M48 F36
Suddenly bi curious
November 11 2015
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RHP User
10 years ago
Personally....... no I don't have any male visualisations before, during or after playing with a womans behind.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am kinda guilty of that yet to follow through with any bi curious action though haha - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Its just part of some peoples sexplorations. Doesnt even mean you are bi. Enjoy where your journey takes you.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I think most people harbour this curiosity. A MMF threesome , provided everybody is comfortable and aware of what's happening, is a good non threatening way to explore these feelings without the pressure to actually do anything more than you're ready for. What ever you do be playful and have fun.
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RHP User
10 years ago
we are a bi couple and yes that is how it started for us. our man would ever entertain the idea of a relationship with a man but is more than happy to be involved orally and anally with a man in the presence of ladies. it has nothing to do with being attracted to men but totally for sexual enjoyment. pressure on the prostate is an amazing feeling and makes him orgasm intensely. wether that be a lady doing that with fingers or a strap-on is really no different to a penis. conversely our lady is not interested in having a relationship with another woman so really there is no difference, men just have to get over the stigma/taboo associated with male/male contact. great topic and have fun.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Some guys are flat out straight, so much so they wouldn't even cross swords, i've spoken to some that felt the need to stress that they have no interest in men at all but they wouldn't have a problem in a threesome if bodily parts brushed past or whatever but still fiercely straight, then there are those who are curious or start wondering, i agree with willow just go with it, nothing to stop you these days you'll then decide what floats your boat further on, new experiences that are scary can be surprisingly good - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Not at all... was never a consideration...
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RHP User
10 years ago
i was a guy once ..i think straight guys arent normal ,,same as gay people ,,,,,to me being bisexual is normal ,good sex is good sex regards,of the gender ,,,encourach your guy to give it a go hun ,,,,he will never look back and you get a far better lover from your man ,,,get normal ,,,,,like me ,, pmsl ,,,oh i forgot ,,,im also transgender ,,,thats also normal ...rofl ,,,catherine xxxx
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RHP User
10 years ago
My first bi experience was when I was 18. Just oral in a MMF threesome with a mature couple. It was great and I learnt a lot. If I was going to give any advice to those who are curious? Just go with it. You shouldn't necessarily jump in with anyone, but certainly forget all the social stuff about where lines are drawn about being gay, bi or straight. If you want discretion, no worries. Organise a meet at a hotel rather than your house and don't exchange phone numbers - simple. I'm naturally very discreet but I understand that most guys carry this thing in their heads of "what if my mates find out?" Sure, I'm not saying don't ber concerned, but just place a high priority on discretion while you're exploring your sexuality until you find out where you're comfortable - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
just go with the flow/desire. A lot of happily married men and women fantasize about bi sex....I think its very 'normal' for want of a better word. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
I am single but I tried the bi thing with a couple who were experiencing their first bi experience, both of us guys where so visibly nervous. The best thing to happen was the Mrs of the couple got us into the MM play, two cocks in her mouth then moving into a shared bj with both of us. After that we got more comfortable then we had no issues, it became incredibly fun after that when all three of us got a little loose with it. I was licking her out and socking him off as he fucked her, sharing cum with the girl during a bj ect. I find straight threesomes bring now...lol I found DVP very hot with two cocks rubbing together in the pussy, sucking dick is not easy either.
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RHP User
10 years ago
there is some interest there. I have enjoyed some prostate stimulation on myself but sometimes it hasn't been enjoyable and short lived. I don't know. It would certainly be only ever in a MFM situation at first and that's all I'm interested in exploring for the time being.
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RHP User
10 years ago
just wanna remind the guys that theres lots of really hot ,,tv,,tg ts ,gurls out here ,,,chicks with dicks boys >lol,,im sure they could make your first cock experience ,,a lot easier ,,xxxxx catherine ,,,now get on the bed n bend over ,,,,,lol,,,
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Easier for the curious to try. Bit of feminity with a cock in panties. Bend us over and no need to even see a cock. Just do us all the favour by not bolting off down the street when we answer the door........
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes , From before high school I have play around . A mate and I went to his house , his parents would be still at work. We used to wank by our self watching each other , then started to wank each other .Then went to sucking each other and it went on and on . WE kept this up for years after. Both got married , Then I got divorced and started to swing in threesomes . I now look upon my life as bisexual .Its now a big part of my life and wouldn't change it for anything. Ive met so many nice people that are bisexual, I call them my friends.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Familyfun69' we are a bi couple and yes that is how it started for us. our man would ever entertain the idea of a relationship with a man but is more than happy to be involved orally and anally with a man in the presence of ladies. it has nothing to do with being attracted to men but totally for sexual enjoyment. pressure on the prostate is an amazing feeling and makes him orgasm intensely. wether that be a lady doing that with fingers or a strap-on is really no different to a penis. conversely our lady is not interested in having a relationship with another woman so really there is no difference, men just have to get over the stigma/taboo associated with male/male contact. great topic and have fun.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I can only speak from my experience but I dare suggest that most blokes would not become bi-curious after a bit of ''ass-play'' with a woman. There's quite a difference between the male and female arse believe it or not. I know because I've been down both roads. For me, I knew even as a boy that I had different feelings about men. I must admit I was a bit sexualized as a child, would get noticeably excited when looking at either naked women or men. During my teenage years my fantasies involved men as much as women. When I finally had my first encounter with another man it was every bit as satisfying as those with women at the same time. Nowadays I still enjoy sex with men but prefer women more in the main. Trouble is, I have no shortage of success with men, bugger-all with women. My life is strange. What this is all leading to is - if you were bi you would have had your suspicions and desires before now. My guess is you're not bi, but there is (mostly) no harm in trying it to see for sure. I know blokes who tried sex with a man for the first time and reacted badly - shame, revulsion etc (which is irrational in my books - you just tried something new, nothing more). It rather ''cured'' them of the notion altogether. Bear that in mind.
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LittleBitWeird
10 years ago
Any takers to help us get there again?
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RHP User
10 years ago
I'll help get you there if you give me the chance. I don't disappoint
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yes!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I can't remember how my curiousness came about, just started to play with my own arse about 10 years ago I guess, only on very rare occasions, alone. Have toyed, fantasized, but never had the real thing yet. I am the same as others, I don't particularly have any attraction to men or their bodies, I'm a big fan of women, but the thought of the stimulation and excitement of having a cock in my arse or mouth, it's something I definitely want to have a crack at. I wouldn't worry too much about what it means, if it's something that interests you enough to want to do it, do it!
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RHP User
10 years ago
I've had a couple of advances in the past (when I was quite young but adult) and it wasn't very appealing. I am glad now that those experiences proved as guidance on where I stand. If I was bi, that would have been fine by me too.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Many of the couple I play with have the male listed as straight, so that is the baseline I operate on, however, often I find that we do cross over into some bi play, usually just oral, although sometimes it has gone much further.Doesn't make you bi or any other label that people want to slap on everybody, it just means that in that situation and with those people, you let the boundaries of your sexuality fall away and simply pursued where the feeling and pleasure took you.Hope you get to give it a try and think you will enjoy it, but it isn't for everyone.But better to find out than wonder forever....
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yep been there. Love to again if can find the right couple ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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QLDtwo4fun
10 years ago
Go with the flow, and if every one is a consenting adult and having fun it's all good. Don't knock your self out defining sex.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Yep that's what happened for our guy. While playing with a couple the other male took my mans cock in his mouth. We didn't even know he was bi. That got our guy thinking as to how good it was, and they say the rest is history. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Always been curious. It's best of both worlds ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Ive experimented a bit with a little bj play and although I was aoused at the time I wouldn't say it did anything major for me, my partner though has a major guy on guy fantasy and the idea of her getting turned on by it kinda appeals to me. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
My first sexual experiences were with guys as a teenager experimenting, never was attracted to guys but nothing wrong with a bit of sex play and did it all back then. Haven't ventured back to bi-ness since but it's something that I'm sure will happen when the time is right. Mr D
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Markov77
10 years ago
Totally agree with your explanation of the sexual enjoyment side of things. It's exactly how I feel. It's not so much about being attracted to guys but the sexual pleasure of enjoying everything. I am yet to actually have any experiences but find myself fantasising about the experiences and must have a female heavily involved. I'm super picky too so need both to be attractive. I'm really limiting myself lol. Introduce me to Bi Activities!!!!! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Im not at all attracted to men. I dont find them sexy nor do i get hard looking at one but i did start to get curious about how it would feel. Ive experimented a bit now and it was rather enjoyable. Still not sure i could recieve anal as im extremely tight. I would have to trust the person and be extremely aroused to enjoy it. My partner has used toys on me whilst giving me a bj and it was very intense. Would love to try a mmf 3sum and see how it goes. Being interested in recieving anal play doesnt mean you are bisexual but i completely understand not wanting everyone to know about it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
9 years ago
I'm not sure arse play makes you bi at all. Are you attracted to guys? Like could you imagine making out with a man? Arse play is just awesome, doesn't lean for or against being attracted to males. But by all means if you are, go for it. I wish I (male) was bi, would open up so many more options.
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RHP User
9 years ago
Sexuality is often a fluid thing depending on many factors. Absolutely nothing wrong with experimenting so long as you feel safe and know you can stop if you are not enjoying something. I have never before had thoughts of being bi however my partner wants a threesome with another female. I am very surprised at how excited I could get about it. You just never know until you try it. Really what's the worst that could happen. If you can deal with your worst case scenario then anything better than that is a bonus so go for it. Who cares how the thoughts came about.
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RHP User
4 years ago
I'm married to my dream wife and she loves to bust out toys to fuck me. She can't get her head around the notion that I want to feel w hard throbbed cook balls deep. Finding a male that is actually what their profile states I'd fucking hard. Looks aren't important for me personally, just a hard cock. Unicorns are easier to find and when I successfully tee up a session, I'm literally becoming a full service fuck instead of an ass. Guys! Get your shit together, if you crave dick, it. If you don't but you're actually interested in my wife, piss off . I learnt I enjoy my ass poked in two stages. 1 I was checking out the Mrs new dildo, just to see what it first felt like. The Mrs walked into the bathroom. I did what had to be done to stop her seeing my curiosity by sitting down and taking the entire 12 inches. It was intense, but I kind of liked it. 2 my petite ex loved anal but only from me. At a swingers party I convinced her to let the fellas have a go if I too took all the bi guys. From memory I took 12 loads and she was 13 or so.
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