guessing...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Bigocean72' You know what couples you must be super dooper remember when you were single look'n in playboy ?? Have'n a flog in a dark corner?? Check'n out the talent ? Yes well dont worry most single guys check'n out your woman and if they look more than once guess what ? They want to fuck your miss's!! And guess what your miss's wants to fuck most of em aswell!! So great idea for redhotpie ? You can have a special room ? With a special key ? Redhothypocrite@specialroom Couples must have full "insecurity" to enter!!!!! Hahaha Makes me want log in to some couples check out ya miss's sweet'n her up and fuck her hard when you go to work !! Fuck i wood worry aswell !! Hahahaha!!!' - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
cpl4fandcplsSeriously, get over it !As for Jason_Leslie , With a Profile Pic like that, Seriously, I just couldn't resist looking at you. I see that you're only seeking Women and Couples so I won't look at you again. Nah, Maybe I will... At the risk of being howled down by the Shaven / Waxed Brigade... Leslie, I love that you have hair down below. Jason, I envy you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Jay_Me' I agree, if the was a link where we could choose the people we are looking for instead of open slather where every man and his dog checks you out, the chances of finding like minded members would be so much easier. Im a single guy who rarely messages anyone. These days' Im happy to sit back and allow either couples or single females contact me. That way I know the interest is real..It could be done, but I think rhp might suffer a membership decline... I dont know. I'm guessing...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I like looking at things I can not have.... dreaming that just maybe.... You would complain a whole lot more if no one looked at all! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
BBE When our views drop off by single men, we know why! lolz they're continuously viewing couples... ;) FOXY - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
12 years ago
Actually I , Leslie, am clean shaven most of the time. :) But thanks for the compliment .- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
are those evil men looking at?....grey ghosts,shadows?......note to self, must get strongerglasses....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Single guy here. Gender blocking option? I think some perspective is required. Imagine a nightclub where you weren't allowed to even admire the people in it. I don't think it would be a positive addition to rhp. So if someone hassles you, you have the option to block them, it's simple enough. A bit of etiquette is required from both parties. I have to say though, as a single guy you sometimes feel like you're stepping on eggshells just trying not to upset people. Can I also point out the culture we've bred that teaches men that the first "no" doesn't necessarily mean no? I make a deliberate point not to be disrespectful, but I have to admit also that persistence is sometimes pays off. A lot of men believe that if a girl rolls her eyes and says "in your dreams buddy", what he's really saying is "you'll have to do better than that".
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RHP User
12 years ago
Apologies for grammatical mistakes, typing from phone + hungover = derp
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RHP User
12 years ago
You might be on there hotlist.. So every time you log in, they get a prompt that probably entices them to have a look forgetting they have already seen your profile. I wouldn't worry about it, at least people are looking at your profile, we hardly get anyone looking at ours lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Bigocean72'Hey man single dont run off thats what makes em feel superior ??!! Nah lets get on there profile and check out there women and when he goes to work or to fuck around behind her back ?! We can fuck her she will be keen as insecurity fucked the cat or in this case fuck the pussy!!!lol lol- Posted from rhpmobile I was going to leave a little rant for the OP about how precious I thought they were being. You know, it's only pics, so what if somebody & the same somebody is looking, they aren't peaking through your curtains or banging on your door, it's harmless, blah blah blah I had it all planned & was ready to go & then I saw your 2 Posts..... C'mon champ, you've just gone & shown everybody a perfect example of what the OP are wanting to avoid! I know you aren't being serious when you said that the female of the couple is just waiting to fuck all the single guys who are looking at them & that she's going to do it the second the male goes to work. You were just letting off steam. Right? Of course I'm right! I get that you got ticked off about single guys being attacked again in the forums, but when you replied to the OP, especially in the first post, you implied ALL couples were the same & all the female halves were just waiting to fuck around on their partner. Nope, not having that..... for everybody's sake, don't even get me started.... OP, my rant towards you has had the wind taken out of it. All I have left to say to you is 'lighten up & stop being such prima donnas!' mrs funky
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RHP User
12 years ago
I completely agree with Cock_Sucker and blond_gypsy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Searching profiles is like looking for a car, you check it out multiple times to make sure it's the right one for you. So if I check out your profile more than once its because I want to make sure there isn't anything I'm missing. But now when I do a search I always select who's looking for me, so if you come up well then I'll assume you are interested, now if I send a message, well I'm letting you know I'm interested, and if I don't get a reply well apart from being your loss I move on. Even though it would be nice to get a reply even if it is a simple No thank you. If a person doesn't move on after a no thank you well then you block them. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Umm Jason_leslie Probably getting viewed so much because you sit in chat rooms.. If you don't like who is veiwinmg you profile BLOCK EM.. I know what you are saying.. I have been part of a cpl until recently and used to have the same problem although slightly different .. We had single profiles stating we were in a relationship
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hornyguy112
12 years ago
Way to get yourself noticed even more... Dumb ass Ha- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You are in a public domain. If you put yourself out there you are going to be viewed. Gender blocking or even user blocking is not going to resolve the so called ‘issue’. There is nothing stopping someone from creating a fake unverified profile as a couple or a female and then looking at your profile. If someone outside your searching criteria contacts you, simply let them know you are not interested. If they still keep contacting you that’s when you need to consider blocking them. Otherwise you will end up blocking half the site and not even know why you blocked them. There are lots of couples here who are looking for men for mfm experiences. So I don’t think you are in any danger of being stalked. As the name suggests this is an ADULT dating site, not just sex dating. As adults we need to show some level maturity about the potential consequences of being out there. Just concentrate on what you are looking for and enjoy the experience here rather than worrying about who viewed you. Although there may be some single gentlemen here that behave in less than respectful ways, Single man is not your enemy.
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RHP User
12 years ago
But I understand that if you put up a nice picture then people are going to look.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
hey I'm on here as I'm single , I'm heterosexual straight ., catnt do the couple mmf thing but can do the .fm or fff m maybe even the ffff m or more . I find it rather strange how no single ladies on here bother to meet me before the dIm not what there looking for as how the fuck would they know without talking in person in reality . what I have to be a bi bloke to get any fun what a load of shir.. I'm vvery capabe satsfying women with.my cock which maybe nine inches I'm not sure I don't.measure or compare it with other bloke dongers . I very well up to date that how you use you cock and other parts of body is more important then how big it is , andim very satisfidied with the size of mine and how I use it. .I do realize conversation is highly important and personality in building any kind of relation ship...and I'm every adiquant in holding one.. I'm offended by blokes on here checking my profile whom by the way don't get the message I'm straight .. yeah my spelling is a bit of that's because I sometime rush and I'm busy and I don't spell check....and I'm very open and honest , my pics are real I hide nothing and don't put.up with bullshit ...
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melbcpl01
12 years ago
We dont care who checks out our profile even if it is a couple of times close together but when you get the same single male repeatedly viewing it that you almost have to go to page 2 to see who else has had a look its a bit of a joke seen as we check daily , and yes we have told him we are not interested and our profile states we are not currently seeking single guys . This practice can become annoying after a while , most single guys are pretty good and respect others wishes , but others could not care less unfortunatly that reflects on to the good chaps out there
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's a fine line. While the attention may be flattering -or not- too much of it isn't?? It's up to us to decide when we're annoyed: surely that's we can block other members. Perhaps it wouldn't be too difficult or undesirable for us to be able to make our profiles visible only to members fitting our criteria? Ally & Jordan - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
wow!!!!!!! There's definitely a reason your SINGLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I wouldnt fuck you if you were the last man on earth and i had a choice of saving our species or letting it die out, i would definitely let it die out, especially if all of them were going to be related to your ignorant, chauvinistic, neanderthal fuck face! Go back to your little dark closet,wank off to your little girly magazines because its probably whats in your future as well as your past...oh and your present too ay? ha!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Daslikewise- mate if you're wondering why you're not getting any action the answer is right there in your post. If you can't even take the time to write a decent message why would you be fun to meet in person?
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RHP User
12 years ago
with respect to all the other singles guys out there who are polite...that guy is a douche sorry but someone had to tell him..we have had some lovely straight, bi and gay guys contact us over the 12 mths we have been on here..not interested in any of them... but the difference has been that, they approached us politely and with respect the first time and got a 'no' but then respected our choice and never looked at our profile again or approached us. THANK YOU to those guys, thats how you respect someone as a human being. Furthermore, even tho the topic is about couples im sure that both single guys and girls both bi, gay and straight also have people CONSTANTLY viewing their profile after they have been told no, single guys think about what it would be like if a gay or bi guy kept viewing your profile after you told him no and when its also stated on your profile that your straight and not interested in him. What would u do? how polite would you be? I dont think its too much to ask for a bit of common courtesy or respect for everyone, even if its on a sex site.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Oh my golly gosh, it happens to everyone not just couples...Sheesh...Nothing special there :)
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DynamicCouple36
12 years ago
If the comments made by BigOcean and Daslikewise are a true reflection of how some single guys think and see things, then it's guys like this that give all "single " guys, on here, a bad reputation. And to be honest, this is why the aforementioned 2 guys are probably single. And their profile wording says a lot about them I feel. Regards Leslie - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would just like to say,that hurling abuse and derision at anyone,speaks volumes about you,not them...of course if you are not looking for anyone at all, knock yourself out...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I know the OP was referring to "views" but getting views from people that aren't in my preferred age range or what I'm looking for don't bother me so much as getting messages from couples who think that they can "change my mind" about wanting to be that 2nd chick in a 3sum.. Or guys just wanting sex even though my profile is for social only.. Or the ever popular sending me a flirt even though my bi-line even says I don't reply to them (and they are usually the first to bitch about chicks not replying to flirts)... Not reading profiles seems to be across the board... Not reserved for single guys.. I'm not going to defend the serial viewers but I know sometimes I have viewed a profile and because they don't have a pic, I forget I've viewed it so I have another look then remember after reading it.. Names/Nicks I don't remember... Pics I do...
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RHP User
12 years ago
OMG!!! The single men are fine - The married ones are the problem. On many sites despite it being written "Married men I am not interested" and they still contact. Even when you say "Sorry I am not interested "- they reply all offended saying I have a problem because they are married. At the end of the day yes I have a problem with getting it on with a married man. I have my reasons and that should be respected. Don't try to convince me I am wrong or have a problem. Well maybe they cant read or just don't care less. But to those complaining about people looking - let them look. This is like a shopping site - you look at what you like.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I was questioned why I viewed it over 15times!!! Sometimes I think RHP count/click goes out of wacky. I am also sure if you click on the profile, that's one click, and if there a various pics as main pic that too is one click per picture. Example: 10 pics/10views + one view to open profile = total 11views. Don't quote me..but I reckon that happens?? FOXY- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why is it a issue people viewing your profile as someone said before its a public domain. Personally i don't even check my views just my messages. No hassle no fuss i know that we haven't put any pics up yet which is probley why we are getting repeat viewing atm. Waiting to see if we have posted them yet. Will be soon btw. Sorry i digress... anyway its not like these guys are staring at you in street or peeping in your windows or driving by your house. Its just looking at your profile online. No biggie let em look. no harm done.- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I understand what your saying but not sure stopping single guys searching is the answer as it can happen with anyone looking. It has happened to us. We ignored, we did not respond and it kept going not a single guy though. We did have one guy who just didn't get it so hubby send him a short curt message. There is no way to stop people looking and truthfully I wouldn't want to but it would be nice if people read the profiles and understood that if they don't get a response once to let it go. I have to say I had one single guy send us a message, he was very nice, very respectful and very sensual. Still said no but he was very kind and understanding about why. Asked permission to keep looking, I'm ok with that. Didn't bother us just did his thing. No harm in people looking.
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DynamicCouple36
12 years ago
Everytime, when we log on using our iPhones, it automatically takes us to someones profile, even if we did not want to go there, and so that could also give one the feeling that someone is looking at your profile all the time when in fact they are not ?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey each to there own . We happen to like single guys looking at our profile as most of the time that is what we are after . We understand that being on here is advertising our selves to prospective people who want to share in what we have to offer as a couple. While we often do not ever get to meet them it is certainly a way of seeing what potential is out there . And to be honest its kind of sexxxy knowing that other men may be lusting over the few bits of flesh they can see .. But we also understand that alot of couples are not after single guys and if after reading many couples profile that politely says NO SINGLE GUYS .. well the single gentleman should after reading this profile refrain from any further contact.. Just our little add to this segment xxxxxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why do couple profiles have males in the looking for yet then claim not to want single males to contact them?thats called a oxy moron.....
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'hornyguy112' Way to get yourself noticed even more... Dumb ass Ha- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Cock_Suckers' The difference between a single guys cock and a married guys cock ! Who said that when your profile gets looked at repeatedly by a couples profile it's not the male alone "stalking "you without his partner around ! Married guys perving in alright but single guys is offensive ! Weird - Posted from rhpmobile We actually look for single guys (and girls). Both have to be special to meet with us, call it an air of superiority I guess, but particularly with guys we can have our choice and we are quite choosy.Agree with what u are saying, single, married, mostly it is guys checking u out repeatedly even when it is a couple profile.We have had heaps of "couples" perving on our profile and sending harassing emails. We view this more as the bottom of the barrel clientele rather than gender/relationship status specific and usually just block them.We said in a previous forum, most couples who aren't interested in single guys haven't even tried. Life is about experiences no? How can you judge what u haven't experienced?
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RHP User
12 years ago
Excuse us? Hitting the block button does NOT stop the blocked entity from viewing your profile. Not interested in your experiences, they aren't relevant to the topic. If we block someone then block All Forms of contact including views, which DO feel like stalking. If someone says on their profiles they're not interested in you, it's not up to you to question that. Quoting 'GentlemanPervert'I understand your point Just hit the old block button on them Happens to me all the time However... some of the better experiences I have had here have been with ladies who according to their search parameters in there profile... well I just don't fit If your preferences are cut and dried in that way... fine As are mine... I don't do guys... yet they can still access my profile... and some do it repeatedly...I just ignore it
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RHP User
12 years ago
You people have way too much time on your hands..........
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hardnslow
12 years ago
What a load of crap. I have written to some couples that have replied and said they are not interested in single guys,yet their profile says looking for MAN ?? lets make sure our profile is right before bagging somebody out. If you block someone it comes up that the profile is unavailable similar to when you make a change or disable it, maybe there needs to be a big red screen they see so they know they are blocked and don't keep looking. I look at lots of profiles especially if the picture catches my eye. Anyhow off my soapbox and back to perving on couples that don't want guys lol.
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RHP User
12 years ago
We don't mind people looking at our profile, but if we are uncomfortable with (Or don't like the look of) a profile then we block it. Single males certainly have the highest representation of those we've blocked, but we've blocked single women and couples too. That said; we've kept our options open with a handful of single males ;)- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Sorry to be the barer of bad news, but it's us desperate useless single men that keep this site open, without us "no cash" I am single @ 50 @ struggling to even find women who believe I am still of any use or even answer my msg's. You should be proud that you have a lady that people admire. I ocassionally spot a couples pic, usually a friend of a profile I am looking at & have a quick look. If you really want to make us single guys feel worse than we already do, why not just msg us to "Get Fucked" I spent 30yrs looking after & being faithful to the one woman, I am going to court next month & will lose the house that is 80% mine & I spent 30yrs paying for. I will then be single & renting for the rest of my life, & you guys worry that people look at your profile. Get a fucken life.
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