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What makes men lie?
June 03 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
It does sound like he has something to hide and it's obvious that you're feeling something isn't right and that he's evading your questions. I'd say ask him directly for an answer and if he still evades then break it up as you have said. Lifes too short to get caught up in someone else's problems at times.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Personnally I think if they are still too secretive after several meetings something is up. You share your body and that takes a bit a trust. If they cant be open with you then Yep be suspicious. Sharing information with someone you have developed some sort of relationship with shouldnt be a problem.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I've been saying we're all better off with a one night stand for years. Even then, you meet some random person for a root.. don't even ask their name, nor do you need to.... and then they start with all the personal questions like they're interviewing you for the job of full time partner or something! Wait a minute... I mean the sex was good... but hey.... why do you have to be so... errrr... personal.. hehe.... Anyway it happens to me all the time I suppose on account of the middle ages man drought.... and I'm over it. Just boink... thanks for the workout... an I'll see you around maybe!HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
For many people privacy is a huge issue. I know people who never volunteer information about themselves and trying to pin them down to a date or time is like pulling hens teeth. This does not mean that he is married or has things to hide. Only that he is not yet comfortable enough with you to bare his soul and tell you all. I have my secrets and I expect others to have thiers. I am sorry but this total honesty, total truth does not work with me. I will not be telling anyone about my life after only a few meetings anyway. You say that you have chosen to break up this relationship? What relationship? He has told you that he is not in a relationship....therefore all the relationship is on your side only. You want more and have asked him for more.....clearly this is not what he wants at all. Sometimes ladies, you need to accept the part of thier lives that they have offered.... if you wish to be in thier lives....without pushing for more. If you can not handle the fact that this is all he wants from you then obviously you have done the right thing by cutting the ties.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Doesn't it sound better to ask "Why do People Lie?" I hate to sound thin skinned but I have noticed a rash of forum topics of late that are all about how guys do this, or guys do that. Guy's profiles. What's with RHP guys? etc. All of this as if women on RHP or in real life don't do all of these things too. Am I right about this, or just whining? How about a little balance and fairness? Not trying to hi-jack a topic...just trying to point it in the right direction.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I know this happens everywhere- But we know alot of guys in Cairns that are just like how you described.....Its such a tourist spot and often transient population tat many people feel like they can get away with things like that and just move on to he next town/place/girl..... The good thing Meggiesgirl is there are lots ofyoung backpackers at your disposal Mich
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RHP User
15 years ago
Guys lie because its an instant reaction to getting away with it. It is then followed up by story. However the the story can have flaws and great lengh of detail, but once its found out, anything all the way up to the ultimate relationship price could be paid. But if he, like she, could ever stop the initial spark of B.S. evoving into more than it is, if one could wear the egg for a minute, the out come could be very benaficial for the relationship. ie, TRUST this should have been a paid anouncement, thought of and typed my me for any party ready to swing its doors open at me.hic
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RHP User
15 years ago
Middle age man drought... laugh it up Stalky... aren't you advancing into OLD age. Take advantage of it while you can sunshine cause it wont last. I am obviously the youger arse! xx Meeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Why is it that when a woman is not giving her phone number, not giving addresses, not disclosing their life story, she is protecting her privacy for whatever reason (kids at home, security etc) yet when a man does the same thing for what ever reason he is obviously lieing and hiding something?? . Ladies when you do the same thing you too are hiding something....whats good for one is good for the other....I dont understand why it is that women are allowed to be cautious...allowed to be reserved and not disclose all yet men are expected to....only to prove to the woman that he is genuine....there are the odd person or two in every walk of life that will lie for their own benefit but not every person is like this....why do people allow a negative experience to tarnish all possible relationships / encounter??? if you keep meeting people who are lieing to you about their life / relationships / etc maybe you need to look at yourself because the only common denominator in the equation is you. . Meggiesgirl - you dont know if he is married or not?? Ahhhh sweetie?? I hate to say this but if he has already told you he isnt in a relationship (as you stated) this would imply not married (you do know marriage is a relationship right???)... . No Strings Attached can meet just that for many people - no strings. This would include friendship or getting to know each others lives...they are strings which can tie you to them...some are looking for someone with which they can share a fabulous sexual experience with at times convenient for both...he doesnt need to explain why he isnt available to meet you this weekend...nor what he is up to when he isnt with you....accept your place in his life (as he should accept his place in yours) and move on...if he isnt able to offer you what ever it is your looking for then find someone who will... . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
The only reason I wanted to see him on weekends is that I have more time for all the fun stuff. During the week is always so busy with other stuff. Like work and the usual drudgery.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'd go even further though. The fact that women are so spoiled for choice on this site means that they can say pretty much whatever they want to, secure in the knowledge that there are plenty of men lined up behind they one that they're currently spinning shit to. OP, if you're getting the wrong vibes, then dumping him is probably wise, but I don't see where you actually caught him out in a lie...
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RHP User
15 years ago
He was talking about facebook and how he'd met up with some old friends. When I went looking for him on facebook, nothing, the only thing that came up was a puppet!!! strange I think he was lying about his name as well as other things.
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RHP User
15 years ago
From the posts you've made on the forums you come across as really clingy and needy and, frankly, more stalky than Stalky! I think you need to start looking at what you're doing before blaming these guys you end up meeting.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'meggiesgirl'He was talking about facebook and how he'd met up with some old friends. When I went looking for him on facebook, nothing, the only thing that came up was a puppet!!! strange I think he was lying about his name as well as other things. I also have a separate facebook page for my online life. Many of us do. Nothing sinister about that at all. Women have been known to stalk the occassional male as well.
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RHP User
15 years ago
you can set your privacy settings so that you dont show up on search lists..... . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
you know why not? because when women lie they cover all their bases and dont get caught! men lie without considering what it will look like when the truth comes out, especially if they think a little sugar coating will help them get their end in!! thats what i have experienced anyway. also, once a chick has committed to a lie, she wont confess, where men often fold or forget and contradict themselves
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RHP User
15 years ago
haha! I take that as a challenge to see who can wear who's arse out first. Bring your twinky lil strap on, then girly... we'll see who's lasting! :pHUgs Quoting 'Meeka100' Middle age man drought... laugh it up Stalky... aren't you advancing into OLD age. Take advantage of it while you can sunshine cause it wont last. I am obviously the youger arse! xx Meeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
No fair Stalky, your arse has had loads more practice than mine. Meeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'sexy2seek1' you know why not? because when women lie they cover all their bases and dont get caught! men lie without considering what it will look like when the truth comes out, especially if they think a little sugar coating will help them get their end in!! thats what i have experienced anyway. also, once a chick has committed to a lie, she wont confess, where men often fold or forget and contradict themselves I don't know where to start with this!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'meggiesgirl' He was talking about facebook and how he'd met up with some old friends. When I went looking for him on facebook, nothing, the only thing that came up was a puppet!!! strange I think he was lying about his name as well as other things. ...absolutely nothing.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'meggiesgirl' He was talking about facebook and how he'd met up with some old friends. When I went looking for him on facebook, nothing, the only thing that came up was a puppet!!! strange I think he was lying about his name as well as other things.Yes, you're probably disappointed but I think you've already realised for yourself that this guy isn't willing/able to give you what you're after so why torture yourself about it? What would you do if you HAD found him on facebook? You're not going to make him into anything he doesn't want to be, so either accept him as he is and relax and enjoy what you do have together or ditch him and find someone who's more willing to be more giving of themselves if that's what you really want. Regardless, I heartily encourage men and women alike to keep the contact numbers/emails you use with their 'new friends for sexual activities' separate from any personal information that can be searchable about your day-to-day existence until you really get to know the people you meet online and only give out details that link to your personal details if/when it's necessary for them to know AND the person proves to be able to respect boundaries and the fact that you still have the right to live your private lives privately even from those who've seen you naked.xx Sarahxx Sarah
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't get the impression this is a site for a long relationship.Seems it's more fling, sex, swing that sort of thing.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Sidd72'Doesn't it sound better to ask "Why do People Lie?" I hate to sound thin skinned but I have noticed a rash of forum topics of late that are all about how guys do this, or guys do that. Guy's profiles. What's with RHP guys? etc. All of this as if women on RHP or in real life don't do all of these things too. Am I right about this, or just whining? How about a little balance and fairness? Not trying to hi-jack a topic...just trying to point it in the right direction. Girls are just as bad! PLUS - it's too easy to spoonfeed people bullshit on a website... Some try to continue this in real life - but they often get caught out. My opinion is - if you have a gut feeling, go with it. More than often, it's right on the money!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Obvious signs that he is holding back on telling the truth. Unless your a stalker, I do not see why he would not tell the truth if in fact he is in a relationship. I have always found it to be best to be upfront and honest, even if it means it blows your chances, but 9 times out of 10 it actually works out. Just give him a miss, especially if he cannot comit to a date...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'foreverlove7985' My opinion is - if you have a gut feeling, go with it. More than often, it's right on the money!! totally!xx sarah
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RHP User
15 years ago
What makes people think they are squeeky clean and never lie?... not one person on this site can say they have never used a white lie or even a bloody big lie to save there arse from shame,looking like a nasty pasty, imbarrisment, getting caught out etc... come on folks be honest with yourselves... humans are born lyers!!! Now down from yr super high BS moral high ground and just admit. humans these days lye to get by!! its how we survive :) Oh spelling/ puncuation Natzis. i know i cant spell so bit my bollocks. cheers. Nice guy with 10 inch cock and $100, 000 limit credit card! xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
My soon to be ex husband had lied all throught our marriage. The length that he has gone to, to justify his reasons for cheating and not offering up the truth disgusts me no end, he is a pathetic excuse for a man. Im the one laughing now because his girlfriend told me about this site. I joined to see for myself because I didnt believe her, best thing I ever did! I have been having the best sex!
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RHP User
15 years ago
His lips are moving! As the famous last words of Mary in the movie All About Steve...."If you love someone, set them free....If you have to stalk them, they were probably never yours to begin with" xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have now found out the truth, thats why people should not lie, they will always be found out. I was right all along he had a non de plume, a fake email address, etc etc. He really is a wanker and a dunce, and hope that no other ladies on this site have anything to do with him for almost 2 months he has done nothing but lie to me. We live in a rather small town so it really isnt that hard to find out about someone, might be different if we lived in Sydney however we dont. If any ladies live in Cairns be warned there are odd ones amongst us. All the other guys I have met on this site have been up front about their lives, names etc, I can appreciate that sometimes discretion needs to be kept even I need some discretion, however, I am willing to give my name age and serial number to those who care. I love RHP we just need to be able to weed out the nutters every now and then. May the force be with you!
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