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The gender debate
October 14 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
the women of Perth are just spoilt for choice TR,too many gorgeous men to choose from has made them complacent and careless. However I hear that plane loads of women from the East will be arriving any day to redress the balance.The women from the eastern states never say a bad word about men because we just can't find any .x R
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think we (men) have a tendency to be wankers as you put it, and yes most of us are extremely good hiding most emotions. However, having said that. I don't think women (some, not all and none that I've met here) are completely blameless. There are a lot of double standards on both sides... Always will be
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think is is what it is....I dont think we set out to be a prick but sometimes we are..i am being very general here.. I guess in differing circumstances we give enough ammunition ..but in 2012 it does go both ways..
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RHP User
13 years ago
...not harsh at all. I've only met one man that was truly worthy of the blah blah. He lied and cheated so much that I actually think he believed his own lies. I booted him out and closed the door on that chapter of my life. I'm now rewriting my little book and the plot is far more pleasurable. KK xx
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RHP User
13 years ago
lets just narrow it down to people on this site..ive been on varoius site over the years and alway heard how the guys root and boot,dont turn out to be who they say they are or not show up at all..so lets hear how many guys have been let down by the wemen..lets have man bitch about he females..im happy to start ..take friday night for instant, i got chatting to person.i say person because there no knowing if it actually was a female.had bit of joke and flirt saw their hiddden pictures,ask me to show her some of me ,then nothing no more chat,her mesage box closed to more messages and flirts.the amount of people who reply to flirts ,with if your serious message me and then never reply... i know it all a numbers game but its has me wondering if the numbers have been stacked to make a date site look better then it is.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think it's about setting the bar Tuscan...if you let yourself be treated badly, it will happen. If you have some self pride and respect yourself, you are far more likely to be treated accordingly. This cuts both ways, equally to applying to both men, and women. It's not to say, you will not have 'bad treatment' occasionally, the difference is, you are much more likely to terminate it quickly, avoiding too much 'burn' which these encounters invariably bring. 'Bashing' (I'm talking emotional here) of anyone, is an ugly characteristic in a person. Sometimes people do it, in a response to being 'hurt' themselves and it serves a bit of a purpose in bleeding off that 'hurt', but, as an ongoing feature of their personality, it's not a good look and it ultimately drives people away (in my humble opinion). We all have feelings, and, I think, most of us would prefer our feelings to be respected, if not, always understood. There is a place for 'decency' towards all in our dealings with others. If other's standard of 'decency' does not correlate with yours, politely and quickly .. withdraw, our time is too short to put up with less than what we value ourselves at.
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RHP User
13 years ago
i treat people how i myself like to be treat..sometimes it tied up and have food licked off me and im all for love thy neighbour crap,but not mine, they not my type and if your lucky enough to be doing it,make sure the partner in on it or doesnt know at all...other wise there could be some nasty man bashing
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RHP User
13 years ago
dont worry Tuscan... we dont give a flying fuck what is said about us
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'wowwow11'dont worry Tuscan... we dont give a flying fuck what is said about us needle dick , you senstive lil soul
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RHP User
13 years ago
...or at least more aggressive in expressing their opinions. I don't have a problem with women in authority either. I'm not in favor of Gillard because she's a twit but I'd vote for Tuscan for Prime Minister any time.
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RHP User
13 years ago
how dare you call our countries leader a twit...lets leave julia duck arse out of this forum ,politics and sex dont mix..lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903'...or at least more aggressive in expressing their opinions. I don't have a problem with women in authority either. I'm not in favor of Gillard because she's a twit but I'd vote for Tuscan for Prime Minister any time. Vote TR for Sizzle Sexual Revolution
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RHP User
13 years ago
I know that people let each other down at times, and women say they are used if a guy fucks them and then does not come back. feeling used, has nothing to do, with them not wanting to come back...and so far, at least for me, they all did want to come back...very much so...i just didn't want them, again...for entirely other reasons...but that's just me...others might have a different experience...
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RHP User
13 years ago
hi! Tuscanred :) I can only go by my experience and views..I don't feel I tend to treat Guys or Women unjustly, because I see them as Individuals. All with their Positive and negative traits behaviours.. I try to be Tolerant and understanding knowing we're all on our own "Life journey" .. I don't get it at times why some Guys expect certain things,But not blaming them all enmasse. I can only go by Guys actions, because I don't tend to attract females tho the ones who do come and say hi! are most welcome:) Enjoy Lu :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ignorance, discrimination, dishonesty and abuse regardless of gender.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hmm had to think about it for a while. When you start on this site you are still set a bit with this female mind. We don’t want to have a relationship…..but we want one. Its so hard at the beginning to think like a male. Sorry guys I am just trying to get my point across. As a female we are so preconditioned to keep you and can’t understand you just fuck and leave and bye, bye. It takes a while…and you get it or you don’t. Lol, Lucky I got it. And now its fun, to be with someone and have just fun for one time and never to see them again is great. Most men ask you again when you don’t ask for more, that my experience so far. You do the funky dance you leave you say nothing at all, ohh except it was great thanks hunny, I call mine sweet men, and they are sweet too me. Ok and that’s it. So when he had a good easy non threaten dance with you and he liked you he will come back he will ring you again, because he will be horny again, and he will remember you, it’s just not in him to have this lavvy dovey feelings we women have after sex. He needs to fuck as many women as he can. He signs up on RHP and thinks ohh goody what a smorgasbord, I have only to show my bits and women will run to have me. And then he finds out it isn’t like that….he still has to compete with so many males. It’s so much easier for us, we sit here and wait, we let the men parade in front of our screens and chose them. We have a mental bucket, mostly more then one, and throw them in there. Ya good, ya minus , ya ohh yuk, and so on. So what did I wanne say……ohh, I like you MALES,I don’t wonne be you because its much harder and harsher out there for you. But I LIKE YOU. Have I been disappointed from you……no, not really. Not in the sense I would call you arseholes. Also keep up the good work. And should our path cross one day Hello Maty. Litonya.
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RHP User
13 years ago
There does seem s bit of man bashing going on the past few years in society, it just seems par for the course. What I find a bit disturbing is the constant changes in expectations of what a "man" should be in society. Imagine for a second that you are the kind of man that tries to live up to whatever expectation society seems to have of what the ideal man is........in the past 20 years we have seen quite a few different types thrown up. Remember SNAGS (sensitive new age guys), remember the constant three day growth, the emo's, the metrosexual, the rugged man who just didn't give a fuck? I have always just tried to be me, but I have seen a lot of men try to keep up with the constant changes in what is said in the mainstream media about what men should be, no wonder they are confused and uncertain......rudderless. Perhaps this does have something to do with the OP's posted question. Can it be that part of the reason is that men are not measuring up to women's expectations? And much of this will apply to the women as well as to what societies expectations are, I know :) I may have to go ponder at the beach in this beautiful sunshine!
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RHP User
12 years ago
But what women who do this fail to realise is that has made men more bitter towards women so it comes around and kicks them in the ass. That being said it works out bad for both sexes the result being that relationships get harder. Plus men can be as bad sometimes.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think there are quite a few women out there that are sexist without realizing. I am not talking about the ones who say "Men are cheats, liars, etc", but the more subtle and far more destructive version of sexist behavior that you sometimes (rarely) see couples.Sexist behavior that I have noticed is shown when the guy in the relationship put in a place of complete submission and control. It always makes me cringe a little - its like the guy has an aura and energy about him that signals defeat... and just a general "little bitch" vibe. (excuse my language).It's my view a healthy and sustainable relationship - is where both members are treated as equal. And your more of a team as opposed to a ruler. (sex is better that way too)
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