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Squirting
September 19 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
If you type "squirting" in the search bar a list of recent threads will pop up which debunks your idea that women are uncomfortable with this. Squirting subject has been well discusssed this year!
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MissBishere
10 years ago
everyone is an individual and has different likes and dislikes. For me personally what I don't like about it is men's attitude towards it. It is not the be all and end all of orgasms to me in fact I have found that sometimes it just makes a mess, I don't actually come and I am left sore and bleeding. Like anything though there have been the exceptions where it was very naturally done and it was an amazing orgasm at the same time but I find that rare. So when I am asked the inevitable question "do you squirt?" My answer is this "Yes my body has the ability to squirt as it is a technique, but no I do not particularly like it as I find I am generally left sore and bleeding and the clean up is horrendous. If squirting is a must have for you then I am not for you" I guess it's a bit like me asking what makes men uncomfortable with tongue kissing another man? I personally think it is incredibly hot.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm a squirter, very messy individual, and know how it works and how amazing it feels, very well rehearsed you might say, but i fail to understand what you're saying here. Can you tell me what technique makes you bleed? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Was for you, on the mobile, sorry - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I love that it turns guys on. I had a regular Fb over a few nights ago and he really gets off with me squirting, which turns me on more, which i have to be to squirt anyway, so thank god for the waterproofing i have over my mattress. His tongue is so soft, oral skills wow, snd his fire, sexual heat, makes him the best i've ever had. And he'll carry on getting me off, licking and flicking with his fingers, over and over, not just my pleasure, he gets my full attention too and loves that. He has me at hello haha just about eats me when he kisses me, turns me on even now talking about it. Even better, he is multi orgasmic too, very horny individual, so we stop for a drink, hydrate and back for more. Fell asleep together after changing the bed linen a few times, got to wake up with him in the morning mmm yum - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I so agree with you there. If it happens naturally during sex, it can be amazing for you both. But when you have a guy hell bent on making you squirt, with that being the only focus and it becomes uncomfortable, its off putting. And first messages with the question "Do you squirt" wont get a response. Im a real woman, not a giant bloody water pistol.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Well said Koko x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Needed a good clean too 😈 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am generally left sore and bleeding I don't understand how squirting can cause you to bleed?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Agree with koko. It is just a part of a good sexual experience. Not the focus. Its a lot more enjoyable if it just flows.( pardon the pun)
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
When guys write forums, post on their pofiles and brag, about how great they are, they know where the magic button is, and how thumping a women's vagina can "make" her squirt. PFFFT what ever. I feel uncomfortable that some men out there have no friggin idea about a women's body or how they think, but yet they think they are experts and can make any woman squirt. These are the types of attitudes that make me uncomfortable and I dare say a lot of women. If only I could stick my finger in some guys penis, press his button and make him squirt. Foxy
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
is reading that MsB, above has bleed due to access force (I am thinking) That makes me sad to read. I also think there is some vulnerable women (not saying MsB is) who 100% believe these men who say they can make any women squirt - that makes me really uncomfortable as they make out they are so believable. So when the time comes, these men end up hurting women - this can cause a lot of internal damage. It's not a party trick nor an internal switch one can just turn on. Ms Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Some men love having their prostate milked...Some hate the thought of anything in their anus...some women squirt and love it,some women can squirt but don't enjoy it...some women don't squirt,have tried and feel a failure...sometimes it seems to me from what men post about squirting is their desire to boast about their expertise...not about the woman xxFreya
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'enightgoddess' I am generally left sore and bleeding I don't understand how squirting can cause you to bleed? some guys use the wrong technique, and think they need to ram their fingers in an out as hard as they can. Even using the correct technique (for myself anyway) I've made myself bleed, by nicking myself with a fingernail.
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MissBishere
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' I'm a squirter, very messy individual, and know how it works and how amazing it feels, very well rehearsed you might say, but i fail to understand what you're saying here. Can you tell me what technique makes you bleed? - Posted from rhpmobile HI I_Touch, I have asked myself that very question many times cause as I said I have had experiences where it has been unexpected and mind blowing and no pain at all during or after. I even went and watched videos that show how it can be done and the technique used. I kinda think its a combination of two things;1. I am not turned on enough and as a consequence I don't let go easily and this results in number 2 which is2. The guy wants to show he can make me squirt and tries harder which ends up causing pain The ones that were very successful were on occasions when I as so ridiculously turned on and in the moment and it just happened unexpectedly, I was relaxed and comfortable with the guy and he seriously new what he was doing. I find its the same with fisting. Some are magical and some are simply not.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't go Hi-5ing myself for making a guy cum, why should anyone make a big deal about my bodily fluids. Like Ms B has said, you try to hard, it makes me incredibly nervous and the dam wall shuts! Let's not talk about it, enjoy each other and my body will reward you and me :) Mary xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sorry to hear some of you have had bad experiences from guys that have tried to make it happen. This has been a fantasy of mine for a while but I would like it to happen involuntary not because I "made her". It would just be a massive turn on to know I got her going that much she couldn't hold back. I believe any sexual experience should be enjoyed equally by all involved - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'enightgoddess' I am generally left sore and bleeding I don't understand how squirting can cause you to bleed? Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' Quoting 'enightgoddess' I am generally left sore and bleeding I don't understand how squirting can cause you to bleed? some guys use the wrong technique, and think they need to ram their fingers in an out as hard as they can. Even using the correct technique (for myself anyway) I've made myself bleed, by nicking myself with a fingernail. to make yourself bleed? Do you have your own hand moving in and out, sorry I'm confused?
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
No male is game to post on here. Not after previous events.............Me? Doesn't count. I have my panties on.............
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RHP User
10 years ago
The squirting subject again? 😱😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I don't see the big deal. If it happens it happens, if it doesn't so be it. It is nice to kniow prior though so you can prepare for the mess
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MsSuperFoxy
10 years ago
What man would post here saying " I don't cut my nails, am a fast jackrabbiter with my fingers in finding the magic button... I'm the Godfather of squirting techniques, an expert at Making ladies squirt, like a water pistol"??? Bring it on guys, I'd like to hear from you. PS- Don't forget to bring wet weather equipment like snorkel, wet suit, and goggles! 😜😜 Foxy
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Quoting 'enightgoddess' I was asking MissB72 what she was doing to cause herself to be sore and bleed. Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' Quoting 'enightgoddess' I am generally left sore and bleeding I don't understand how squirting can cause you to bleed? some guys use the wrong technique, and think they need to ram their fingers in an out as hard as they can. Even using the correct technique (for myself anyway) I've made myself bleed, by nicking myself with a fingernail. to make yourself bleed? Do you have your own hand moving in and out, sorry I'm confused?
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RHP User
10 years ago
op, you asked what makes women uncomfortable about the subject of squirting. The responses so far should reveal quite a lot to you. Because they feel inadequate and frustrated, know guys love it, that it turns them on, and that they're missing out on much greater pleasure they can't get to. Women, on this forum at least, are EXTREMELY jealous of other women who do squirt. Hence the stupid jokes, you know, like when young girls giggle during sex, because they're uncomfortable, bit like that. And the guys who chime in and contribute absolute rubbish as well, and bag out on squirters, well they would be the losers who can't make a woman squirt, the ones who would be too lazy to do their research and find out how to become better lovers. My belief is that there is a very high percentage of women who can't orgasm at all, I can pick them on here, they find me intimidating because they know that. I can tell from their comments if it's bs or not. So there you have it, women are very good at faking orgasm and making it up as they go along on this forum. If you want to know more about my squirting op, please pm me, happy to fill you in on my evolution, which has been incredible, and continues to get better
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RHP User
10 years ago
There is two things that make me uncomfortable... First one, is the freak show aspect to it. I love it, crave it when, as others have said, it happens as part of fantastic erotic sex with lots of horny touching. But when someone just wants to see the show and is not interested in pleasuring me, its awful, quite humiliating actually. Its happened once and it shall never ever happen again. Secondly, its the mess. There is a lot of fluid and it gets cold really quickly and therefore uncomfortable. Thirdly, OK, I said two things but I just thought of this one, is when the guy comes too quickly because he's so turned on by it. Pfft! If this is you, then you better be good with your tongue and fingers!
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RHP User
10 years ago
Its great for you that you squirt and love squirting, but not ALL women like it. I love it when Im with one of my regular playmates, but it doesnt come near to a body shuddering orgasm at all for me. Everyone is different and to assume people who dont like it are inadequate or find you intimidating because of it is quite strange. Im enjoying myself far too much to worry about what the other women are getting up to on here.....Im sure they are all having fun in their own way and using the site to suit themselves.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Kokoflamingo' Its great for you that you squirt and love squirting, but not ALL women like it. I love it when Im with one of my regular playmates, but it doesnt come near to a body shuddering orgasm at all for me. Everyone is different and to assume people who dont like it are inadequate or find you intimidating because of it is quite strange. Im enjoying myself far too much to worry about what the other women are getting up to on here.....Im sure they are all having fun in their own way and using the site to suit themselves. and what happened then skip? God I need a coffee, or three. Have a wonderful day
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RHP User
10 years ago
Okay kokoflamingo, I have coffee now, why don't you tell us about your orgasms. Body shuddering did you say? And these body shuddering ones are only with new playmates? Just want to get there clear, hang on I'll be back with my toast, can't start the day without vegemite
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RHP User
10 years ago
... without any physical penetration or stimulation whatsoever, I'd say it comes down to the power of the mind first and foremost, partner compatibility and being totally in the moment.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
and popcorn. They always seem to go together. Pulls up stool........
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RHP User
10 years ago
Sorry to disappoint but I don't see the need to go into the intricate details of my sex life. But to clarify....its much better with guys I have known for a while. Enjoy your breakfast ...... : )
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RHP User
10 years ago
"Women, on this forum at least, are EXTREMELY jealous of other women who do squirt." Really? I've never had a squirting orgasm but I'm certainly not jealous (let alone EXTREMELY jealous) of those who have. Would I like to experience it? Sure. But if I don't, I won't feel as if I've missed out. I come easily & often from penetration... from what I understand, a lot of women don't. Are they jealous of me? Doubt it. Everyone is different, and just because a squirting orgasm is a "greater" pleasure for you, doesn't mean that it is for everyone else. To answer your question OP, in my opinion what makes women uncomfortable about squirting is being made to feel inadequate if they don't/can't. Which, I_touch_myself, is exactly what your post has likely made a few people feel.
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RHP User
10 years ago
How can you put an orgasm into words? Its like trying to explain what child birth feels like. Lol
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'enightgoddess' Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Quoting 'enightgoddess' I was asking MissB72 what she was doing to cause herself to be sore and bleed. Quoting 'Luck_Dragon' Quoting 'enightgoddess' I am generally left sore and bleeding I don't understand how squirting can cause you to bleed? some guys use the wrong technique, and think they need to ram their fingers in an out as hard as they can. Even using the correct technique (for myself anyway) I've made myself bleed, by nicking myself with a fingernail. to make yourself bleed? Do you have your own hand moving in and out, sorry I'm confused? Not sure how I can make it much clearer. I said that I made myself bleed by nicking myself with a fingernail. And stands to reason that if guys didn't have well trimmed nails they could do the same thing. Also, as a woman who does squirt (are you jealous of me bitchez ), I will mention that I can make myself squirt in less than 10 seconds flat and so could a guy if he knew the right things to do with his fingers. However that's just mechanics...it's almost like an automatic reflex...and whether I actually have a good orgasm along with the squirting depends on much more than just knowing what to do with your fingers. So guys, don't automatically assume that because you made some liquid spurt out of a woman's pussy that it makes you some sort of sex god who can give women mind-blowing orgasms. In most cases you still need to get a woman's brain engaged to do that, and it's not whether she squirts that will tell you if you've succeeded.
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madotara69
10 years ago
Quoting 'Astrild' "Women, on this forum at least, are EXTREMELY jealous of other women who do squirt." Really? I've never had a squirting orgasm but I'm certainly not jealous (let alone EXTREMELY jealous) of those who have. Would I like to experience it? Sure. But if I don't, I won't feel as if I've missed out. I come easily & often from penetration... from what I understand, a lot of women don't. Are they jealous of me? Doubt it. Everyone is different, and just because a squirting orgasm is a "greater" pleasure for you, doesn't mean that it is for everyone else. To answer your question OP, in my opinion what makes women uncomfortable about squirting is being made to feel inadequate if they don't/can't. Which, I_touch_myself, is exactly what your post has likely made a few people feel. Feeling that way and from some dickhead who hasn't a clue, just the idea of it and probably from the porn extravaganza and the majority of women squirt internally, so it'd be a shame to think that ruins the show for the squirt watchers, maybe just maybe you have squirted, because Tara is a inner squirter Mado Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
You're such a sweetie :) To be clear, I've never had a lover made me feel inadequate or even try to put pressure on me to squirt :) But previously, comments made in the forums have made me feel like a lesser person because I couldn't. These days I'm older and wiser, it's like water off a duck's back. I'm just conscious that others may be made to feel the way I did, when blanket statements are made about it being the best type of orgasm etc. You might be onto something with the "inner squirting" concept. I get very wet during sex & I've had lovers tell me how they can actually feel the wetness increase when I come. I'm an inner squirted like Tara lol.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You betcha I'm jealous... of your awesome profile pic AND your collection of patterned tights 😘
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RHP User
10 years ago
Childbirth, the most easily forgotten pain. I remember my sister in law saying she panicked when she was taken into hospital for her second baby, as it all suddenly came flooding back....... A soccer player said to me not long ago "You women have no idea what being kicked in the nuts feels like" I just said to him "Childbirth" Shut him up
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RHP User
10 years ago
Bwahahahaha. ~gasp~ Bwahahahaha
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RHP User
10 years ago
watch too much porn. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'm just going to say, I agree with some of the above, "spontaneity is best" That's all.
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RHP User
10 years ago
hi there, how are you ? Am glad to hear that there are sexy women who embrace their squirt .......the wetter the better
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RHP User
10 years ago
when I squirt I have orgasam after orgasam usually im fingering myself over porn iv squirted 4times in a row love it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I must say Ladies, some very interesting comment and I agree with Justthepussy. My partner can squirt with me just talking to her because, its not a "gotta happen" she is relaxed and is very comfortable in our relationship so the old myth about fingers etc can be misleading If a woman is relaxed, comfotable and with a partner that she has complete trust in it happens naturally. She enjoys it, but not something that is wanted to happen all the time and she has said it is a different type of climax, just as enjoyable but different. Different strokes Ladies, but if it hurts or bleeds I would say your doing something wrong.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am not really sure this is genuine thread. I feel that a 2 second search shows no one thinks its 'gross' its also not possible for everyone but there are some certain things you can do to help make it happen ;)
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RHP User
9 years ago
Don't knock it until you have mastered it. It is not only way sexy but the best best best orgasms you will ever have. I love it and so does my man. - Posted from rhpmobile
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