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Wife having a sleepover

June 07 2017

Would like to know if anyone's wife has had a sleepover with a fuck buddy? If so how did it go?My wife is going to this weekend and wondering if people find this hot or not, I do

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Not hot at all - Posted from rhpmobile

  • DynamicCouple36

    DynamicCouple36

    9 years ago

    It would be dangerous ground. Too much can happen and or go wrong. We are in this together and have been happily married for almost 20 years, and value our marriage. We look after one another. Playing apart is something we just would never do. It's always same room and within arms grasp for us. We know of a few couples that have, and it's impacted negatively on their marriage / relationship. Just be aware of the pros and the cons and ensure that you communicate your feelings both before and after the "event " - Posted from rhpmobile

  • bebes5eva

    bebes5eva

    9 years ago

    But it sounds kinda hot, I think I'd prefer her doing it with a couple rather than a single dude. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Miss has slept in another room with a guy at our place....no problems, but then again we do enjoy the hot wife scenario... we have no issues with her playing alone either this would only happen with people we trust and have known for some time. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    We to like some hot wife fun. She has played with this guy before and I have met him to. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Even before my current situation of being polyamorous :) Some have been really easy going and relaxed and a WHOLE lot of fun ;) Others I found a little awkward what with nerves etc. I like the sleepover that may include a home cooked meal, wine, lots of fucking, afternoon naps, more fucking ... I especially love returning to my hubby who loves all the details :) which leads to more fun with him .... Mary xx

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    9 years ago

    ... with some of the crazies around these days I wouldn't feel right about letting someone I treasure go off alone.. As much as I'd like to see her go and enjoy herself , her safety is far more important...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Would be with very trusted friends and Mr LAL would also have the same opportunities As he travels a lot with work I would love if he found good friends to visit with No issues of it impacting on our relationship Mrs LAL - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    My future partner had better like it 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Over the past 15 years I have met many couples that I have counted as close friends, and with some have built such a rapport that often the husband will ring or message me to ask if I can take their wife out dancing, or a movie or concert, because they are maybe tired, not interested in going out or have different tastes in music to their partner. Often those on those outings there would be fun innocent banter and light nonsexual conversation, and sometimes flirting. The ease of being able to enjoy someone's company without dwelling on the anticipation for physical progression shows the honesty and trust and openness of two people that have cultured friendship From the typically unlikely origins of a married couple threesome. Yet after all that, I've only ever met two couples that were trusting, open and mentally prepared to allow the wife to stay overnight. One of those couples was only twice. But the other couple had an openly agreed open marriage, and her and I while having play together as a group, mainly went out on dates and slept over each other's places frequently, even weekly for over 6 months. I've felt both flattered and honoured to have been trusted in this fashion by both partners in these situations, And I admire a couple that have such intense love and devotion for each other, to make what I even consider a huge decision. I am not at all embarrassed to say that at this stage if I was put in the same position as the husbands, I'm sure I wouldn't feel right allowing it. But it's always going to be opinions and speculation until You have experienced what they have gone through and lived in the shoes. Sorry for the Novel

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Hubby and I play separate, and I have had a sleepover with one guy a few times when hubby has been away. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Do you find the Dynamic different when you have all night to play or just relax? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I love that mrs Fant can meet and play alone with single guys or couples that she finds and likes . It would be so hot for her to have a sleep over with one of her favourite guys or girls . Massive turn on 😀 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    9 years ago

    You're a case , but a Lovable one... 😉 😜 👍

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    We have both had sleepovers but only with people we know well and we're friends with first. Wouldn't do it with a stranger that's for sure! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    yes i had a couple of ladys sleeping over we had a great nite we had the web cam on hubby was watching us fuck he was getting off cant wait to doit again cheers

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Yes I have slept overnight a number of times and hubby is always aware of who I am meeting. For us it is just another aspect of a swingers lifestyle.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    I'm happy to allow my partner to go over sleep over as long as we have transparency, which require lot of trust and openness. There are risks so I make sure person is well known or I'm monitoring the situation and enjoying it simultaneously. I can try to be a guy to whom ladies can come and sleep over with me. Fortunately I'm alone To experiment now. I like some comments asking their partner permission to take her lady with him, that is gentleman approach - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    We both have sleep overs when things align and the timing is right. Sleepovers are much more rewarding as both the physical and mental connections have more time to develop into something much deeper and more intimate.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Totally down with that. Nothing better that a night out catting. We both loove it. You either trust or you don’t, everything else is just camouflage for trust issues. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • lindos

    lindos

    9 years ago

    My wife booked a hotel room to have a sleep over with her lover a few years ago. She went all out putting together a nice meal for him and serving it to him in some sexy lingerie. She had never expressed an interest in staying over with previous guys she had played with and always returned home after the session, but this lover was different. He made her act like a school girl again and he was constantly on her mind which made it hard for her to concentrate on anything else. Even just texting with him would leave her dripping wet. So you would think the thought of her spending a night alone with him would be the last thing I would want. But I was excited for her to spend the night with someone who affected her so dramatically. I think only a few people might understand the excitement I get out of this situation. How did the night go, we'll really well for her. For me it was good and bad ( had an erection for most of the night) but as she was all consumed with her lover she forgot to text me, or reply to my texts or calls to let me know she was alright. So whilst I did have an erection I also had that anxious feeling about her being hurt. ( The fact she also took handcuffs, bondage ropes and some whips with her contributed to the thoughts she may have been hurt.) I think some of the excitement for me is in the danger she might like him to much and like I said before I think only a few would understand this excitement. So would I want her to do that again? I would have to say yes. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Yes, I (the wife) have slept over with a fwb a few times before. I would consider it with someone I'm really familiar with and trust fully. Also very happy to have my husband sleep over, too. It makes for a more relaxed experience to not be concerned with timing but just go with the flow.

  • Powercouplevic

    Powercouplevic

    5 years ago

    Yes this is so sexy ... it’s dangerous ground as my wife would have enough feelings for the other male to want to go this far but that is Half the thrill ! I would certainly trust my wife to do this and absolutely enjoy herself ! Hope it went well!