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When Would It Be, For You???

July 29 2014

The thread on "Could you make love all day long..." got me thinking. There could possibly be a sexual component or reason to this, but it also includes any other reasons also. If you could be a certain age (or time in your life) again and enjoy it over and over, when would it be? (Also including now, if that's how you feel)... But more specifically, WHY??? For me, it would be my mid twenties (23 - 28)... I was, for the only time in my life, doing what I love, playing music. In a rock band... The fondest and most satisfying days of my life (It was the early 80's).It has nothing to do with girls on tap... I actually didn't indulge... I was very much in love with my wife and always either went home or back to the motel, when touring. Plus all the other blokes got the clap and I didn't... LOL.But as for having the time of my life (literally), it can't be beaten... And I had a beautiful, wonderful person for a wife that I adored, who was always either with me or at home when I got back... (I'm about to cry now... silly dork!!!) So, what's your's?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    for me it would be NOW. I need some sort of connection now so it would be nice to be able to indulge with someone for a whole weekend. Also, I am more experienced, the kids are pretty much self sufficient, I am more confident with my body image and what I have to offer and I have a great collection of toys, some still in the box that I am waiting for someone worthy to try on, lol.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    The past 2 years for both of us has been the best time of our lives and its not looking like its going to change anytime soon.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    That was a cruisy age. And it matches my mentality.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Most definitely now, same as Ralf. Im really comfortable with who I am and Im happy, have an amazing child and friends, close family, lots of RHP friends, its just a very good time for me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    So beautiful to hear how much your wife meant to you even considering the lifestyle you led. For me it was 1988-91 when I was 22-25I had met my ex when I was 17 and when I turned 22 we went our separate ways In that 3 years I partied hard!! Saw a lot of bands, went clubbing every weekend, discovered one night stands...actually got accused by one guy of being more like a man in a female body because i just wanted to have fun!!When I was 25 we re united and ended up getting married.But that 3 years......

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    At 17 I was niave, found sex (not that I enjoyed it that much at the time) was acting in local productions, singing and doing what I loved - being free and enjoying every moment without thought to the next, I always thought if I could do it again I would be 17 and do things differently. But right now is truly superb. I am free again, love love love sex, enjoy my rhp partners n friends, love my family n friends i have now, my space on the beach is my dream and I'm sure in another 6 months I will have that same carefree attitude that I had when I was 17. And every day I wake up thinking how lucky and grateful I am. Mushy I know but it's the truth. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I left my partner ,bought an around the world ticket and had what I call my Perils of Pauline adventures....the waiters of Europe I salute you :-) xQ

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Option A... February 2000. The month I made a decision that would affect the following 13 years. I would turn back when the road outside of Taree flooded instead of sleeping in the car to drive on through in the morning. Option B... Right where I am now. I have made some of the best friends I have ever had this last year and wouldn't want to change that part of my life for anything, even having to endure the prior 13 years. They know who they are and they are that special to me. SG(Option B is my preference)

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    11 years ago

    I wouldn't change a thing or turn back my life. I've have many life happy events and some sad ones too, great times and funny times, however my experiences have made me who I am today. I'm optimistic, so I would say my future is looking pretty awesome as well. :) Ms.Foxy.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    In my opinion we all have a special someone who is pretty much responsible for a complete sexual reawakening. Meeting my now ex was like that for me. I felt like I was Kylie and he was Michael Hutchence haha. Not that I was innocent, Id been around....a lot. But, Id come out of a bad marriage, had quite a few years of abstinence and when I met him he blew me away. He was kinky and sexy and made me feel like I was the most desirable woman in the world. I adored him completely and the sex was AMAZING! We've recently split and its been killing me. I'd give anything to have that time again with him and feel the way I did when he looked at me and touched me.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'ralf74' for me it would be NOW. I need some sort of connection now so it would be nice to be able to indulge with someone for a whole weekend. Also, I am more experienced, the kids are pretty much self sufficient, I am more confident with my body image and what I have to offer and I have a great collection of toys, some still in the box that I am waiting for someone worthy to try on, lol. Thanks ralf... As for your toys... Someone worthy??? This has me thinking some very pleasant thoughts... I'm trying to imagine what toys they may be... Hehehe. (Sly Snigger). I have a King-Size room at a 5 star City motel for the M&G weekend... LOL. Just being cheeky... I'm not in your age-range... Hope you're cumming tho'... Love to meet you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Cuckle_shells' .... I have never felt sexier or more settled in my life. I feel like I have grown into myself... Just one man's opinion, but as I began dating and having relationships after being widowed, in my mid 40's. I have found that many women seem to 'come into there own' at least 'sexually' in their 40's. To the point where they are totally different people, in this regard, than they may have been only a few years before. Just something I've found to be the case from those in my generation (Baby Boomers). Yay for the BB's... LOL

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Quoting 'kayjaybee' In my opinion we all have a special someone who is pretty much responsible for a complete sexual reawakening. Meeting my now ex was like that for me. I felt like I was Kylie and he was Michael Hutchence haha. Not that I was innocent, Id been around....a lot. But, Id come out of a bad marriage, had quite a few years of abstinence and when I met him he blew me away. He was kinky and sexy and made me feel like I was the most desirable woman in the world. I adored him completely and the sex was AMAZING! We've recently split and its been killing me. I'd give anything to have that time again with him and feel the way I did when he looked at me and touched me. I DO know exactly how you feel... even if we are different sexes, there's someone in my life also, only the 'awakening was reversed'... I had to let go... Even though the experience of sharing all I had with someone who'd been denied it for a long time and knew virtually nothing (that bit a little different from your time), it wasn't enough for her to commit completely and marry, which was what I wanted at the time. I often wonder, if I'd stayed, would she have come around? or would it still have ended up the same, only with us both resenting each other... It ended 4 years ago and as it stands, she married next month... There has to be a lessen there somewhere, but I'm fucked if I can see it...