Solo Swing clubbing

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  OpalRose

  6 months ago

  They are only scary right up to when you walk through the entrance the first time. They are generally very chill. People are respectful. Been attending events since 2010. If you need a chaperone/wingwoman and we are going to the same one, happy to help out.

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  ElectricDreamers

  6 months ago

  I (Mrs) play solo when travelling solo and have hit clubs and parties solo quite a bit... What's worked best for me has been finding a top quality wingman to come to the club with me. I'd put a date up in the equivalent of the datefinder here, make sure I have great communication with the guy, or ask a unicorn for recommendations of who to invite along... That said more recently I've just rocked up solo and been proactive with going up to people instead of waiting for someone to come up to me. Play safe!

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  Flirty2020

  6 months ago

  We have been to many a swingers club in and around Melbourne & surrounding suburbia. Based on our observations over the past 13 years: 1. Single females, on their own, at swingers clubs are very rare. 2. More than often they get approached, stalked & followed within the club. As an example, and very time that I went to take a pee, I was followed to the toilets and or on the way was solicited & approached by males (coupled or single) . It got so bad that now my husband always accompanies me and waits outside the bathroom door for me. Every time that my husband and I left the bar area, to walk towards the play rooms, we were followed. We now no longer go to swingers clubs due to this. Our advice is to find someone to take with you so as to “watch your back” and ward off the predators

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  LittleMissShhh

  6 months ago

  Thankyou so much! That actually helps allot!

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  Pollito2037

  6 months ago

  Hi LMS - if you are ever in Sydney I can recommend Our Secret Spot in Annandale - this swingers club has won numerous awards and is focused on ensuring women are safe, including a limit of 5 single males to any one event. Have a look at their website - they have a great series of podcasts as well :) Good luck!

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  wanderlustQLD

  6 months ago

  I attend clubs alone as often as I am there in a couple. I have never had any unpleasant experiences like those cited by the other respondents (feel terrible for you guys too - that's not cool!) And agree that reputable clubs like OSS are defo a go to. Why don't you arrange to meet up for a drink with some people heading to an event at a club of your choice beforehand, so you at least know some people and it takes a bit of the pressure off?

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  RHP User

  6 months ago

  I enjoy going to swingers clubs and night clubs alone. OSS and KZ are great at keeping everyone safe. Consent is key, let the staff know if you feel unsafe. I must have a resting bitch face🤣(ok.. I don’t) I haven’t had that same experience as the above, I hope I never do. But let the unwanted seekers know you’re not interested. Have fun because … Fuck It … they don’t know you. Flirt like you’re the sexiest person in the room 👯‍♀️ Dance like a confident sexy minx 💃🪩🕺 Chest out … ass out… like the sexy single woman you are. Stay safe and have fun Queen 👑

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  Thesunlovingsub

  6 months ago

  If you’re flying solo and feeling anxious maybe there’s some events on with a performance element to give you something to focus your attention on. One thing that is not ideal at OSS is there is nothing to do there except the one pool table which is always busy. I’d feel much more comfortable if there were other things to do while socialising. I’ve never had any remotely concerning experience inside a club, with the exception of Sauna X (usually a men’s cruising sauna) which was horrific. The vetting process in swingers clubs and parties usually weeds out the creeps, and I feel way more safe in a sex club than I do on the street. The only other time I had a very small issue with a man, the two single men in earshot flew out into the hallway and first checked in on me, and that guy is not allowed at any more parties. People who behave like creeps generally get ostracised pretty quickly. I hope you find what you’re looking for!

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  Liz1487

  6 months ago

  These are difficult spaces for introverted women with the powers of invisibility. I sat there and was generally ignored all night. I’m not sure about you but I feel like there’s an expectation for single women to be bubbly, performative, and normatively beautiful. As someone who regularly dines out with a book, I think that’s a great idea to take a book so you can be yourself. It’s funny to think of what you might read at a sex club!

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  RHP User

  5 months ago

  Ive not been before, but if you need someone to hold your hand and a strong back to hide behind, im happy to come along as your friend just for the experience

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