kjstoner

kjstoner

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October 17 2025

Why do men have to pay to message females

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  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    7 months ago

    Oh gee ... I wonder 🤔

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 months ago

    They don’t have to message women, they could wait to be messaged. Depends how well your profile is set up and structured. But most women sit and wait to be found so you play the game if you want to win 🤷🏻‍♂️

  • Nightglider

    Nightglider

    7 months ago

    No one said men had to pay. If you see value in paying then that’s your decision. Most women don’t pay as there are more couples and men that do pay. I’ve paid and been a guest. Ultimately, no one makes you pay. You do what you choose to do based on the odds.

  • Flirty2020

    Flirty2020

    7 months ago

    Because females are the honey that attract the flies. If there were no females on this site, would you be here ?

  • Flirty2020

    Flirty2020

    7 months ago

    You have an empty profile, no photo and only 4 profile fields filled in? Too much trouble? Say no more!! Nudge nudge wink wink know what I mean ?

  • Andrea_Sydney

    Andrea_Sydney

    7 months ago

    They don’t. Membership/messaging ability isn’t sex based, it’s not free for women either.

  • MrandMrsEss

    MrandMrsEss

    7 months ago

    KJ do you work or are you too deep into the second part of your profile name? If you do work, are you paid enough or do you feel you’re overpaid? Maybe you should offer your employer to reduce your wage so they can reduce the cost of their goods or service. You’re a top bloke!

  • Flirty2020

    Flirty2020

    7 months ago

    Much like males pay a little more, than couples/females, to attend a swingers club. Supply & demand.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 months ago

    Because that is how messaging works on this site. Whether male or female you have to pay to send messages. As a male if you do not pay to send messages the likelihood of meeting a lass is probably lower than 5%. On any site where payments for messages is needed it will be driven 99 % monetarily by males. If males were not such hungry bastards more women would pay. But there really is no need with ratios stacked well in favour of the women on any site

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    7 months ago

    Same reason women pay to message men; because they can. Ms Foxy

  • BarberBoss1981

    BarberBoss1981

    7 months ago

    When I had a guest profile I couldnt message first ...its not because youre a man

  • Screamqueen

    Screamqueen

    7 months ago

    Females have to pay to message females or males. What is your point here. Are you an incel?