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Valentines Day Blues
February 11 2014
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RHP User
12 years ago
Aww... I know how you feel. Getting back to everyday life after a fantastic holiday is hard sometimes. Why not text all your friends, facebook or whatever it is you young people do to communicate , and get a group together to go out and have some fun on Valentines Day? Besides you are young and gorgeous and it's your duty to keep yourself free to play the field!! So go and get all dressed up in your finest and go tease all the boys. "You can look but you can't touch"
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RHP User
12 years ago
When I'm single on Valentines Day I often host/organise a singles party where we're all encouraged to share our romantic horror stories or past Valentines failures. I use it to celebrate the great things about being single and to remind everyone that we have love in our lives in many ways other than romance. Why don't you try something like that?
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
MMMMMMMMMMMMM try "Ben and Jerry" Foxy I dislike the Holiday Blues too. :(
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RHP User
12 years ago
We are thinking about you, and although ice cream certainly helps :), just know that you have friends who are always thinking about you. XXX
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'SuperFoxxxy' MMMMMMMMMMMMM try "Ben and Jerry" Foxy I dislike the Holiday Blues too. :( ben and jerry is the best!!! my favorite is pfish food .......yummmm works wonders, valentines day or not lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
That's the best Rhp name I've encountered! Very very good advice, and certainly one.bb I'll consider putting into place, unfortunately I'm the only singleton amongst my friends but I'll think of something. Thank you, you are also gorgeous :-) x. Hi Foxxy, I love Ben and jerrys but I might have to go with connoisseur ice cream, now that's some yummy stuff! Thanks for your reply :-) might do this again! Xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
love going to the beach to relax and great place to unwind. Ohsowet- find a nice spot on the beach and relax this friday will be at cobblers beach to relax and unwind.
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sweetgem
12 years ago
I have always spent the Valentine's Day alone, except for 2013, when a nice gentleman from RHP invited me to spend that special day, and the next day, with him :-) I usually totally forget about that day when it has actually arrived, because I am too busy with other priorities. But if I was reminded, then I would call my single friends out to have a nice dinner, and spend the night chit chatting away about anything and share some laughs together :-) Don't feel sorry for yourself because of the lack of luck in that department, prior to and on, Valentine's Day, it's not worth it and it won't help anything at all! Perhaps take Meeka's advice and go out dressed up beautifully, you never know what's round the safety corner :-) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
If I happen to have someone special on the day, I'll always try to make it a good one. This year, there's nobody, so it's just another day of the year. I'll get up, drop the munchkins off at school, and go to work just like always.I won't feel any more or less alone on the day.. CheersJAB
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RHP User
12 years ago
Valentines day is kind of like romance at gunpoint...... and you girls out sooooo much pressure on yourselves and each other over it.... it's nearly a kind of bullying, the bragging over what he gave you versus what others received or did. ...... I'm single and I say.... fukkit..... I make those women in my life feel special, and will offer a token gesture of friendly acknowledgement to them..... I will also be enjoying nights out this week in the knowledge that I will be amongst the best in majority single company on Friday, when all those couples will be doing the same ol same ok drink/dinner/flowers/bonk combination out if obligation to Hallmark . :-) DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Maybe you can join some of a ladies and spend the evening with us?? I'd love to dress you up in a pretty party dress,do your make-up and hair. So how would you like your hair done??? Straightened?? curled?? I'd say peachy eye-shadow color would highlight your eyes. The shoes?? 8" or 10" inch heels? OH bring your "friend" along too, the one in your profile pic. Such a handsome young man, could do with a make over as well. ;) That would be so much fun! AND when we're done, we'll hit the town! How about it.... Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad'Valentines day is kind of like romance at gunpoint...... and you girls out sooooo much pressure on yourselves and each other over it.... Yes, I agree with the "Romance at gunpoint" bit. But no one responding has mentioned feeling sad about V day, have they? Please don't say "you girls". I've never cared for/about V day in my life. As a matter of fact, after what I'll be doing on Thursday night I'll probably be recovering on Friday...
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
I agree about the The word "GIRLS". I would like to think we are "LADIES" here. IMOE there's a HUGE difference between a "girls" and "ladies". Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
I meant that DG is generalising.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'll be recuperating with a girlfriend of mine after a night of debauchery and 4 guys... Woohoo...... BTW, hubby and I don't celebrate Valentines day, my hubby, rightly so, believes you should always show someone they are special, you shouldn't need a day to remind you to do this or even give you a reason! Ohsowet, your young, be vibrant and celebrate the fact that you have the world at your feet and a great life to experience..... I know that on top of it all is the holiday blues, so maybe it's time for a spa day and get pampered, then when you go out order some tropical drinks :). Good luck and Enjoy
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RHP User
12 years ago
personally I think its for those under 25 But I will send a card to my chosen V person if I have one
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes I was..... based upon general experiences beyond RHP where the mainstream is a little less 'liberal' (another generalisation). ....Ironically meander, you are applying your own view as a generalisation across the wider populous. I think showing appreciation in one say if the year because you're instructed to do do.... I'd neglecting the other 364 where you can choose to. DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yes I was..... based upon general experiences beyond RHP where the mainstream is a little less 'liberal' (another generalisation). ....Ironically meander, you are applying your own view as a generalisation across the wider populous. I think showing appreciation in one day of the year because you're instructed to do so.... Is neglecting the other 364 where you can choose to. DG - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Thank you sweetgem :-) DG, I've never personally felt that kind of bullying you are speaking about but I guess it probably happens in some friendship groups. Thanks for your input. X - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
The sky wont cave in if you girls dont get the red rose and box of chocolates on V Day. Some will , some wont.. this year I plan on taking someone special on a sunset dinner cruise but I'd do this even if it was'nt V Day. Seriously' I dont even rate the day as that special.. My woman is special every day Sad'ly' I know a of a few girls who sent them self flowers to the office just to look the part in front of others.. is that peer pressure or what ? Personally ' I think its just a over commercialised grab for money at the expense of the vulnerable few who feel they are missing something...
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RHP User
12 years ago
Even when I was married and in other relationships I refused to "celebrate" the day. I'd rather ignore the day then do something romantic on any random day because I want to rather than because I feel pressured. Bodacious nailed it, get some single friends together and run amok. Be outrageous, be adventurous, do something you've never done before.
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RHP User
12 years ago
No need to feel blue OP as really its just another day. Bless marketing for getting into our minds. Like a few said, just savour it with other single friends who's company you love and make a night of it. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Why should you feel any more single or any more loved up than any other day of the year? Just another day where other people feel they have a say on others lives "oh you didn't get anything?", " oh you're single", " oh I can't belive that bastard didn't buy you any flowers!", "he spent $300 on roses, what'd you spend?!" I'm not pro Valentine nor anti Valentine, but jeez this day comes with a ridiculous degree of outside pressure and obligations. Should be renamed "judegement day" for men and women alike. Come Feb 15 it's all forgotten about. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Least ill get heart felt cuddles hey
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gazpacho
12 years ago
Quoting 'CravingTouch' When I'm single on Valentines Day I often host/organise a singles party where we're all encouraged to share our romantic horror stories or past Valentines failures. I use it to celebrate the great things about being single and to remind everyone that we have love in our lives in many ways other than romance. Why don't you try something like that? I'm really smitten now little red. Wooof! HugsGazpacho
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RHP User
12 years ago
We don't celebrate by mutual loathing of Hallmark holidays and the fact that our wedding anniversary is only a week behind it. But the day comes and I feel a little blue, yes we agreed, but there is sooooooo much of it in your face I do feel like I've missed out. Stupid! I also feel mean when I refuse to do Halloween :( Damn Marketers!
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Taby_DK
12 years ago
Me and I don't celebrate Valentines Day. Although it would be nice to receive a bunch of flowers or something Mr is not the type to give gifts. He believes every day should be Valentines Day and thus I should be adored and loved all 365 days of the year without one special day. Hell we don't even celebrate our anniversary. I'm not even sure either of us knows when our anniversary it is Taby xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
It's just another day to me I see too many people making such a fuss about it though, I'll never understand that I guess. I figure if you love someone then make each day special except birthdays, you gotta make those 'extra' special I say just treat it like any other Friday, that's what I'm gonna do, so I'm gonna go to work, then the gym, then pick up takeaway on the way home, feed my puppy, eat dinner watching the news etc etc - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
This little red one is redder than before from blushing. I must admit your tongue does have me in a bit of a spin.
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
You should hand out some beautiful red apples on V-Day? Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
I'll put a lust-spell on them and hand them out to people I want. I like this idea. Suddenly I'm the evil Queen from Snow White though, not sure how that happened but meh, I'll roll with it ;) I often do give single red roses/heart shaped chocolates to my friends/team on V-day though, with no romantic intentions or suggestions. Love making people smile, any excuse! If you get one from me, watch out, I'm evil, talented and very very twisted this year. Muuaahahaha! Ohsowet, if you like Valentines day, get involved, give your friends and family cute little tokens, giving makes you feel the love :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Awww I have never received anything for V day.... not even a card. Although I am not the romantic kind, would be nice to get some time though.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Taby_Daring' Me and I don't celebrate Valentines Day. Although it would be nice to receive a bunch of flowers or something Mr is not the type to give gifts. He believes every day should be Valentines Day and thus I should be adored and loved all 365 days of the year without one special day. Hell we don't even celebrate our anniversary. I'm not even sure either of us knows when our anniversary it is Taby xx So what does that mean, you never get gifts ever? That is disappointing........ because you know what? It isn't actually the gift that matters, it is the fact that he has thought of you which is important. Funny, a friend of mine was only just saying to me that it's the women that ensure important days are remembered and celebrated. Like Christmas, and birthdays, and anniversaries, etc. Let's face it everyday life can be pretty mundane so it's nice to make a special occasion of some days. Isn't it?? So boys - don't me so fucking boring!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Two years ago I arranged to meet a man for coffee. I walked across the crossing, looked up and there he was! He smiled at me and my heart skipped a beat. That was the day I fell in love. Two weeks later we were engaged. Then right months ago he broke my heart when a girl young enough to be his daughter decided he would be a good provider for her and her kids. A world of hurt and nasty things said and done later... now we barely communicate. No I won't be doing much this valentines day - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
You two are the absolute best, happy.Valentines to you.xxx - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think I might just indulge myself and create a lot of gym guilt though, feeling more positive anyway Thanks for everyones responses x - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Here in Budaberg hopeing someone will message me wanting to have some fun today or over the next week, open for any kind of sexy fun
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RHP User
12 years ago
Boss took the single guys to lunch and a show at a gentleman's club...those blues have become blue balls now. Lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Did you sent out any beautiful red apples? Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
I got a little flirt-happy, wrote a poem or two, sent some nice messages, and bought my roommate some roses. How'dya like them apples?
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MsSuperFoxy
12 years ago
Delicious of course! Foxy
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RHP User
12 years ago
The blues at 20??? hahahaha have a few more years of empty Valentine's Days. That makes me laugh.
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