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To block or not to block
November 03 2015
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madotara69
10 years ago
strange perhaps but figure everyone is here for their own reasons, kinks are cool Mado Tara xx
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RHP User
10 years ago
I just had a look to see who Ive blocked, but I havent got any.
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RHP User
10 years ago
If they don't get the hint or are simply rude, fail to live up to what they have said ..... BLOCK EM!! ..... Currently sitting on 11 pages, I'm not here to be fucked around ..... Just fucked 😜
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RHP User
10 years ago
Its a good way to filter out those who you dont match. Its not personal! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
and requires blocking if you read their responses..... Sure read the very next response after the initial rejection but after that; who cares what they say?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
11 people on my block list in the 3yrs while being on here and yes I can remember why each of them are blocked. Not into letting people disrespect me. Its a personal choice to block and that is why the function is there to be used.
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sweetgem
10 years ago
I will block anyone that becomes a pest after my initial rejecting reply. To me, it works better than ignoring them. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Forus1234
10 years ago
When we first came on Rhp, we used to block people alot of the time, thinking who are these creepy people? Newbies do tend to get hit hard! Now we've been on for a couple of years, we only usually block those who block us, but constantly view our profile! Why give people access to your profile if you can't see theirs? We have also blocked people thinking we may know them outside of Rhp & for the safety of our family & friends.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Until I had to. I've blocked twice. Both times were after a polite no. Then 1 just got abusive. So blocked. The other I had met for coffee but had no chemistry. We continued to be friendly until he became rude and abusive. So blocked. It is good tool to have but most people on here do respect the answr no. So it's not something I'd use on a daily basis or indiscriminately.
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RHP User
10 years ago
From what Ive seen and been told, the process of one of my friends goes like this... 1. Thank you, but no2. No thank you3. Block And fair enough really.IF someone persists after being told NO twice, .... they're clearly not getting the message, so cutting the message off is the only method that works. Only a dumbarse should get themselves blocked, in which case... they earned it.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Also when I'm abused in anyway or when someone keeps sending flirts asking to meet after receiving a no thanks.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Unless the person is a absolute arsehole.... I give everyone a chance ....
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rupamohan
10 years ago
If you are sure your polite rejection is clear enough and still not working block is exactly implemented for this situation. Generally couples don't have lots of issues you should be expecting to block 1 person among more than 100 you interact. If you are needing block more often it doesn't hurt to review your polite refusal is clear enough.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
Just a firm way of saying " fuck off"...... Pity you cant see their face when they realise.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I block anyone who makes me feel uncomfortable. Use the block button hoever often you like. You don't need to justify why. There are no prizes for having the longest block list. And no prizes for never blocking at all.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I wonder how many dumbarses and arseholes are currently on this forum. *raises hand*
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RHP User
10 years ago
If you shuffle the letters in "block" add a few letters , deduct a few numbers and add a sentence then put it all in your Nutri bullet it still comes out as " No fuck off" Enjoy your day and smile - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Ms_silk' 11 people on my block list in the 3yrs while being on here and yes I can remember why each of them are blocked. Not into letting people disrespect me. Its a personal choice to block and that is why the function is there to be used. It is indeed there for that reason and I make no apology either for blocking people, shit some of them are disgusting and some become stalkerish, some I just want to ensure they never contact me again, sometimes might be a guy I've hooked up with and definitely didn't want to go there again, but didn't want any doubt surrounding it, so I block. Creepy old dudes who contact me saying what wonderful things they'd like to do to me and how hot I look or whatever but have no pictures themselves, block, and so it goes on, there are some that just won't leave me alone and become a real worrry, messages get worse with every one, block is definitely there to remove people like that from our lives. I don't block people who I simply choose not to hook up with and I don't block people on the forum here, which lots of others do, not unless they're one of the above mentioned, but it's there to be used, well said Ms_silk
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RHP User
10 years ago
We've blocked a few people along the way. They tend to fall into a couple of categories. Our profile is pretty clear that we are looking for couples only. When we get flirts and messages from single guys, they've indicated to us that they have no respect for our boundaries. Block. Occasionally, you see someone who is repeatedly checking out your profile. When you go to look at theirs you are unable as you are blocked. If they continue to check out your profile every few days but keep you blocked, we return the favour. :) DJ
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'xeena' I block anyone who makes me feel uncomfortable. Use the block button hoever often you like. You don't need to justify why. There are no prizes for having the longest block list. And no prizes for never blocking at all. Spot on and totally agree. How you use your block function has no bearing on other people and is nobody's business. OP, feel free to block as many as you want for the reason you think or NOT block. Who cares. At the end of the day, you are just ensuring that your rhp experience is as pleasant to you as you make and want it to be. You decide at your discretion. Who cares if you end up blocking everybody here? The positive, hey less inbox admin? Anybody who shames you for using the block function deserves to be blocked?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Just the one and Miss Silk will know who I mean. Otherwise, who cares if someone looks at my profile every day, its not doing me any harm, same with guys who keep sending flirts, no harm done there either. I look at certain profiles quite a lot and would be surprised if I was blocked for doing so. We put photos up to get noticed? But.....its up to the individual, block, dont block, its your finger........
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Seachange73
10 years ago
Quoting 'I_touch_myself2' Quoting 'Ms_silk' 11 people on my block list in the 3yrs while being on here and yes I can remember why each of them are blocked. Not into letting people disrespect me. Its a personal choice to block and that is why the function is there to be used. It is indeed there for that reason and I make no apology either for blocking people, shit some of them are disgusting and some become stalkerish, some I just want to ensure they never contact me again, sometimes might be a guy I've hooked up with and definitely didn't want to go there again, but didn't want any doubt surrounding it, so I block. Creepy old dudes who contact me saying what wonderful things they'd like to do to me and how hot I look or whatever but have no pictures themselves, block, and so it goes on, there are some that just won't leave me alone and become a real worrry, messages get worse with every one, block is definitely there to remove people like that from our lives. I don't block people who I simply choose not to hook up with and I don't block people on the forum here, which lots of others do, not unless they're one of the above mentioned, but it's there to be used, well said Ms_silk haha... so true... gives me the creeps too. Men who contact me with no pics and try to lure me offsite to contact them via email or another app, NO thanks.... Dumbarse!!! They make me uncomforatble. And cheating attached men and married men and couples who contact me. I block them as they dont even have the decency to read my profile which clearly outlines what I am looking for, which is not them. Looking for anybody to scratch their itch.
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RHP User
10 years ago
I hate blocking.! I think it's a shyster move & shows a certain weakness of character too. Do I do it.? Yeeeeeesss 😔😔😔. Generally, I have to be at the end with that person to do it- BUT, I have MY OWN criteria of how you get on my block list if you're lucky enough, but after years being on here, I still don't have 1 full page of blocked ppl. It's usually made up of guys who have been sprung pretending to be a "couple" or "single female" that's 'always wet & horny' 😂
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RHP User
10 years ago
I feel so lucky! :-D
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Justdoingstuff
10 years ago
They admitted in their first PM to us that their cover photos weren't their own, we replied with thanks but no thanks, their reply wasn't pleasant, we blocked them. Now they continue to try and look at us on their phone. (apparently according to RHP when someone tries to look at you via their phone it still registers on your end, but they can't see your profile.) On the people that have blocked someone as they think they are blocked, there are members that have their profile set to invisible, so it looks like you are blocked. They can see yours and it registers that they have looked at you, but alas theirs is invisible. We have one member that looks at us quite regularly but every time we go to look their profile is locked, have even managed to coincide them looking us up while we were online. Sure enough though, profile locked. This behaviour confuses us as we are on here to find friends and playmates and if you are interested enough to check our profile out once or twice a week maybe we have something that interests you and we could show it in person but with no way of contacting you it makes it hard. TLDR; We understand blocking for those that don't understand no, we don't understand continued looking up profiles but having account set to invisible.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You can still block him even though he's blocked you, by going to your block list, clicking the "block a user" button and typing in his name.
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RHP User
10 years ago
A man, and the term is used very loosely, decided to be abusive because we hadn't replied to him. Sheesh get over yourself old mate, we have a life and usually do get around to replying, when we have the time.
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