The BEST BJ you’ve ever had, and why?

April 21 2026

We’ve all had experiences that are etched into our brains forever. It’s got me interested, in what makes for the gold standard. What factors made for the best blow job you’ve ever received? Was it a specific technique, the setting, or just the person behind it? Maybe, even the anticipation, teasing, flirting, and build up before it? I’m genuinely curious, as no two experiences are exactly the same. Some connections and experiences stay with us forever.

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  • Deetsy

    Deetsy

    one month ago

    Ooh very keen to read these responses. I LOVE giving a good bj, I’ve been told some women give shit bjs and some are incredible. Apparently, I have a magic mouth, but I’m not feeling it, I do what I enjoy and work that magic based on the guys responses. Very interested here.

  • JustAManNextDoor

    JustAManNextDoor

    one month ago

    Best ever? I haven’t quite experienced perfection yet, though a few have come very, very close, pun intended. Technique, sure but thats the tip of the proverbial ice berg. Enthusiasm definitely. For me, it’s never just the act, It’s the build-up: the flirtation, the teasing, the anticipation, the connection. Is it someone new, or a familiar lover who knows exactly how to push the right buttons? When all of that aligns in the moment, it can be genuinely mind-blowing. As a man, who generally loves any attention down there, any BJ is a good one. If it’s not quite perfect the first time… well, there’s hopefully time for a second attempt.

  • Lostyanumber

    Lostyanumber

    one month ago

    Some women are definitely more talented than others. The lady I'm seeing at present is extremely talented and keeps me 'on edge' for what seems like eternity. She's very enthusiastic about it too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one month ago

    The good thing about having had excellent oral experiences is you can teach others who want to learn. I recall a 2 in particular: L - a girl I met in 2018 and we're still friends. What's great about her is she isn't trying to make me cum. She loves playing, and exploring and edging me. Keeps me on edge for such a long time. Uses her tongue to flick around the head and just behind. Sucks lightly and then runs her tongue around it - slowly, deliberately. Use of her hands at the same time along with a healthy amount of spit (this cannot be understated). Ball sucking is by far an excellent interlude to change up the focus. She now knows exactly how much I like her to suck and tug at them. She has literally sat there for over an hours an edged me into delirium. Another - S - used head as a finisher. No matter what we'd done she would love to use her mouth and hands to finish me off. The way she stroked, the rhythm and cadence and the eye contact worked like a treat every time. I didn't even have to try or focus. The grip and placing of her hands was perfect. When I teach others, I always tell them to enjoy playing. Don't even think about trying to force anything and let me guide you. Then they pick up what I like and often throw in new ideas they've heard about or experienced with others. Communicating it helps spread the skill :)

  • dc2026

    dc2026

    one month ago

    I met a hot wife on a visit to Brisbane and honestly her shyness hid the snake charmer behind. I won't drag this too much as the guy above has mentioned some of it, but with her it was all in the talk, self-assurance of her capabilities - that balance between gentle and strong massage of both penis and balls, the intense eye contact while doing it. Phew that's etched in memory. Another hot wife in 2017 - she made messy, slurpy BJs very very satisfying and hot.

  • sublime

    sublime

    one month ago

    Maybe my play partner needs to comment here 🤭🤭🤭🤭

  • justforfun76

    justforfun76

    one month ago

    The ones you don’t expect are the best from my perspective. On a lounge while watching nothing in particular. She spent a long time just playing and enjoying herself. Kept me on edge and told me to keep enjoying the show and my drink. Her enthusiasm to want to be doing it was the key. Her mouth and hands working together in the end drove me over the edge. The other I remember well was a girl that demanded I cum in her mouth and was in a massive hurry to make me. Her firm grip working with her wet mouth and the feeling of the head touching her throat had me empty in less than 2 minutes. Both memorable. Both different but enthusiasm is always the turn on. Getting without asking.

  • RamRoverStang

    RamRoverStang

    one month ago

    The bests BJ's are from ladies who actually enjoying giving it. Those that go down without asking, that will unzip your pants and take what they want. They'll use their mouth, their throat, one hand on the shaft the other tickling the balls, or playing with the butt. Feeling saliva drip down around your balls as uses as much lubrication to ease you into her throat. They'll look up at you, teary eyed, air tight around your shaft, give a wink or and knowing glance letting you know how much she enjoys feeling your pleasure in her mouth. She won't get a sore jaw, she'll keep going, using every trick in the book to make sure you release every last drop where you want it, either in her mouth, on her face or her tits. That's when you know you've had the best BJ ever.

  • nutsundae

    nutsundae

    one month ago

    So I've given this one very serious consideration, and here's where I've landed. Without doubt, the best of the best, the gold standard, the creme de la creme of oral I have had the distinguished honour and rapturous pleasure of receiving at the dizzying heights of almost unfathomable skill......is an equal tie. Shared by the amazing, beautiful ladies that I've met here on RHP.....and who keenly follow the forums...... 😉😉😁 Thank you, your honour, may I now be excused from the stand?.....

  • BlueSpark

    BlueSpark

    one month ago

    The best I've had was with a person I hooked up with a few times last year. They (NB) were skilled from having a lot of practice, but I think the key was that they enjoyed every moment of it and wanted to do it for their own enjoyment perhaps even more than for my own. They were also great at pacing. I've been with men in particular before that love giving oral but are far too aggressive, there was no build-up, no tenderness, no tease, I felt like I wanted to pull away to take a breather instead of hold their head and ask for more.

  • CallMeV

    CallMeV

    one month ago

    No doubt..The very first one I had was the best for some unknown reasons. The first date of us, I picked her up in my car and drove around the city. She touched my thighs and smiled. All I remember was I drove the same street twice in the dark and lost the control of car once (not exaggerating btw). Innocent me asked her what if I cum. She said, I will take in my mouth and swallowed 👄 It was the best maybe because it was the first.

  • CaptainSensible

    CaptainSensible

    one month ago

    The next one is always the best one.

  • Sescalinata

    Sescalinata

    one month ago

    In my experience, every guy will tell you you are the best he has ever had. Or " you're the first woman to make me come with a blow job". Just to get more of the same thing ☺️

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one month ago

    Most women can’t give bjs

  • mobydick4000

    mobydick4000

    one month ago

    Ahh.... The story in its full. I met Sailor on Bumble but never started dating, just friends only. One brunch meet I was telling her one of my dating stories. The next week on an interstate work trip she messaged saying she had a sex dream and was feeling horny. We organised to meet for drinks Friday night on her return. A few drinks at the bar We go back to her place, but I'm still trying to read her if she wanted anything or not. She then tells me about how she gives great blow jobs. I tell her that while I enjoy them, I rarely cum from them. That leads us into the act. Her technique of both hand and mouth was, to use the term 'mind blowing', would be an understatement. Making me cum was only third base.... home run was when she made me squirt! I was embarrassed thinking I had urinated, but going to the bathroom I realised with a still hard on, I couldn't go. Making me squirt was my first, hence my best and most memorable BJ received ever!

  • Niceshape1

    Niceshape1

    one month ago

    While you're giving head look at your partner and you can see when he is enjoying it the most so you know what you're tongue needs to be doing and eye contact is very intimate when giving oral. Same for the men when they are licking their partners cliterous.

  • Lostyanumber

    Lostyanumber

    one month ago

    It's interesting to note that a lot of men say that they don't cum easily or quickly with a blow job. My current lady friend has only once made me cum in her mouth, and she gave me the big Cheshire cat grin after that. My other lady friend has yet to do that and has rather given up because of the lockjaw fatigue. Interestingly enough working girls have a the technique for making guys cum quickly, it's a trade secret and I'm not going to share that with any girlfriend...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one month ago

    It was slow, cute subtle at first, a gentle kiss to start, then she ran her tongue from bottom to the head. It was only when she was massaging the V of my penis with her tongue that I lost my mind. And she stopped and edged me every time I tensed up, each edge lasting longer than the previous one. Time didn't matter anymore. We held each other and did some breathing exercises after

  • Arfur_Foulksake

    Arfur_Foulksake

    one month ago

    The first one I ever got was still to this day the best I ever had. I think the thing that made it so good was that she genuinely wanted to be doing it, and she was very good at it. I’m not exaggerating when I say it was knee buckling. I was standing up at the time and nearly fell over

  • Jig092007

    Jig092007

    one month ago

    The one that changed my mind on this topic. The one that proved there was one to rule them all. She looked like Darryl Hannah. I had my reservations as I wasn't ready to jump back into a relationship and she seemed the type. Her ex was a "friend" apparently. Though the fact he was calling my ex proved otherwise. Anyway I was not a believer in women having different abilities on the Blow job topic. Well she proved me wrong. From the moment she enveloped my manhood I was in trouble. Still to this day I don't know what she did different but it just was. Seconds felt like minutes and she had me finished in no time. Ahhh the good times

  • RHP

    RHP User

    one month ago

    This reminds me of a joke Minnie Driver said to Will in Good Will Hunting. Great movie! No teeth is a good start.

  • sterlingarcher1

    sterlingarcher1

    one month ago

    Damn umm I'm now 40 years old, and the last decent and "strictly BJ only" I probably had was in my early 20s. I guess I have been unlucky as I always pay it forward in life.

  • Steve4anyone

    Steve4anyone

    one month ago

    From a woman who really seemed to enjoy it and her eye contact was for me what made it special!

  • Gentlelovers

    Gentlelovers

    one month ago

    No one even has come close to giving me a BJ like my wife can.

  • MobysDick

    MobysDick

    one month ago

    Im 32 and never once cum in a girls mouth im my life. Wouldnt know what a bj is 2 kids and 15 years later . Aussies biggest fool 🤡

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    one month ago

    The way I flew QANTAS to the comment section. Ms Foxy 😘

  • hamncheez

    hamncheez

    one month ago

    Mine was about five years ago, my first sexual experience after my marriage ended. I’d been single for a few months and ventured onto Tinder and started chatting to a lovely primary school teacher who was a few years younger than me. Blonde, curvy and profile pics that screamed “I’ll suck you dry” We met for an awkward drink followed by awkward-ish dinner, which turned to conversations around sex. I had a raging hard-on. We finished our shared pizza and she asked me to walk me to her car. I was nervous as fuck 😂 We kissed by her car and she could feel how hard I was. She stuck her hand in my front jeans pocket for a closer feel and said to me “one thing about me I didn’t tell you. I’m VERY good at sucking dick” We agreed to meet at her place, and after she let me in and we kissed she led me to the couch. Sitting me down she knelt on the floor and unzipped me and revealed my throbbing (and recently underappreciated) hard cock. This girl loved cock and she was thrilled with mine. She started with gentle strokes, then took both hands and spat on them. Stroking my full length wirh wet hands maximising the smooth movement against my skin. Working it inti her mouth, down into her throat - gently taking it all with just the slightest gag. So excited remembering it. That night she finished me and we cuddled. The next week we met and fucked like crazy. We caught up many times since then, sometimes as FWBs and sometimes just as friends. Such a wonderful woman and a cock artiste 🤤

  • Blissbombs

    Blissbombs

    27 days ago

    Any attention with the mouth is good but there’s a massive difference between nice and mind blowing. The best I’ve had was a combination of mouth and hands. Many just use their mouths and tongue which does feel great but doesn’t get me over the line. Start off with mouth and tongue definitely and vary pressure between soft and firm. Just under the glans is sensitive and the frenulum is super sensitive so concentrate there. Gently using teeth is great too but don’t over do it. Again, vary the sensations. One hand cupping the balls is heaven while your mouth works the knob and the other hand grips the shaft. A good amount of spit is essential for working the shaft with the hand or hands as the easy glide feels much better. Using the tongue around the balls and thighs and on the shaft deep under the sack down to the hole is awesome too (hygiene is a must guys). Sucking one ball gently into the mouth at a time or both together is hot but don’t suck too hard. Another good sensation for me near the end is having my sack and balls firmly pulled down away from the shaft with one hand while the other hand and mouth finish me off…ooooh so good. As others have said, enthusiasm and eye contact make it so much hotter. Read the guy and have fun.

  • Kt_Kcouple

    Kt_Kcouple

    27 days ago

    This is now going to sound like a (humble) brag but I always get told my BJs are incredible but I honestly don’t know what it is that I do or don’t do that is so special. I am most certainly an enthusiast haha and very sloppy, love to use my hands, never any teeth, love to take it nice and deep (bonus points for making my eyes water and telling me I’m a good girl). Looking up for some hot eye contact. Can’t help but moan a bit because it’s so hot and fun. Love to have my head/ hair held , with my man kneeling in front of me, thrusting into my throat.. Some perineum, butt play (with consent of course) All the things.. So good 🫦

  • EuphoricBliss

    EuphoricBliss

    27 days ago

    Not my first rodeo. I am very talented at BJs and am told that a LOT. Enthusiasm is the key. I get off on it. Magic mouth hugs ? Call it what you will. Not saying I am the best ever, but I have never given a bad one. Technique and rhythm count as much as being generous. Just enjoy it 🥵🍆💦

  • Nannascrumpet1

    Nannascrumpet1

    27 days ago

    The best BJ always comes from someone who is sucking your dick because they want to and they love it. She might not even have the best technique, but if you can tell she's loving having you in her mouth. It makes it better, Best one I can remember was a girlfriend I was living wth walked in to where I was sitting on the couch, having a beer and watching the footy. without saying anything, she pulled my cock out and sucked it like it was giving her life. She spat on it, deepthroated and sucked me until I shot my load down her throat, then licked it clean and tucked it away. She then got up and left the room and never saiid a word. I told her I loved her for the first time that day. ;-)

  • Plagenudiste

    Plagenudiste

    25 days ago

    They’re all great but 2 that cum to mind: the first was having 3 women on my cock at the same time at a sex club in France. 2 on the shaft, one sucking my balls. Omg. The second at a gloryhole by a sexy black girl. Porn playing on a screen and just the sensation of being devoured and just focusing on the feeling was indescribable. I think my cock just about exploded.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    24 days ago

    I’d have to say the best blowjob has been while spitroasting Tara with a mate fucking her deep and banging her arse so she was getting a great deal of help deepthroating and all her passions moaning and cumming till her orgasms, seemingly quite satisfied with the whole idea of what was going on, So it’s not a one off favourite, more like whenever we were spitroasting and that’s been a few different buddies, There’s been some close though and the future could be full of surprises. Head down bum up. Mado Mado Tara

  • ThumbsTalkBad

    ThumbsTalkBad

    22 days ago

    In general I find getting a BJ the most obligatory part about any encounter. Especially with women. I have never been with anyone who got me excited about getting head. There have been many that were relaxing. Memorable because of setting or the occasion. There is one thing that all the truly exceptional and genuinely memorable blowjobS I’ve experienced have in common. The person giving the BJ didn’t just want to do it they devoured me. For whatever reason on that occasion, you could see them getting off physically and mentally. They’re not only enjoyed the effect. It was having it on me. They were getting off on the act itself. I also fully understand that I process things differently to most. 

  • NTT111

    NTT111

    21 days ago

    The most toe curling bj i have ever had has come from a guy

  • SincerityGuy

    SincerityGuy

    19 days ago

    Crazy thing is I’ve never had one? Probably have cum every other way but, got very close once but moved to intercourse, strangely I now regret it 😂

  • TuttTutt

    TuttTutt

    18 days ago

    Completely unexpected dalliance with a co-worker on a business trip: Smokey BJ, lots of eye contact, hands all over my balls and backside… 10/10.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    18 days ago

    I had a cute cubby girl refuse to stop sucking me until I climaxed. I said I’ve never came from head and she refused to let me go until I exploded. Intense to say the least.

  • NewOldStock

    NewOldStock

    16 days ago

    Never had one, perhaps one day

  • Smilemaker

    Smilemaker

    3 days ago

    BJs come in two broad categories. First is the hungry blowjob, given by a woman who makes love to your cock who needs to swallow, who wants your mojo. Several partners have told me they cum while sucking because they just love it. Most of my partners have sucked me deep to get themselves really wet between foreplay and cockplay. I still remember one very fondly. She had a face made for a blowjob, with sharply defined cheeks, a perfect pursed mouth and giant needy eyes. Her hunger for cum exceeded that of any woman I've had the honor of making love with. She grabbed me on a train to NYC once and made like she was napping while slowly swallowing me. I never quite knew what wonders she was doing with what bits in her mouth but she was my gold standard. Her tongue, suction and sheer power to gobble using every facet of tongue, lips and cheeks left me breathless. Since tasting my cum was her mission she didn't often tease me. Her best line-- after swallowing once, she slipped off, looked at me with her wicked pixie smile, stroked my still hard cock with her tongue and said "we don't want to waste this, do we.?" I came a second time after just five or 10 minutes. We then spent the afternoon fucking like rabbits. The other broad category is the calculated cock suck. My theory about this group, developed over thousands of hours of close observation, is that these ladies enjoy a cock in their juicy pussy or ass more than in their mouth, but want their man good and hard and believe we are such simple creatures that this is the best way to achieve that goal. I find these women generally have been more interested in becoming pregnant or at least feeling they are breeding, than the truly hungry cocksuckers. Generally, I'd say these women focus more attention on the muscles in their pussies and the effects of angles and the use of their hands on their partners libido.