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When does it all become too much?
July 07 2013
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sweetgem
12 years ago
With pushy emails or texts for a meet up, then I know I need to say or do something about it! I used to have a man from interstate whom would push for a meet up so hard each time he emailed me, he always wrote things like "it sucks that you're so busy, but good that you're busy now, so you can and meet me in town when I'm there", seriously I was not impressed when I read his message, so I politely told him that I didn't owe him anything. Some people! Lol- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
To be honest it all depends about how we feel about you. If we find you amazing then most things are ok, craving each other, communicating regulary, these things are ok. If you're on my mind and I know you're think about our bodies together, well then this is a massive turn and leads to things that can't be controlled......on the other hand if we aren't really into it then yes, too much texting and the like tends to push us away. A sexy woman that has her own life and doesn't need to cling to a man is the sexiest thing ever for me, a lady that wants me to chase her, seduce her.......thats it !Good luck x
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RHP User
12 years ago
It no longer interests you when it all becomes the same ..In a lot of cases the idea of something casual, new and exciting is such a turn on that you strive for it as hard as you can ..But in the end, by either your choices or her choices it all begins to feel the same ..Same positions, same places and ends up becoming a routine of sorts ..At that point .. It becomes too much ..No matter how many texts, emails or pleads nine times out of ten it will and usually turn out to be a carbon copy of the last time you caught up ..The casual flings that last, are the ones that every time you catch up it feels like a new experience ..Because with those, you really are literally getting something new and exciting every time ..Imagination goes a long way with this .. The better the imagination, the more variety you will get ..I always called it "Friend Burn Out"Can be for any friend for that matter .. If you over do it, you get sick of it ..If you under do it, you get bored of it ..If you get it just right in the middle, it works best :)Just a thought ..PS .. You really should start replying to texts more :p
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'iGrope' If you over do it, you get sick of it .. If you under do it, you get bored of it .. If you get it just right in the middle, it works best :) I do love getting it while right in the middle.
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RHP User
12 years ago
When its not mutual, if you feel a spark and they do and you just let it develop it becomes awesome, mind blowing and almost tantric when you are together. To let your walls down and just be fully as you are with someone and they want the same back, its the best part of life! But if one of the pair is not feeling the same, you begin the spiral of overcommitment and then smothering which leads to inevitable dislike and disconnection from the partner. Great thread though. I hope more people open up and feel comfortable to share their thoughts/fears.
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RHP User
12 years ago
If there is a man/woman that you like (obviously since you're shagging 'em) and that person is so into you It would make me feel wanted, desirable which is a natural turn-on for me But, here's when things might get messy. Many people do not want to commit even when nobody said the L word. So I don't think its boredom but more fear of commitment. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'iGrope' It no longer interests you when it all becomes the same ..In a lot of cases the idea of something casual, new and exciting is such a turn on that you strive for it as hard as you can ..But in the end, by either your choices or her choices it all begins to feel the same ..Same positions, same places and ends up becoming a routine of sorts ..At that point .. It becomes too much ..No matter how many texts, emails or pleads nine times out of ten it will and usually turn out to be a carbon copy of the last time you caught up ..The casual flings that last, are the ones that every time you catch up it feels like a new experience ..Because with those, you really are literally getting something new and exciting every time ..Imagination goes a long way with this .. The better the imagination, the more variety you will get ..I always called it "Friend Burn Out"Can be for any friend for that matter .. If you over do it, you get sick of it ..If you under do it, you get bored of it ..If you get it just right in the middle, it works best :)Just a thought ..PS .. You really should start replying to texts more :pEvery guy likes a new pussy, the chase the anticipation.they are bored with it, when the condom fills upI think you will find a little mark on the side of a condom, read the small print next to that lineIt sayI am bored with you.for meits when I change the sheets,nahhh, I kinda like to keep my fuck buddies, but I never ever ever text a man unless he contacts me first,I just don't get those kind of attachment issues , if i did I would not be marriedhappy at home, the rest is just a little bit of dick and conversation and cuddles on the side.I do not get bored with people, but I do get tired of them if they cant take no for an answer.your right we can get burn out with friends without benefitsbut mostly we are more patient with those people.RhP is about the hook up and then unhookFantasy is much more potent than reality
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RHP User
12 years ago
less is more
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RHP User
12 years ago
I've been through times when sex has has less value to me than I thought it should. It seemed like I was on a roundabout of my own choosing, with people making demands on my time every day, planning my week out on who I was to share time with. Then I thought....... ...... stop whinging fella.... there are plenty of guys who don't have choice.... including the married version of me for 9 years. So I took better control over my time and who I choose to share it with. DG
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mesmerised' Quoting 'iGrope' If you over do it, you get sick of it .. If you under do it, you get bored of it .. If you get it just right in the middle, it works best :) I do love getting it while right in the middle. HAHA !!!I like your input
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RHP User
12 years ago
Q: What do you do when she falls madly in love with your cock? It's not you she's crazy for. It's your cock. Do you .. run? fuck then run? or keep her around to enjoy the benefits? Do you feel envious of the love this cock is getting and maybe wish she would at least pay some attention to your personality?? We all know you guys can be whiny little bitches with self-esteem issues too!
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RHP User
12 years ago
right about Now!
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RHP User
12 years ago
What? Do you mean the point when you realise that cock you've "fallen madly in love with", is actually attached to a human being?.A somewhat shallow. if not ambiguous question.
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Lifes_great
12 years ago
I do, what I want. I date, who I want... And I sleep with... Whoever will let me. You're thinking too much.
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