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So confused
February 09 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
With baited breath for the replies on this one. Hi Litonya, hope you are well. L.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Your prince charming may be out there. Emphasis on maybe. If your "lost" then maybe time to change tact
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RHP User
12 years ago
One of my ladies who I may or may not have met, to realise that I'm worth it... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
A spark.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I would like to hear more from you men....this has nothing to do in a way with my singleness. :) or it has....??? my questiontell me what it is you MEN WANT.Because I WANT TO KNOW.....please
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RHP User
12 years ago
You feel not worth while to a woman??? OK, mmmmHow do you want the woman to show this? to you and cwhereitgoes..yes maybe my prince charming....the second, one I had 15 years ago, is somehow lost in transit.... Khezu.....how and where will you feel the spark
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RHP User
12 years ago
..is a woman who WANT'S to share in the things I enjoy doing. I realise it's unrealistic that we would love ALL the same things…but a few would be nice.Naturally I would prefer to actually enjoy some of her past times, too. I came close this last time around..but alas..I think the 12yr age difference was the ultimate killer of things.
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RHP User
12 years ago
i can only talk for myself.. I am here to meet nice people for great fun..if anything else develops fine and good..but i never lead some on to think it is anything else.. the initial thing here is the sex..
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RHP User
12 years ago
I know that I'm worth it... I'm waiting for one of you lot to realise.... 😄 I'm an old romantic type, so I want someone who wants to be with me, because I'm me. Some shared interests... Some shared experiences... Honest... Similar goals and values... Someone who will kick my arse with love when it's needed... And hold me tight and comfort me when I need that too... Someone who genuinely wants to be important in my life. And all the above flows both ways... It's called sharing a life together... Hp xo 💌 Because you're worth it...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Rolling on Floor pissing myself laughing at this one. Think I will even crack open the Veuve in anticipation no wait make it the DOM.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Everything...... and let it be a torrent of fun, laughs, emotions, acceptance and anticipations. Until then....... the candy store is open for business, and I'm putting both hands in the jar DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
is so great....I want to hear from more men.... Please write more, let me hear your Tarzan roooooooooowwwwwwwwwwwwwwww.
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Smilingwithfun
12 years ago
Less cynicism, scepticism, oh & you men are all the same. Someone who views a glass as half full not half empty. Someone who has not let life wear them down. One who feels the joy of life. We only get one chance at this life so, live.
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RHP User
12 years ago
though in a total way, sharing getting to know each other, sharing growing arousal and desire, and of course great sex, where nothing is left out, in particular sharing the tastes of great sex. and afterwards being able to cuddle and discuss anything and feel comfortable about it. For me the ultimate of this is a friend with benefits, where you can share in this way once or twice a month, without the distractions of life such as finances and kids work etc that so often gets in the way. :-)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Personally I think men want to feel wanted but we also want to have our own space and do our own thing at our own pace lol Just like men some women can be too full on and I think that over steps the mark of feeling wanted it ends up being a bit of suffocation and that can drive some men away. I think it's about showing a guy your keen but also making him do some chasing. Hope this helps slightly OP - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
come on males tell me more.I wrote a love letter i will add it under this one....sometimes my whole being is crying to tell the world I love You so read
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RHP User
12 years ago
Listen, my friend. I love you and it is a great feeling. This love is a wonderful feeling I am experiencing. I was so much afraid of love, because it hurts me, and I was thinking it is because I am not love able. What bullshit, I had to love myself first and all, and love with no expectations, because only then I will find out what I am made of. I am this loving being, to share my love with all which I am encounter. Now I am happy because I can and I can express it without fear. I want to feel this more then you can imagine, I want to feel it in my soul, my heart, my thoughts. I want to think about love, talk about love and feel love. And I know I will, when I just love without conditions. WOW, what a realization. I am getting closer to My truth. This has nothing to do with any particular being; it is Me. Me, who wants this experience. And my path gets clearer and clearer……see, that’s why I meet people…that’s why I communicate in the way I do. Oh shit that’s it, now this blows me away…. I Love you, just accept it.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' Everything...... and let it be a torrent of fun, laughs, emotions, acceptance and anticipations. Until then....... the candy store is open for business, and I'm putting both hands in the jar DG Both hands in the jar.....is that a polite way of saying "double fisting"....never would have thought you were that type
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RHP User
12 years ago
Beyond Blue may be needed for all hope all survive
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hey Litonya, hardly surprising that you're not being swamped with replies from mere male to your question. Why do you think that is? Well Honey, that's because most of us don't actually know the answer to said question, but don't want to appear vague in this forum. You do understand that the male ego is a fragile commodity I hope! If you really want to know though, it goes something like this. "Men want to be wanted." That's it! Its Not complicated! How you go about showing that with your man is up to you and whilst theres a whole bunch of other stuff in there to complicate things, at the heart of it all, men want to be wanted. Suggest Mars & Venus as a reference. Good luck!
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RHP User
12 years ago
By advertising what I want, those that are typically desperate will try to conform. Why would I want that?? I also judge people based upon observation...... This means I'll observe her behaviour towards me and others, in a totally natural environment. If she's worthy of my efforts then she will know. If not....pffft - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Simply the combination of honesty,, respect, passion, spark and the big one TRUST... Everything else should fall into place :) well I'd like to think it will...
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RHP User
12 years ago
i like what the men have written. So men want to feel wanted.....feel free enough to be and not feel cagedhave sex with a woman on an equal par without being made felt inadequatetalk about everything and anythingbe happy feel desiredhmmsowe all want the samebut cant somehow make it happen. Where do we go wrong?When what I read is so simplethank you to the men who have written back thank you. as you can read it made me write a love letter my poetic side had to let it out.Thanks beautiful men out there L
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Men have simple needs.We're sensitive souls who meagrely wish to please our lovers, however, we do not wish to be told how this is to be achieved... or continuously reminded when this objective is not being met. We like women who laugh at our stupid jokes, but don't laugh at us for doing stupid things, which we want to reserve the right to do at any time. We need to be told what to do without being emasculated, and we therefore do not want to be told what to do. (Side note: The subtle manipulation of men by powerful women litters human history, as I cannot comprehend how that is achieved, this aspect of what we want is secret women's business). We love freshly cooked meals, footy, clean sheets and sweet smelling pillow cases and someone who knows how to fold socks just like mum did it. We want to effectively be absent from the relationship for 5 days each month. That's about it really. HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
12 years ago
That's a simple answer, and I listen....
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Quoting 'Litonya' Listen, my friend. I love you and it is a great feeling. This love is a wonderful feeling I am experiencing. I was so much afraid of love, because it hurts me, and I was thinking it is because I am not love able. What bullshit, I had to love myself first and all, and love with no expectations, because only then I will find out what I am made of. I am this loving being, to share my love with all which I am encounter. Now I am happy because I can and I can express it without fear. I want to feel this more then you can imagine, I want to feel it in my soul, my heart, my thoughts. I want to think about love, talk about love and feel love. And I know I will, when I just love without conditions. WOW, what a realization. I am getting closer to My truth. This has nothing to do with any particular being; it is Me. Me, who wants this experience. And my path gets clearer and clearer……see, that’s why I meet people…that’s why I communicate in the way I do. Oh shit that’s it, now this blows me away…. I Love you, just accept it. I'd like to add one more to my list, previously posted.... I want a woman who can recognise when my ears hurt... and knows when to stop the girly jibber jabber. I love you too dear.HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'gazpacho51' Men have simple needs.We're sensitive souls who meagrely wish to please our lovers, however, we do not wish to be told how this is to be achieved... or continuously reminded when this objective is not being met. We like women who laugh at our stupid jokes, but don't laugh at us for doing stupid things, which we want to reserve the right to do at any time. We need to be told what to do without being emasculated, and we therefore do not want to be told what to do. (Side note: The subtle manipulation of men by powerful women litters human history, as I cannot comprehend how that is achieved, this aspect of what we want is secret women's business). We love freshly cooked meals, footy, clean sheets and sweet smelling pillow cases and someone who knows how to fold socks just like mum did it. We want to effectively be absent from the relationship for 5 days each month. That's about it really. HugsGazpacho I had drank from this fountain of knowledge a lot sooner! . Flirty x
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RHP User
12 years ago
* drunk
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Quoting 'Litonya' i like what the men have written. So men want to feel wanted.....feel free enough to be and not feel cagedhave sex with a woman on an equal par without being made felt inadequatetalk about everything and anythingbe happy feel desiredhmmsowe all want the samebut cant somehow make it happen. Where do we go wrong?When what I read is so simplethank you to the men who have written back thank you. as you can read it made me write a love letter my poetic side had to let it out.Thanks beautiful men out there L BUT, it's as if you had already made up your mind that we wanted the same thing before you asked the question. We don't want to feel like that, as it is important to feel that our contribution towards your wellbeing is useful. That part is perhaps innate. I'm not so sure that men do want the same as women from a relationship. HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
12 years ago
What I read to now, I don't think we are really so different in what we want out of a partnership, I dont like to call it relationship..In a way we women are maybe a bit more scared to make it through and not get exchanged by a younger model.I don't know.....I really can't speak out of experience.....I didn't have this experience. I only know how I feel in my freedom, which I have, to be what ever I want.And it is in a way confusing, because my upbringing was to be married and live for ever with this one man.So that's not the case anymore, so my mind is in such a state of confusion. See I don't feel lonely, I never have, I feel just I want a person sometimes around, which can be a good bedfellow and friend. Oh and can fix things when they break because I am shit in it. Yee I can cook a meal,a simple one, and i can be a great friend.So how do men know, you don't want to have them around 24 hours a day? What I see, men my age are so scared" because they have not had FREEDOM for such a long time.But then also I find many men, wimpish in the way they just take it.Take it from us women, because they don't want to be alone. Ohh I don't know......I have to go back in my woman cave.I admire ever male who made it out of a bad relationship and lives his life, and doesn't hate women and get's on with living and loving. I want to say i love you, you wonderful men.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'm a big believer in chemistry. If I don't feel it , I can't give it. If she is a nice person , has a great sense of humour and looks after herself both physically and mentally ' she,s already gone a long way to attract my attention. . I love a sweet feminine woman who likes her man to be a man. I dislike a woman who feel they must act and talk like a man .. Just a few of the things that make me tick..
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RHP User
12 years ago
Any list of a mans wants/needs will always be shorter than a woman's :p - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
So, men want to feel useful and important and not taken for granted?
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RHP User
12 years ago
A woman who doesn't nag, who lets them watch sport on TV a few times a week without giving them a hard time, home cooked meals. They want to go out with their mates occasionally and do "man stuff". They want sex if not every day, every other day and anal sex on Sunday's. A woman who appreciates them for who they are.
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RHP User
12 years ago
coming closer to the answers LOl what do men want. hahahahah I am Ok with the sex bit but not the anal on Sunday part.
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On_Safari
12 years ago
Yes I can see how I have done this in the past: Quoting you :) "Just like men some women can be too full on and I think that over steps the mark of feeling wanted it ends up being a bit of suffocation and that can drive some men away. I think it's about showing a guy your keen but also making him do some chasing. Hope this helps slightly OP"
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On_Safari
12 years ago
....and a wonderful topic. Thanks guys for participating. DG though you remain a quandary.....I can't help but wonder where the emptiness lies in your life because something in me feels it does exist in you, Candy Store or not? ~ Indy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
What they want is only one part: Its getting them back to the point where they want it again....a relationship I mean. As a GF and male friend and I sat the other evening watching the end of a Sweet Home Alabama we commented on how she was going back to this man...our male friend was instant with his response....She Hurt him...and he was adamant about it from not even watching the whole movie knowing the story and his response just that NO she hurt him. I was saying but she has come to him...he said doesnt matter. So men are fragile and fearful and frightened of being hurt again...loosing everything...etc. I wish they understood so are women.
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RHP User
12 years ago
How many men want to be loved by a woman but not possessed? I guess I'm suggesting open relationships. Is that what the type of man who comes to RHP has in mind? Not to be "trapped" by one woman, but to be loved and set free to explore other women/men at the same time?
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Quoting 'Cest_la_viebaby' What they want is only one part: Its getting them back to the point where they want it again....a relationship I mean. As a GF and male friend and I sat the other evening watching the end of a Sweet Home Alabama we commented on how she was going back to this man...our male friend was instant with his response....She Hurt him...and he was adamant about it from not even watching the whole movie knowing the story and his response just that NO she hurt him. I was saying but she has come to him...he said doesnt matter. So men are fragile and fearful and frightened of being hurt again...loosing everything...etc. I wish they understood so are women. I think people who come crawling back are either really brave... or really stupid... but if it is what you really want, I think you have to give it a shot regardless. A bit of egg on the face.. so what. I've had worse things on there for sure, and it all washes off, or wears off, as long as you let it do so. HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
12 years ago
That it is very broad and difficult to answer as men are (against all beliefs ) so very different from the next man , some may categorise men to be in a certain group mentallity and that is true a lot of men like women are learning about themselves , there life , everything , then women they so desire to try and understand ?? Can i ask ? if a man asks how can he understand you better ??? Then the answer you give , Make that the same answer as if you asked the question to a man ??? But every man is an individual and every man is going to want different things at different stages of there life so who can say ? One day this then next day that ?? Ggeezzzz!!!!! So my suggestion to you my dear is worry more not what a man wants !! But what you want because its about you! Ok So personally this stage of my life i want the woman im with to be happy ! Loving ! Honest ! Open ! Caring ! And communication is the key to open and close any door you may come across , Ultimately my desire is to share my life with one woman who feels the same way ! Not to live and depend on as two people can never be one !! As soon as you depend on another you expect then assume when you expect and assume you think you have all the answers and 99% of the time they will be wrong. Communication breakdown equals relationship breakdown and once broken like trust and respect are the most difficult and sometimes impossible to regain !! So i want an individual with my desires that i trust 100% and viser verser , and when you have two people two individuals that are entirely different but working seperately towards the same goal that i think is the pinnacle of perfect relationships , Individuals working towards the same goals and not relying on each other ? How can you rely on another when half the time we cannot rely on ourselves ??? And i suppose do what your doing now ? Ask!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
OK in the movie love one out but in real life yes give it a shot if you must follow your heart. As I have had this discussion with this man before, my point was that the hurt is so bad they dont want a relationship ever again and they choose to stay single . It has me pondering too seeing so many hurt people is t all worth while?
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RHP User
12 years ago
A woman i believe correct me if i am wrong can if she understands her complex body and mind can within a very short time and some instantly go directly to the ???spot and poor herself an instant steaming hot orgasm within seconds ??? So i ask then why would you ever rely on a man to finish the job ??? I mean he cant even finish the fucking dishes!!! Hahahaha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
We want women to drop their guard, that has been built up by ex lovers who did them wrong.We want a woman who is a good communicator and will not have a tanty if we have done something they do not agree with.We want a lover,best friend,someone who has our back and can give as good as they get.We want mental stimulation as well as physical and spiritual stimulation. I want a relationship,to take things slow and ensure i have made the right call in a partner in life.People who have met me know where i am coming from,you can not hide being sincere and honest.Until i find what i want your all stuck with me ,when i find what i want ,my time will be for her!So get out there people,give people a go and you never know you may meet the person who your looking for.
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RHP User
12 years ago
if you click that's a bonus. Simple really
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have a beautiful wife who thinks that I am beautiful too (okay, she's a little delusional but I can work with that). We have the same likes, dislikes, wants and vision for the future. She loves to love and be loved and I love to love her.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I love you guysso much.I am sitting here and thinking......I love you all, its so nice to hear what you say.Not one man has said anything I can disagree on.Thank you, really thank you.
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RHP User
12 years ago
But I think ultimately, hunour aside; modt men just seek the same things we women do. And some of you may be lucky enough to find it. 5 secrets to a perfect relationship. 1. Its important to have a woman who helps at home, cooks, cleans and has a job. 2. Its important to have a woman who can make u laugh. 3. Its important to have a woman you can trust and who would never lie. 4. Its important to have a woman who is good in bed and likes being with you. 5. Its absolutely fucking vital that these 4 women dont know bout each other. 😳 Not sure about He_Shift's thoughts but I think he can safely confirm that I have 2, 3 & 4 covered!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I could've said it better!! How is it we haven't met before?!! lol Communication AND honesty is the key to ANY relationship!!! If I'm going to be hurt by someone, I'd rather be hurt by the truth than a lie... Nothing breaks down a relationship... Be it friendship, friends with benefits or marriage than two people that can't communicate their feelings or be honest with each other... I've been single now for over 5 years... I gave up on relationships because I was tired of being lied to.. And I also realised that I didn't really know what I wanted from a relationship so I was always choosing the wrong men... That's when I joined dating sites such as RHP, thinking everyone is here for the same reason... Sex... but I still meet dishonest people.. those that you've been communicating with for awhile and when you decide to meet, they back out or don't show... Even a guy who I'd been meeting every few weeks for a number of months slip up when he lied to me about his marital status... Why??? But what I have learnt from the last few years is exactly what I want from a relationship... I used to think it was someone who was like me and had the same interests but I've learnt that with someone like that you always ended up suffocating each other... yes it is good to have interests that you enjoying doing together but ultimately you need to have your own interest outside the relationship where you have your own space... And to achieve the right balance, you MUST be able to be honest and communicate with each other!!! The only problem I've discovered in the last few months.. being the reason I'm now taking a break from meeting men for sex is I've found that I've become desensitised to the whole experience.. for me sex is not just about orgasm... I can give myself some of the best orgasms I've ever had and don't need to rely on a man for that... Sex for me is about passion, skin on skin, passionate kisses, the heat of the moment, two people together enjoying the touch and each other's bodies, a connection, someone that makes me laugh and feel comfortable.. that's what I have failed to find very often here... So now that I know exactly what I want from a relationship, I decided perhaps it's time to look for something a little more.. So my suggestion is this... Instead of worrying about what men want, find yourself first and really decide what is you want.. AND then look for that special person who wants the same.. as I have learnt... If YOU don't know what you want, how can you possibly give anyone else what they want.. And most of all have fun!!! :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Rolling on Floor pissing myself laughing at this one. Think I will even crack open the Veuve in anticipation no wait make it the DOM. gong to head up north again in May with a girlfriend camper van and two very large dogs, so stay tuned kiddo I may make it past Canarvon this time lol and Men have feelings to ya know, and god I have to keep my eyes and hands of my new lodger, my god he is smoking hot....cold shower time , and repeat after me LadyT...do not fuck the lodger, do not fuck the lodger, do do ohh bugga! I have two more rooms to rent so if the eye candy gets more I shall have to pluck out my eyes with a bent fork
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Litonya' What I read to now, I don't think we are really so different in what we want out of a partnership, I dont like to call it relationship..In a way we women are maybe a bit more scared to make it through and not get exchanged by a younger model.I don't know.....I really can't speak out of experience.....I didn't have this experience. I only know how I feel in my freedom, which I have, to be what ever I want.And it is in a way confusing, because my upbringing was to be married and live for ever with this one man.So that's not the case anymore, so my mind is in such a state of confusion. See I don't feel lonely, I never have, I feel just I want a person sometimes around, which can be a good bedfellow and friend. Oh and can fix things when they break because I am shit in it. Yee I can cook a meal,a simple one, and i can be a great friend.So how do men know, you don't want to have them around 24 hours a day? What I see, men my age are so scared" because they have not had FREEDOM for such a long time.But then also I find many men, wimpish in the way they just take it.Take it from us women, because they don't want to be alone. Ohh I don't know......I have to go back in my woman cave.I admire ever male who made it out of a bad relationship and lives his life, and doesn't hate women and get's on with living and loving. I want to say i love you, you wonderful men. I have learnt to appreciate him so much better the second time around. I listen and yes. like another guy said ,I keep my mouth shut and do not always want my own way. I am no longer passive aggressive to get what I want, I do not with hold sex not ever as I know that's how I say thank you for all the great things you do for me. I give him space and he gives it to me, he has his man cave and his boat and man toys and the boat is man land and I love that he goes there so he can have his time, and me my time. He always said to me, your to complicated at times and men and me in particular likes a pretty simple life. I get that now. I also fold socks just like his mum did and cook and clean for him, fold his clothes and do every thing I can with tender loving care, because I want him to feel wanted. I have married lovers who come to me, for this very reason for a short period of time I can enfold them and make love to them as if they were the last man on earth. That's what makes good sex, even if its a one night stand to make someone feel that your living in the moment, just for them and to make sure they feel important, so take note selfish people, and there are lot who look after themselves , make a person feel wanted. And not just wanted for your own gratification. In this respect we are all on the same page. Men and woman , we just express it in a different way. my goal now is to never take a man for granted and to appreciate every man that crosses my pathunless said man behaves like a dick head then all bets are off. keep em coming guys, how are we to learn and to stop man bashing if you don't show us who you are. Open up to us and by the way Great Topic. You luscious woman and come back and visit, miss you heaps xxx here is my love letter to an extra ordinary woman xxx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Bigocean72' A woman i believe correct me if i am wrong can if she understands her complex body and mind can within a very short time and some instantly go directly to the ???spot and poor herself an instant steaming hot orgasm within seconds ??? So i ask then why would you ever rely on a man to finish the job ??? I mean he cant even finish the fucking dishes!!! Hahahaha - Posted from rhpmobile We need you, to warm us up, to make the experience a slow simmering , delightful experience. Having the big O is just part of it, having a guy bring it on and watch you as you unleash the essence of you as a woman and he appreciates that, is what its about. I guess I need a mans validation that I am desirable , I can pleasure myself all day long but so what. I want a man to start the job, and we both finish the job not always at the same time but we can give that our best shot.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well said LadyTuscan!! Is that where men and women are different?? Or are there men out there that want the passion with sex too??
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'CravingTouch' How many men want to be loved by a woman but not possessed? I guess I'm suggesting open relationships. Is that what the type of man who comes to RHP has in mind? Not to be "trapped" by one woman, but to be loved and set free to explore other women/men at the same time? No, I reckon most men come to RHP for easy sex and once they decide they are ready to settle down they go and find the "one" on a vanilla site. I know some men in the past have said that RHP women that are into group sex and swinging would never be happy with just one man. Therefore they are good to know but not to settle with. Seems like a lot of men still want the one special one to be with if they can find her.
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RHP User
12 years ago
as always, so much you understand, you are such a wise one I love men and wanted to open the gate to hear them. I am not ever a woman who doesn't like men, because that's not me.This beautiful play, dance I am playing with each of them who came or comes to me each one is in a way unique to me. I am love and I never want to change this. You will see me again for sure. Booked my flight to Germany in May will visit my family over there. Ohh God so much schnaps awaits me.HICKS
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Loved your posts. Foxy
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Devil red suits you! Xxx You have such little faith in male maturity. Many of the guys here have already found the one and long since divorced and/or separated from her... And now are looking for a lover, permanent, part time, or fleeting, who knows how to have a good time without all the anxt. Hehe.... Love all the generalisations. This is fun! Hugs G
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RHP User
12 years ago
You know we will meet , i can almost see you from where im sitting right now ;-)) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Well put Kizza. I think you're on the money with what you had to say.. The only thing I would add is. As men'. we don't want to work any harder than we have to. If the chemistry is right , and both on the same page.. It's bliss...
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RHP User
12 years ago
I really don't expect to meet 'the one' on RHP... And in the back of my mind I'd probably be wondering if any man I did meet on here was still looking for casual encounters.. but then I guess that's where trust and communication come in... I know in the past I've had problems in relationships simply because I have a very high sex drive and my partner/s would eventually be worried that they wouldn't be enough for me and I would cheat on them... which, by the way, I have never done, I have always be totally committed to the person I am with.. hmmm once again, trust and communication lol Sometimes I wonder if an open relationship isn't the way to go?? :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
In answer to your original post....yes there are men out there who actually LOVE being an active attentive participant in achieving a woman's (if not mutual) orgasm. I feel saddened by the hint of disillusionment in your outlook. Chin up girlfriend, there are some decent men out there, forgive me my male friends here; he may not be on RHP but they do exist. Trust me there are even guys here seeking something deeper than 6 inches as well and are faced with the same questions, disillusions, struggles as we have to find that "connection".
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